Women who quit dating and are single , what are your reasons?

[FeatherPlucker]

I know our culture has changed, but the outcome is now you're alone and don't have a family, and you're casting about for a new guy in a sea of trash (though I guess you've given up). To me, "one of the good ones" thinks about the future of the relationship in terms other than "when we get tired of sex with each other and move on to have sex with other people." Or did you never want to have a family?

I'm asking these questions because I don't really understand the mentality of people who never marry and what they want their old age to look like, whether you actually think about it or not, etc.

Sorry for the double post.
For women, there is no guarantee of men sticking around to help us in old age. Men don’t want old wives— they want a new fresh pussy or asshole— and most women with self respect don’t stick around with cheaters. Men demand that women stay and care for them while the men have the “right to cheat”. The men who complain about women NOT wanting to marry want personal maids and sons— they despise women and prefer jacking off to internet porn. Men used to complain about annoying women wanting to marry— but now that it’s harder to afford to live single, and now that they have to compete harder with more men (as in online dating, etc), they want the extra paycheck and a housekeeper and a convenient fleshlight and anus to use (while they watch their porn, their true love). Men believe men have the right to cheat, but women must always stay faithful. Men think it’s okay if they age, but women always have to stay youthful…. If the woman ages, gets wrecked from pregnancy, men feel they have the right to cheat.
Many men who feel powerless desire someone weaker to bully in order to feel a sense of power and control in their lives, too… these guys obsessed with marriage specifically want a woman to bully and abuse. They have no intention of being faithful, loving or cooperative to their hypothetical wife.
Marriage guarantees nothing for women. Many courts grant men alimony and child support and 50/50 custody nowadays/ those who don't bother getting family attorneys for themselves get fucked. I know a LOT of women who have to pay alimony and child support to ex husbands. Many men work under the table or go unemployed so they can fuck the wife over once the split happens- It’s easier for men to get good paying “under the table” work (Construction, etc).
Men routinely dump women once women get sick with cancer and other serious illnesses. The reverse scenario is normally the case when men get sick.
Children are no guarantee of help in old age, either. Elderly grandmothers often die alone in old age homes— the kids only care about what’s left in her IRA.
All of the above scenarios I have seen and heard about many, many times— so, I’m not relying on “feminist propaganda” when I talk about these points, but real experiences.
Oh, and finally— I never hear men speak positively about their wives. Men hate their wives, universally. The ones who desire marriage perceive the issue as “women are worthless compared to men in society, their only function is to serve men’s needs, therefor as a man I am entitled to a personal female to serve me and provide me XYZ services at no cost or inconvenience to me”.

 

[The Ugly One]

Had a LTR a while ago. When it ended (and it was an ugly break up), refused to ever compete with another computer screen again, ever.
Most men are digi-sexual…. Their computers/porn are their primary focus of sexual attraction and preferred form of partner for sexual activity.

Digi-sexual is a good word and this is probably true. Why do you think this is?

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Digi-sexual is a good word and this is probably true. Why do you think this is?

Inability to control themselves, dont pretend that is otherwise. If a man sticks his dick in crazy and suffers the consenqunces its always womans fault not because a man couldnt keep it in his pants. If unwanted pregnancy happens and subsequent abortion its always womans fault not the man who impregnanted them. Accountability is imaginary word in the western moid mind and only used as an accusation towards women, something that even tribesmen in africa understand .

You were never taught its your damn fault for not controling yourself. Nobody puts a gun to your head to goon on 10 year old lolicon getting raped by some monster shit . You clicked , you wanked, YOU, not feminists, not the jews , not the algorithm .
Now fuck off to your hugbox I am tired of your westoid shit takes, the only reason why there is a woman in your life tolerating you is because you browbeaten generation X women that they are faulty beings for being single.

 

[Hubelublub]

a woman in your life tolerating you

this is still a claim without evidence

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

this is still a claim without evidence

He has the most mentally sane takes in there , there is woman somewhere that rolls her eyes everytime he opens his mouth and the only reason she hasnt put him to the curb half of the bills wont pay themselves . He knows it and looking to get something to replace her which to his horror most women prefer to be single than tolerate half of the shit his wife tolerates and browbeating them with "nya nya cat ladies nya nya " doesnt work anymore. Otherwise he wont be malding about western women and the current state of dating . I am guessing his ego wont take the hit and finally take mail order bride pill and partly due to money concerns and partly because westoid women are most naive selfsacrificing retards that will wipe the arse of abusive exes when they are dying just because they were told by others is the right thing to do.

 

[The Ugly One]

You were never taught its your damn fault for not controling yourself.

So do you believe with better education about self control, porn addiction would stop being such a problem?

 

[Baumstriezel]

I don’t particularly want to have children and my libido is somewhat low, so dating has more cons than pros to me. I’m content being the protagonist of my own life. That being said, if a handsome viking with flowing hair and abs of steel came to sweep me off my feet, I wouldn’t exactly say no.

 

[Nicholas Gur]

I'm seeing a lot of mirrored rhetoric to male focused "red/black pill" talking points. Not discounting anecdotes and lived experience I feel stem from a self fulfilling prophecy now rooted in the culture. A lot of this discussion from both sides sound like psyop programing. What I do know is a lot of men seemingly have interest in either automated sex golems, AI female socialization, and even artificial wombs. I'm curious if women are also considering any of these alternatives or are just content in solitude.

 

[Mandy Stroyer]

I'm seeing a lot of mirrored rhetoric to male focused "red/black pill" talking points. Not discounting anecdotes and lived experience I feel stem from a self fulfilling prophecy now rooted in the culture. A lot of this discussion from both sides sound like psyop programing. What I do know is a lot of men seemingly have interest in either automated sex golems, AI female socialization, and even artificial wombs. I'm curious if women are also considering any of these alternatives or are just content in solitude.

Women are proven to fare better single than men, usually due to decreased emotional load, more freedom, and better support networks. I view men who threaten women with the idea of being a single, old cat lady when they're being too "picky" or "prudish" to be self reporting. Loneliness for women in terms of a romantic partner is usually a choice, not a punishment from the opposite gender for poor looks or personality. Of course there are exceptions but most are content in their solitude according to several studies despite facing similar levels of loneliness as men. I'm not sure rose toys count in the same way a female sex robot would or romance/smut novels as a replacement for male conversation compared to an AI girlfriend app, but there is a rise of single women adopting children to parent on their own or having them via IVF since to them, single parenthood is easier without a man involved that they'd also be taking care of.

It does seem like a self fulfilling prophecy. Men have given up trying to be the ideal partner because they don't view "real" women as deserving of it, whether due to manosphere/trad bullshit or 'all women are whores' blackpilling, thus further isolating themselves and resorting to alternatives that can't nag at or reject you for behaving poorly like AI apps, porn, or nineteen year old filipino women. Women do not want angry manchildren for partners, men devolve further into angry manchildren when rejected by women. Incel rhetoric has them believing they are competing with more attractive, stronger, wealthier men that they could never be, taking the blame off themselves, when the reality is they are competing with the peace of singledom and sorely losing.

 

[Thursday]

Oh, and the past few years doubled down my resolve to remain single. It seems as if most men are becoming bi, faggots or trannies—- including the ones who seemed normal and straight 10 years ago. There’s no way in hell I’m wasting my life just to have some dude turn out to be a degenerate rainbow chaser.

It sucks that this is a genuine fear for me now to a point if I detect any faggy behavior from a guy I just lose all attraction and respect.

I've had previous relationships with guys who ended up being gay or gooning to a variety of porn, most notably femboy shit.



Damn difficult for me to just not go full femcel and hate men for being such insufferable faggots in modern times but I am trying.
However any dude into anime now is my red flag.

 

[Blue Flying Leaf]

The worst of it all, you aren't even wrong

 

[JED]

It sucks that this is a genuine fear for me now to a point if I detect any faggy behavior from a guy I just lose all attraction and respect.

I've had previous relationships with guys who ended up being gay or gooning to a variety of porn, most notably femboy shit.



Damn difficult for me to just not go full femcel and hate men for being such insufferable faggots in modern times but I am trying.
However any dude into anime now is my red flag.

100% same with anime and vidya aside from something like playing COD once a week.

I can't stand faggot shit in men anymore even in passing in my life. They all end up being complete children or act extremely obnoxious.

As much as I'd love to find a long term partner with my interests in stupid fandom shit, that's only for women and it'll only be if I date a woman.

(Video Games though are the same all around though. If you have no hobbies outside of electronics and can't disconnect and be an adult I'm going to assume you can't be trusted with adult choices)

 

[Nicholas Gur]

Men have given up trying to be the ideal partner

Not only have they given up, I believe the ideal is based on an outdated model of American economic peak where men realize they can't support a family on a single income working common labor jobs and just assume the pursuit is meaningless and their future has been stolen from them. Propaganda still pushes this model to them and the single parent epidemic has led to a lot of fatherless men who don't have someone there to tell them otherwise.

resorting to alternatives that can't nag at or reject you for behaving poorly like AI apps

This is the issue I'm most concerned with. A generation that grows up interacting with yes men AI will never have to face compromise in social relationships and will immediately withdraw from real life interactions when they receive any sort of natural push back from others.

 

[ZsaZsaBinks]

I’m scared of using dating apps and showing my face. I don’t trust random people online.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

I’m scared of using dating apps and showing my face. I don’t trust random people online.

Show your dick then

 

[Super Guido]

I’m scared of using dating apps and showing my face. I don’t trust random people online.

I don't blame you. Some of the stuff people say online is worse than a dick pic.

 

[Tragon Dirtle]

Yeah growing up alongside zoomer boys was horrible and they're not even getting any better. We're in our 20s now and they're somehow more immature and reckless and coombrained than they were a decade ago (normally people grow out of certain things once their hormones settle and the novelty wears off after puberty?).
The worst part is that when I look at how the gen alpha boys are it makes me realize that I actually had it good compared to what gen alpha girls are currently going through. Those girls are being manyfold more traumatized than the girls in my generation were, and we had it pretty bad as-is. Some of the things they post online about the boys in their schools or the boys that they date or hookup with breaks my heart.

From the man hate thread, but basically this (the first part). I'm a Zillenial, and the emotional maturity is just not developing.

 

[Strawb3rry]

I don’t particularly want to have children and my libido is somewhat low, so dating has more cons than pros to me. I’m content being the protagonist of my own life.

I used to feel the exact same way but after about 15 years of living alone I started to regret it. It just quits being fun after a while.

 

[Fat and Balding]

I accused all of you females of having or wanting to have a boyfriend in the Man-Hate Thread but I guess I was wrong (unless people are LYING on da poll). You are more consistent in your beliefs than I gave you credit for.

It comes down to reproduction. Want to be impregnated and have kids? No? Then it’s celibacy for you, modern woman. And the fact that women have the choice to be celibate now really pisses off the men, who wish we could just go back to the good old days of women having no choice but to get impregnated until they die. Personally, I can not get down with traditionalism for the simple reason that I selfishly want to be independent, play video games and watch anime, and drink a beer on the weekends, just like every man has the right to in the great United States of America.

 

[Baumstriezel]

I used to feel the exact same way but after about 15 years of living alone I started to regret it. It just quits being fun after a while.

Considering your other posts include this

Oldfags... we're all gonna make it.

In this thread, I’ve got the impression you’re exactly posting in the spirit of this thread about women’s reasons for not dating. I hope at least you and

I acI can not get down with traditionalism for the simple reason that I selfishly want to be independent, play video games and watch anime, and drink a beer on the weekends, just like every man has the right to in the great United States of America.

Remembered to pick the last option in the poll at the top of the page.