Why do women lose interest in sex after marriage or committing to a LTR, such as moving in?

[Spiny Rumples]

The thread is about women losing interest in sex after marriage so it doesn't concern me or the insecurities you project onto me, it concerns men who got married than found out the truth. Our grandfathers, great-grandfathers and many generations before them had many many children each without this hyperfixation with physical training and frankly horrendous hygiene.

I agree that it is interesting to have earlier generations with a lower bar, if that is the case.
However, I was responding to the statement that a high percentage of men historically did not pass on their genes. Also working out a few times a week is not a hyperfixation, it is a healthy lifestyle. People need movement along with eating well and sleeping enough. I'm no husband, but I wager that if you are generally healthy and not achy and weak, there will be more positive communication. It doesn't fix everything but not feeling like shit is a good foundation.

How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast this morning? It was the most graphic example I knew of and it wasn't rape. Men in high positions don't need to rape. Extrapolate. I could have used women's documented attraction to serial killers and dangerous men, or how violent criminals are far more successful with young women, or how women tend to stick around with physically abusive men as examples.

Oh, I assumed those cartel people were also rapists. So it's about attraction to deranged and violent men? I definitely know women like that. I am not convinced that is universal among women, though. Some gals are into serial killers like some gals are pedos. Percentages of each are unclear but just because some people are like that doesn't mean everyone is.
However, I think women do tend to like some level of dominance. They tend to be turned off by pushovers. I could see that causing issues in a relationship if the man lacks a backbone and/or can't be a leader that she is inspired to follow.

 

[WelperHelper99]

You are the blackest nog on the porch. A live-in maid can do all that but the value of her work isn't half his property, it's a pre-arranged monthly salary. If a man does his role and earns for the family that is an ongoing 'salary' for the wife doing hers. Very few women do those things today anyway. Even well-meaning women prefer to work instead of housekeep which takes the point out of marriage.

You marry someone because you love them you prick, at least I hope. You make it sound like a fucking transaction like taking money out of the ATM. Women aren't computers you absolute autist. It is NOT input in output out. Sometimes you gotta take care of your woman because she's having a moment, or maybe you're not doing enough and have gotten fat and lazy. I feel this clip explains it better than literally anything ive ever heard:

Listen to martok. Pick your battles and sometimes give a little to get a little.

 

[⚞⛇⚟]

I am guessing that the "dad bod" is a lie designed to make fat people feel comfortable with being lazy and fat and is also the cause of your problem.

 

[Ughubughughughughughghlug]

• Don't give me this sensual eating pussy nonesense. Ever seen a mexican cartel sex tape? Head to the floor, ass up and quivering before the obese tub of lard who just dismembered someone's daughter even has a chance to put it in. No foreplay.

No???? What the fuck are you doing watching this stuff?

 

[Brenda Holiday]

Even well-meaning women prefer to work instead of housekeep which takes the point out of marriage.

Whoever told you this is a fucking retard

 

[urr13 account]

When I was young I thought that ugly people must find other ugly people attractive, how else would they be in relationships with one another? Surely if they didn't find each-other appealing they wouldn't marry or even date each other, right?

What I realized is that the ugly will date and marry each-other despite having zero real desire for one another, it's tragic, really.

But yes, these fat things they marry each-other. And then they rarely bang, after all she is not attracted to him. To avoid hurting his feelings she simply says she has a headache, she is not in the mood, she thinks her hormone levels have changed or something, but truly all the times she banged him in the past was just out of pity or because she wanted kids, she never liked him.

If you want to know if a girl likes you, ask yourself this, "does she want to suck my dick?" if the answer is no then she does not like you, you see if Brad Pitt in his prime showed up she wouldn't hesitate to suck him down faster than Destiny sucks down any mexican manlet within a 3 feet of him.

If she doesn't want to suck your dick, she doesn't like you, and you are in a relationship with someone who is only with you out of pity or because they cant find anyone better and don't want to be alone. If you had any self-respect you would leave the relationship and live as a wanderer, from city to city, you could solve crimes and mysteries as you go, that kind of thing.

 

[Moon Pie]

Women like to feel desired and appreciated. They also need more stimulation physical and emotional than men seem to. I think a lot of times these miserable relationships where everyone is just going through the motions and doing their own thing the problem specifically with incompatible sex drives is men don't care to put in the effort or realize women need more to be aroused than they do. Women feel like they're just being used as a pocket pussy or that their partner just expects them to fulfill their need but not their own. There definitely is extra resentment if the man doesn't do any housework or other things in the relationship, it makes the man less attractive overall.

 

[fiesty fire]

Whoever told you this is a fucking retard

You're saying women today want to be stay-at-home moms and not pursue a career?

 

[Iron Jaguar]

cope like this
is retarded.

I don't even know where to start with this. Do you say it's "cope" because you assume I'm a woman?

 

[Brenda Holiday]

You're saying women today want to be stay-at-home moms and not pursue a career?

More women than it seems like, yes. Its that they feel its impossible, too expensive, or have been peer pressured into being a "girlboss"
Talk to almost any working woman and they'll eventually tell you "yeah I'd like to stay home, but..." and I mean real women irl not random terminally online retards

 

[KingCoelacanth]

They don't lose interest in sex, just sex with their husband

 

[crazedaze]

You're saying women today want to be stay-at-home moms and not pursue a career?

Nigger can't even spell feisty, thinks he can afford a stay at home mommy bangmaid
settle a bet nigger, which ragecel is your main?

 

[WelperHelper99]

When I was young I thought that ugly people must find other ugly people attractive, how else would they be in relationships with one another? Surely if they didn't find each-other appealing they wouldn't marry or even date each other, right?

What I realized is that the ugly will date and marry each-other despite having zero real desire for one another, it's tragic, really.

But yes, these fat things they marry each-other. And then they rarely bang, after all she is not attracted to him. To avoid hurting his feelings she simply says she has a headache, she is not in the mood, she thinks her hormone levels have changed or something, but truly all the times she banged him in the past was just out of pity or because she wanted kids, she never liked him.

If you want to know if a girl likes you, ask yourself this, "does she want to suck my dick?" if the answer is no then she does not like you, you see if Brad Pitt in his prime showed up she wouldn't hesitate to suck him down faster than Destiny sucks down any mexican manlet within a 3 feet of him.

If she doesn't want to suck your dick, she doesn't like you, and you are in a relationship with someone who is only with you out of pity or because they cant find anyone better and don't want to be alone. If you had any self-respect you would leave the relationship and live as a wanderer, from city to city, you could solve crimes and mysteries as you go, that kind of thing.

This sounds like cope buddy. Sounds like a argument to hit the treadmill and start pulling some extra weight around the house. If she married you she saw something once. It's up to you to not let it die out.

 

[Kufungisisa]

Women are made differently?

The fact is a lot of men don't make their female partners orgasm very much (if at all) and eventually become shit stained slobs or whatever.

But even without men: 'lesbian bed death' happens to a lot of couples.

 

[crazedaze]

Women are made differently?

The fact is a lot of men don't make their female partners orgasm very much (if at all) and eventually become shit stained slobs or whatever.

But even without men: 'lesbian bed death' happens to a lot of couples.

This inspired me to do a research.

Fuck, I cannot suggest fagdom as a solution? Unbelievable.
What you really wanna do is stay single, because marriage is absolutely a scam. You're not even married and youre thinking about divorce and not getting sexual service 10 years later. Do something more productive with your time, like, for example, killing yourself

 

[isalaide]

How do you select for high sex motivation?

Peak Farms: angry man demands "how I know someone is thot"

Women with high sex motivation are having a lot of sex. They are not spending every evening in silent contemplation and cross stitch.

 

[community member]

There's no point in reading the body of your OP homie the title already sends you straight to the hilarious bin

 

[Turkroach Couple]

200 misinformed dummies slowly learning together is better than 5 published news articles

Do you have zero irl friends?

 

[The Ugly One]

Women only have sex to keep a man around. She needs to feel she might lose you at any time, which is why you need to start having affairs with her sisters and cousins immediately. This will keep her guessing and constantly horny.

 

[tygressofaera]

You love to hear those stories about how "Noooo but I AM doing everything right! The other person is in the wrong!".

At best people are just stuck in a vicious cycle of "stop doing nice things for each other because the other person stopped doing nice things". And no, vacations, expensive gifts and dare I say even getting fit is basically cargo cult behavior; what would lead the other person to sex is more than the sum of these actions.

Yeah you see a lot of it in dead bedroom communities, like a built up resentment about not having sex leading to a degredation of the relationship in general, which of course does not lead to having more sex. It happens in lesbian relationships too, lesbian bed death. The solution for it is to have good emotional regulation, release resentment, and don't get fat.