Why do women lose interest in sex after marriage or committing to a LTR, such as moving in?

[Troon_Patrol]

Years ago my cousin told me barely a teenager, a woman after having children changes psychologically they are not interested in the passion that was sex and more of a intimate touch more platonic than sexual.

It's been years and most of my friends and family have taken a partner and even more. They all say the same thing, prior to even having kids women will lose interest in sex, some will lose interest in just keeping the house going and become couch potatoes and drag their feet to anything but being treated to a vacation or jewellery. Some still crave physical intimacy but that hour long back rub doesn't lead to sex anymore, they call it a night.

The most concerning part is I'm hearing this from all my male friends. You will find yourself never working harder to financially provide but she won't reciprocate the way she used to prior to marriage. "mysterious medical ailments" will pop up ending date night prematurely just before sex. Trying new things in bed will be a thing of the past.

From a woman's perspective, why is this? I'm not judging or complaining, I see good loyal men keep their fitness routine or even get better, provide for the wife and a year later after marriage she spends all her free time on some electronic device fucking around on social media. Women who are extremely possessive and jealous also seem to fall into this routine of less and less effort into sex or just putting int their fair share of the household.

Why is this? Is marriage just a scam for men? We're all just that dumb?

 

[Cardinal Cardinal]

Biology I guess. Like how a salmon dies after spawning. My sister told me she didn't think she ever loved her husband and i've seen that sentiment repeated here in the femoid circles. The priority was kids with suitable genes and a provided life. For more career driven females the focus is probably just on the kids if she is able to earn enough money to provide.
It's pretty harrowing stuff for a guy. I just assume any relationship I'm in can end suddenly and that's it. Fortunately I've gone through shitty break ups before so its no longer a real threat. Just let me know if you're cheating and I'll try someone else.

 

[Cumeatsioner Gordon]

Yeah marriage is a scam never ever marry, actually don't even get with a woman ever, they have cooties and can baby trap you. Just keep having sex with men and don't ever go near women.

 

[Xev]

From what I've seen the woman works all day, comes home and does all of the house stuff like cooking/cleaning/kids while the man sits around playing video games or doing fuck all. I assume the woman is A. Tired and/or B. Resentful. Division of labor affects sexy time. Also, try not being shit at sex.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Years ago my cousin told me barely a teenager, a man after having children changes psychologically they are not interested in washing their ass anymore and just let the poop fester in their bumcrack and leave skid marks in their undies.

It's been years and most of my friends and family have taken a partner and even more. They all say the same thing, prior to even having kids men will lose interest in washing their bums. Some will lose interest in romancing their wife, complimenting her or showing her appreciation for all the things she does for him going and become porn addicts who prefer jerking off to other women rather than make an effort to appeal to their wife and drag their feet to anything but being treated to blowjobs and sex without foreplay. Some women will still give in but those hour long jackhammer sessions don't lead to orgasms for her and after he cooms he rolls over calls it a night.

The most concerning part is I'm hearing this from all my female friends. You will find yourself never working harder to keep the house, cook and raise his children but he won't reciprocate the way he used to prior to marriage. Suddenly your husband has become another child you have to take care of and there are no more date nights at all. Spending time without the kids will be a thing of the past due to your husband never pulling his weight.

From a man's perspective, why is this? I'm not judging or complaining, I see good loyal women keep their fitness routine or even get better, cook, clean and bear children for their husband and a year later after marriage he spends all his free time playing videogames and jerking off to OnlyFans. Men who are extremely possessive and jealous also seem to fall into this routine of beating the shit out of their wife.

Why is this? Is marriage just a scam for women? We're all just that dumb?

 

[Salty Squid]

whine whine bitch bitch mordern wimmins are more interested in being treated like human beings and having a social life instead of being isolated fleshlights for me and my homos homies kiwifarms plz help : (((((

 

[Major]

Half of marriages end. This is one of the reasons.

Moral of the story: people are dumb apes.

 

[Iron Jaguar]

The reason your wives don't want to have sex with you is because you are bad at it. Women absolutely continue to want to have sex with men who can deliver.

 

[Clamater]

sounds like you don't know any real pussy eaters

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

Why was your cousin discussing sex with a child?

 

[Otterly]

Where can I get an hour long back rub please?

 

[Overwritten Tapes]

Isn't this board meant for women posters only?

 

[Sonic]

Nobody in this thread has even stopped to think that maybe a man plays a role in that as well. You get comfortable, and then you get fat and complacent because you finally scored a peice of ass. A couple years of being your woman (the only one obligated to put any effort into the relationship) can really take a toll on them. Why bother if your partner doesn't bother?

None of you stupid niggers is capable of cleaning the entire house, maintaining a healthy physique while also maintaining your mental stability at the same time. Most of you niggers who complain about their not being anymore "traditional" women out there couldn't financially support one. You wouldn't be on the Kiwifarms if you did.

 

[crazedaze]

We've been told you it's because men are shit in bed and don't do the housework. Niggers need to stop pretending they don't understand some shit they dont wanna understand. Also noone will ever marry your ass so don't worry about it

 

[Broadside]

Women put on a show to catch the man they want. Once they've caught him they don't have to put effort in anymore. Women largely see sex as a means to an end.

 

[Otis Mallebrok]

One possible scenario could be, that your friends are fat, selfish and lazy and that they treat their wives as maids? And now their wives are dissapointed and resentful?

It's pretty harrowing stuff for a guy. I just assume any relationship I'm in can end suddenly and that's it.

That's true of all things in life. Appreciate what you have and don't take anything for granted. Send flowers to your mum today.

 

[Mandy Stroyer]

Really telling that there's men in here answering a question they posed to women while shitting on the women giving them the same, honest answer.

 

[Dyn]

That's just what you get for not marrying a BPD. Sucks to suck I guess.

 

[Polystyrene Glioblastoma]

I don't understand why you would marry someone if you cannot have a friendship within the marriage. It is like there is a barrier between many married couples and a lack of understanding that causes so many avoidable problems.

If your wife does not want to have sex or is depressed you try to help her figure out what's causing the issue and support her. It could be a hormonal problem she is experiencing, just like men can have. She could be exhausted or unsatisfied, so she doesn't even want to bother. People's sex drives can vary drastically, but can also be improved.

From what I understand, women appreciate thoughtfulness and sensuality in their sexuality more than men do. Men should learn this. Good sex is meant to be a empathic connection and release from a build up of suspense, playfulness, passion, and desire. It is difficult for women to be turned on if you view sex as a salami-fisted utility.

You either solve the problem, compromise somehow, or leave if lack of sex is that bothersome.

 

[fiesty fire]

I'll keep this brief because you retards are to copium like niggers are to crack.

• Genetic data shows that only 20-30% of males ever got to reproduce vs 70-80% of females.
• Just observing the kind of men women associate with before turning 30 gives you a good idea of the kind of men they like.
• Don't give me this sensual eating pussy nonesense. Ever seen a mexican cartel sex tape? Head to the floor, ass up and quivering before the obese tub of lard who just dismembered someone's daughter even has a chance to put it in. No foreplay.

Women aren't attracted to a sub-80% man. Not viscerally.
Marriage was used to level this difference in perception of attractiveness between men and women.
This only worked because women were dependent on man's provision and status and the laws didn't favor her.
Nowadays a woman is entitled to half your shit the second she's married to you, if not before, so your provision is guaranteed.
Why would a woman in that situation continue having sex with you if she already has what she came for and its assured by law?