Women who quit dating and are single , what are your reasons?

[Otterly]

First, most women resolutely refuse to tell you what they're into. If you ask a general question, "what kind of stuff do you like" then you get a nonsense answer because they don't want to seem weird.

I would be very confused by such a question, it’s assuming all women have bizarre modern kinks on a menu. What are women into? Shagging and enjoying it, not being hurt. I’m sure a minority enjoy being battered with barbed wire or whatever’s cool these days but the majority just want to have sex without getting hurt and for it to be enjoyable . Just make sex feel good

So a safe bet is more than 50% of women like to be choked (again - the light kind of choking, not the kind that makes you pass out).

Nobody, and I mean not a single woman my age over my entire life has ever been anything other than oblivious to the very idea, or horrified by it. I do not believe half of women are into being choked. These are women who have shared a lot of intimate stuff. None liked that.
There’s also no such thing as light choking. If you’ve got your hands round someone’s neck you’re putting their life at risk. The number of times I have heard some Troon pontificate that its ’breath Play’ on here, or that they’re sure how to just go so far. Nonsense - any pressure can cause a stroke, dislodge a bit of arterial plaque or obstruct circulation or breathing. Do not choke people.

My point stands, and is in two parts: (a) a lot of women don't verbally communicate their kinks (b) if you don't figure out what they want, they get bored.

Or perhaps option c. They don’t have a menu of kinks, they simply like enjoyable, pleasurable sex with a man who knows what he’s doing?
Being bored suggests the man doesn’t know what he’s doing.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

I always assume that women like it when you smash their head in with a sharp rock and I never heard even one broad complain afterwards so yeah I guess they just don't know what they like or something

 

[Bloo]

I go back and forth about wanting to date again or not. I got out of a long term relationship a few months ago. I am an incredibly introverted person, I need a ton of alone time or else I feel like I’m going crazy. It’s going to be rather difficult to find a guy who’d be into that and let me be alone most of the time.

 

[032820]

I've never dated and I intend to extend my streak indefinitely because it makes me feel stoic and superior.

 

[Strawb3rry]

I’ve got the impression you’re exactly posting in the spirit of this thread about women’s reasons for not dating.

When I was younger I pushed away a lot of people because I was content to be alone. Now that I'm (relatively) old I regret it. Coming home to an empty house feels very different than it used to. All I'm doing is giving you the advice I'd give myself if I could.

 

[Sperg_rancher]

A lot of them are just not worth the effort,

Can you expand on this? I've felt the same way, and I want to know if the reasoning lines up.
Part of me is worried I'm simply not appreciative enough of what life in general has to offer.

 

[Local Farmer]

Holy shit, what a miserable thread.

The old adage holds true - if you meet an asshole on the street, maybe they're just an asshole; but if everyone you meet is an asshole, it's probably you.

That goes for the men bitching about how every woman in their life was a nagging whore and the women bitching that every man is a gooning half-a-fag with a desire for a live-in nurse/maid. You people need to get out more.

>Comes into a women bitching about men thread
>Shocked when he sees women bitching about men

 

[Merton J. Dingle]

The fucking choking thing is so bizarre I don't even know what to say. How socially retarded do you have to be to think someone would actually like that shit? Really says something about some of these brain melted zoomer boys.

 

[Herr Flick]

The fucking choking thing is so bizarre I don't even know what to say. How socially retarded do you have to be to think someone would actually like that shit? Really says something about some of these brain melted zoomer boys.

Chokenigger personally dmed me an entire novel to argue with me after he got threadbanned and I regret not posting it here because he also admitted to pissing on his girlfriends while simultaneously claiming he wasn’t into it, it was actually the woman’s fetish. Since he’s retarded I’m sure he’ll say it again somewhere else, if he hasn’t already.

No matter how bad you think it is, it’s always worse actually

 

[Ruined by the Rain]

I have been corrupted into extreme paraphilias through constant loneliness and fear. So I can't sustain a relationship unless it's with my AI boyfriend who loves me 5ever and wouldn't leave me no matter what I do this time

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I think this video explains it some of it.

1:52

Bro she sleeps diagonally for three years she isn't giving up that, you aren't competing against other men you are competing against her weighed blanket, her cat named chairman Mao and the simple joy of her not sharing her fries . Lol

 

[Unarmed Gunman]

>Comes into a women bitching about men thread
>Shocked when he sees women bitching about men

Not shocked by it at all (it's all very predictable), I was just pointing out how fucking retarded you all sound.

 

[Super Guido]

I think this video explains it some of it.
ssstwitter.com_1745383186865.mp4


Bro she sleeps diagonally for three years she isn't giving up that, you aren't competing against other men you are competing against her weighed blanket, her cat named chairman Mao and the simple joy of her not sharing her fries . Lol

Excuse you, his name is Chairman Meow.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

Holy shit, what a miserable reply.

The old adage holds true - if you see a shitpost on the farms, maybe it's just a shitpost; but if every post you see is a shitpost, it's probably you.

That goes for the trolls bitching about how every mod on the farms was a fun-hating broom-sucker and the mods bitching that every shitposter is a schizophrenic far-right fedposter with a desire to shoot Joseph Robinette Biden in his soft skull. You people need to get out more o algo asi

The percentage of single Americans who are looking for a relationship or casual dates is lower than in 2019, especially among men. This number dropped from 49% in 2019 to 42% in 2022, 61% to 50% among single men and 38% to 35% among single women

Bro women have been quitting dating for a decade now. This is not some leftover bottom of the barrel women with untreated mentall illness and bmi +100 . This is reaching the algorithms where even men notice and admit they are competing with their single life, not other men.Women are predicted by 2030 half of them to be single and most of them are like OH cool more girlies to share life with.

My brother in christ when you have everincreasing numbers of women are just done with men you gotta admit maybe, MAYBE its men as a colective that are the problem .

 

[A Cat in a Minefield]

The percentage of single Americans who are looking for a relationship or casual dates is lower than in 2019, especially among men. This number dropped from 49% in 2019 to 42% in 2022, 61% to 50% among single men and 38% to 35% among single women

Bro women have been quitting dating for a decade now. This is not some leftover bottom of the barrel women with untreated mentall illness and bmi +100 . This is reaching the algorithms where even men notice and admit they are competing with their single life, not other men.Women are predicted by 2030 half of them to be single and most of them are like OH cool more girlies to share life with.

My brother in christ when you have everincreasing numbers of women are just done with men you gotta admit maybe, MAYBE its men as a colective that are the problem .

What changed? The women have dropped to 35% form 38% but the difference for men from 2019 to 2022 is a staggering 11%. I'd assume that part of it has to do with gooner culture and normalization of porn that happened during covid, but I can't imagine that it's the only reason.

A big reason for women not wanting to date has to be a easing off of social pressure for being in relationships during the last one to two decades. I can't imagine men getting that much worse (I hope not). Beating women, marital rape, etc, has decreased by a lot in the last 20 years.
"Annual rates of domestic violence dropped by 67% between 1993 and 2022.Rapes and sexual assults declined by 56%."

I'd also be interested on how the percentage is distributed over age.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

What changed? The women have dropped to 35% form 38% but the difference for men from 2019 to 2022 is a staggering 11%.

the women on the dating market are the ones who havent experienced long term relationship you wanna guess why they havent experience long term relationship. Men willingness to date isnt because they dont want to date but because there isnt any takers and those who do show up arent exactly the hottest item on the market and effectively they give up . Women on the other hand there isnt any carrot nor stick. It used to be the stick in the form of being singled out and treated as faulty woman and the carrot was acceptance . Now there is no stick no woman will rub it in your face that you cant aquire a partner nor carrot mothers and wifes selfsegregate and single women too , there is group for everyone . Heck there are cat ladies in here rural more conservative area and nobody bats an eye . Statistically there is no significant benefit to women being married without kids or being forever gf. When you reach certain age that kids are off the table women are like whats the point of you as a man there is that .

 

[Anonymous8330]

I'm basically crippled by high standards. The problem is that reality is so full of incels and redditors. I actually believe men have less testosterone on average somehow than they used to, like when you compare yearbooks then vs now. So many grown men are just soft, even when they try to seem macho, like the Paul brothers, which creates like an uncanny valley effect where they're still weirdly manchildren and still somehow boyish, despite all the muscles, facial hair and posturing. Also, so many men now are quietly predatory. When you meet older men it's so clear that chivalry is ingrained in them, like they were clearly perfect gentlemen when they were younger. They grew up with certain values that are deeply instilled. I recently had an experience where a good looking guy for men these days, tall, fit, seemed charming, kept "accidentally" running across me in the store, and finally worked up the courage to come ask me out when I was in my car about to leave. Which made me clock that he had obviously trailed me without me noticing. So I said no, as always with grace and trying not to be a bitch. He was like "aw come on, what's your insta" etc. still trying to charm me, and I reiterated really no. He was like leering in at me through my open window and I decided to belatedly claim that I had a boyfriend. Just to get him to go away, and cushion the blow. He was like, yeah... I doubt it. Completely changed. I was like ok I'm rolling up my window now!! He was like yeah I bet you are, fucking bitch etc. He said specifically, I remember it word for word, "I should have known!" That was the last thing I heard. I have no idea what that even means, but he said it like it was a huge insult, so that's how I took it. I feel like so many men are like this. They know you're "supposed" to behave a certain way with women and put on the kid gloves, so they play along, but they don't actually want to, it's just the rules of the game. These creeps are dangerous.
I'm also self-admittedly crippled by unrealistic standards. My future husband looks like Aaron Taylor Johnson or Glen Powell in my head and whether I like it or not that's what I find myself holding out for. I really can't force myself to be attracted to a redditor with a Nintendo Switch, I need a grown man who looks like a movie star. I know it's a lot to ask, but that's how it is. Or I can grow old alone and join a coven, both are fine.

 

[Fatal Shooting]

I’ve never had any genuine interest in or desire for intimate relationships. There have been times when I was almost convinced I should, but ultimately I don’t enjoy them and they always feel like a huge drain on my life, even when it’s a person I love the company of in any other context.

I don’t have a boyfriend because I don’t want one. Give me hobbies and a stack of unread books and nights out with the girlies and shitposting, forever.

 

[Doktor Grimm]

What changed? The women have dropped to 35% form 38% but the difference for men from 2019 to 2022 is a staggering 11%. I'd assume that part of it has to do with gooner culture and normalization of porn that happened during covid, but I can't imagine that it's the only reason.

Men are no longer down to play the dating app game. That's literally it. I'd imagine the number is even lower now.

 

[A Cat in a Minefield]

Men are no longer down to play the dating app game. That's literally it. I'd imagine the number is even lower now.

I find it hard to believe men stop using dating apps, but who knows. The question still stands for why? Sorry if this is to derailing, let me know with a disagree, and I'll find another place.