How do men make friends as adults?

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How to make friends: Get a dog and a rifle. Now you don't need friends and if potential friends are approaching you have the tools to drive them off your property. This only works for men and I don't know what the female equivalent would be, maybe a cat and percocet?
 
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How to make friends: Get a dog and a rifle. Now you don't need friends and if potential friends are approaching you have the tools to drive them off your property. This only works for men and I don't know what the female equivalent would be, maybe a cat and percocet?
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All the male friends I've bonded with have started with a shared interest like a hobby or sport, and then progressed when we realized we both like to make nigger jokes and jew jokes.

That's really pretty much it.
 
I'd say around 90 percent of my friends I hang with on a regular basis are drunk dudes I met at the pub, while drunk.

Just random encounters like accidentally knocking and spilling a guy's drink, talking shit with the guy next to you while waiting for the bartender to bring the next round, etc. I dunno, shit just happens and friend is made.
 
Met a new dude at work, temp worker for the holiday rush, one legged, older, but the dude is super chill.

Bonding with him talking about games and barbecue.

Holiday rush will end, he'll leave, but I won't forget this cool dude.
 
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How can I make friends over my favorite activity if my passion is SLEEPING???
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Sleep around more.
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Met a new dude at work, temp worker for the holiday rush, one legged, older, but the dude is super chill.

Bonding with him talking about games and barbecue.

Holiday rush will end, he'll leave, but I won't forget this cool dude.
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Once there was a temp guy at a place I worked at, he was there over the summer(plus a six month contract afterwards) and he hung around me, invited me to some things because he had connections in the club scene and openings of this and that, we went out to lunch together... On his last day we smoked a cigarette after work and he said "this might be the last time we ever see each other" and I said 'yeah'.
Decent dude otherwise.
 
True and Honest man here

I'm not at all sports inclined so clubs usually have a pretty high success rate for friends. Most recent move allowed me access to a nearby indoor archery range which has provided me two friends who are absolute Chads when it comes to the art of the bow and arrow plus they're pretty normal. We have monthly group dinners whichvis nice. When I was a young adult and at the tail end of the scouts I was in my city's HAM club which I still get Christmas cards from some of its members who I talk to from time to time.

If you're hunting for Beautiful Prince Disorder bearers, I recommend any pop culture media conventions Ala comicon which is my favorite people watching event.
 
I did actually try a friend meet up group thing on Facebook. Bright news, as far as I know I was not murdered. I met a girl at a park where we just talked about stupid things the most notable was the Bioshock franchise, Vintage cars and old jobs. We talked a couple more times and I met up with her but I kinda pulled back because of two things. One she was a thrill seeker who liked rollercoasters (I very much dislike) and she wanted to party at clubs (Im not a big fan of the music played and drinking under the table). She also kept bringing up an ex-boyfriend who she missed and it didn't usually happen in any context. I ended up being the asshole who drifted away from the other person. But what I'm really getting at here is I did do that and it worked and would probibly do it again if there was another. I did have another person with me at the time so at least have another person with you or someone who knows your location I guess.
 
For true and honest men the stars have to align for some and others like myself it is circumstances that bring like minded bozo retards like my IRL friend group together. I met my two best friends working my first job at Mc' Donald's about a year after high school. It was the hardest job we ever had and still is despite working at a factory in the quality department. I was always in the "initiator" position that did all the bun toasting and putting the sauces and toppings the neighbor cattle asked for down to a cheeseburger with no cheese (a hamburger would have been cheaper but he insisted it be rung up as a cheeseburger for some reason, it was probably one of those poorly thought out "food hacks" to get fresh food from Mc' Donald's....you can specify that you want it fresh believe it or not!). I had all the opportunity to chat with everyone during down time or when I was slacking off without making someone mad. What started as a few fun memes among work friends slowly turned into hanging out in the parking lot after work to shoot the breeze to an eventual invite to a friends home to play guitar hero. Sadly there was no guitar hero that day because the controllers could not be found. We were all cool enough to stay in contact once we got real jobs and one of them is my room mate (or "flat mate" for you barister bongs). They are true friends, not the friend list kind because we were in the same school or had a few fun rounds with in a video game.
 
As a passing normie. I'm decently social but I definitely keep my distance esp personally with CO workers etc. It's got longer to make friends as I age but now we tend to have such a rapport before we're friends we kinda get how we disagree or see things differently.

Two examples, I have a co worker who I always felt was "kinda there" I'd be polite but that's it. Well long story short he mentioned to my work wife, he's struggling with an unhappy relationship. She says "basso fucks all the bitches and could help" with out me offering...

So we get to talking, I save him from a real bad move and he's got a new gf and life's good. He's into normie stuff and Vidya esp war thunder so he tells me about that and I'm big into mil history and I fly so it's fun we compare. Very different people but we became friendly. He's good people we've had dinner parties and stuff.

Other case is Mrs basso's best friend. I've known her for ages but always us friendly because Mrs basso. Well past year or so I guess she wanted to be closer at first I found it odd because she's finally got a steady man. It was almost a worry at first. It was simple now 95% her male interactions are with her BF as a straight normies she needed a safe man for guy stuff. We're like siblings now just took time to grow.

Best way to make friends as mentioned before is thru sports, hobbies etc.

It's awful in ways car people suck and I hate them. Gun people are all retarded and want to ramble about politics camping people are all faggot hippies and economicst are medically retarded or alkys.

Ok last part is just some humor. But my best advice is thru something and just take your time and relax be friendly and friends come.
 
Expensive hobbies like guns, motorcycles, and cars tend to be where you'll find good friends and absolute retards.

Camping doesnt have to be too expensive, and if you get the basics down, you can join up with a camping/backpacking trip. Most outdoors stores host them and they arent too expensive. You might be able to find one dude or a gal you mesh with, and can go from there.
 
Actually in regards to pricy hobbies bringing the worst and best. I have not met a fellow scuba diver who I'm not instantly friendly with. We may have totally different lives views etc but something about the hobby everyone is chill.

Even the gear snobs it's just friendly banter, those who traveled more just want to share ideas and experiences never brag etc.

To be fair I have my advanced rescue cert, so probably everyone is really fucking nice to me just incase they need my ass 75' under water lol.

Either way I stand by the best way to do it is take your time and be social through a hobby.
 
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