I apologize for the :powerlevel: but I used to be sort of a casual Goth in middle school and high school, and even then, I always found the hardcore Goths to be cringe-inducing.
Especially the older ones who were around during Goth's heyday in the 80's and 90's and refuse to grow up and let go. Those types are the worst, especially if you're playing RPG's with them.
Yeah, I loved to dress up in all black and liked grimdark stuff back when I was younger, but you gotta grow up eventually.
On a more general note, Goth and Emo both seemed to have died out in the late 2000's and early 2010's. Hot Topic now caters to the nerd and hipster crowds instead of the Goth and Emo clientele that put them on the map, and it seems that hipsters and SJW's are the new pretentious youth subculture du jour.