🌟 Internet Famous Jared Knabenbauer / ProJared / SinJared, Heidi O'Ferrall / AtelierHeidi & Holly Conrad / CommanderHolly - Divorce Fiasco, trashfire extraordinaire

Who is the most "specially gifted" member of the gang?

  • Jared

    Głosy: 1 129 36,8%
  • PBG

    Głosy: 620 20,2%
  • Holly

    Głosy: 754 24,6%
  • Heidi

    Głosy: 478 15,6%
  • Null

    Głosy: 1 391 45,3%
  • Ross

    Głosy: 165 5,4%
  • Nulyu

    Głosy: 52 1,7%

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- Primary partner is #1, meaning if they aren't comfortable with something for any reason, it stops.

This is a prime example of why, even with these rules, poly never works.

She proposes poly and gets an agreement from him.

She develops a secondary relationship on the side, by her own account, develops feelings.

He develops a secondary relationship on the side, and as soon as THAT relationship develops feelings, she goes and calls everything off and demands everything be shut down.

They want the right to do shit they would NEVER be okay with their partner doing, but want to simultaneously reserve the right to shut it down if their partner starts doing the same thing.

Degeneracy.
 
Hey, at least 14 years is longer than most non-poly marriages last these days.

Except Poly marriages don't exist. The definition of marriage comes from the ancient french "mariage" and the definition is the same all over the developped world. The definition hasn't budge for centuries : it's the "union between two persons", more often than not, a male and a female. You can go back even harder and track down the latin roots of the words to "maritare", which also means the union of a male (marito) and a female (marito) through a "maritus" act.

I'm sure a proper definition isn't enough for you, so let's just get to the undisputed fact that poly marriages are forbidden in the US, in 90% countries of Europe, in Russia, in China, in Australia and so on. Even fucking Canada forbid it. So, going by the vast majority of countries in the developped world, what you call poly marriage doesn't even exist and is certainly not recognized by laws. Maybe you can try your luck in some third world countries where people eat mud and ants.

What you call "poly-marriage" is just a married couple giving up the fundation of what makes a marriage. It's not a marriage anymore.

Everyone will eventually got bored of fucking the same person. That's not rocket-science. Eva Longoria, Halle Berry, Sienna Miller are all attractive women we'll never touch, and yet, they got cheated on by their ex-husbands. Just imagine what your average joe think internally about his average wife. That's where love come in effect in a marriage and why we're not baboons. If you love the other person, you go past your animal instinct and share a mutual bond. If it doesn't work anymore, it's fine, just divorce on good term and start a new life. Your poly decadent stuff though ? Keep that for animals.
 
tbh the circlejerk is why i stopped even looking at that trash site
I quit browsing it when they didn't have the balls to put the Kelly Jean thread back up after being threatened with legal action. Regardless, their Sheena Duquette thread has some speculation that she might have hooked up with Ross on the side a few years back, after Sheena's husband died.
 

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Except Poly marriages don't exist. The definition of marriage comes from the ancient french "mariage" and the definition is the same all over the developped world. The definition hasn't budge for centuries : it's the "union between two persons", more often than not, a male and a female. You can go back even harder and track down the latin roots of the words to "maritare", which also means the union of a male (marito) and a female (marito) through a "maritus" act.
Holy shit the autism lmao. Whipping out those definitions. Are we in middle school again?

People get married for various reasons, legal benefits being one of them. I don't understand why my friend should divorce her husband if they are happy with their situation. Their life isn't affecting you so why do you care? If it ends up not working out, whatever, but they have been together for 14 years which is much longer than most of the people I know that got married and kept things mono.

I don't even really fucking care about this anyway as poly isnt for me, but my point was that I think can work out in some rare circumstances. Those circumstances were not Jared and Heidi as I feel like going poly to save a marriage is a dumb fuck move and will never work, but if you have two people who are okay with the idea of not being tied down from the start, who see their partner as someone they can spend their life and share that lifestyle with, I don't see the problem??? Some people just like to fuck.
 
"Poly" is usually a relationship where the female has the higher sexual value and wants to sleep around, and she feels comfortable in giving her beta dorky husband the similar freedom because she knows he can't sleep around if he wants to. This situation looks exactly like this. Remember to rate my incel posts dumb.
 
I will never understand poly. In a poly relationship you automatically give up trust just by letting a third wheel in.

If it was actually compatible with normal human behavior why isn't everyone poly and if there's a "primary" partner well that's just a safety corner you can run to when other relationships don't work out. So yeah all I'm getting out of this is "fuck whoever you want as long as I get the legal rights that come with marriage lol".

I know this isn't a poly bashing thread and there are far more nefarious things going on so I won't talk about poly again. It's not necessarily about Projared.

There are various configurations of poly and that makes people believe that they just have to use the right one for them, but they're each just bandaids. Bandaids with razors hidden inside them that cuts the people engaged in it more than it helps them. No, I'm totally not speaking from experience, nor have I been close to some of the most well-known poly people in the world and seen their dysfunctional relationships up close. I would never power level like that.

But they'll stand on their soapbox and pretend everything is great (and they try to do so in a relateable, oh not everything is perfect kinda way), because it's almost a religious mission to them and they're happy with every single person convinced. And it goes on like that for a while, until another one kills themselves over the depression and powerlessness the situations creates for them.


Well marriage already has a 70% divorce rate, maybe if we add some extra rules but you can bang whoever, but I have to investigate each partner beforehand, AND you aren't allowed to catch the feels, that will lower the divorce rate. Idiots.

Feelings aren't a choice and it's inevitable that if you fuck people you develop feelings for some. That's what polyamory means; romantic (consummated) love for multiple people.

So already you're describing an "open marriage" rather than polyamory if feelings are forbidden.
 
I don't even really fucking care about this anyway

And yet you've posted multiple times sperging out because internet strangers aren't applauding your "friend's" Tumblr approved facade of a marriage. You don't care, that's adorable.

On topic though, Jared is a deviant, Heidi is an attention seeker, Holly is gross and I would not share a bed with any of them.
 
Holy shit the autism lmao. Whipping out those definitions. Are we in middle school again?

People get married for various reasons, legal benefits being one of them. I don't understand why my friend should divorce her husband if they are happy with their situation. Their life isn't affecting you so why do you care? If it ends up not working out, whatever, but they have been together for 14 years which is much longer than most of the people I know that got married and kept things mono.

I don't even really fucking care about this anyway as poly isnt for me, but my point was that I think can work out in some rare circumstances. Those circumstances were not Jared and Heidi as I feel like going poly to save a marriage is a dumb fuck move and will never work, but if you have two people who are okay with the idea of not being tied down from the start, who see their partner as someone they can spend their life and share that lifestyle with, I don't see the problem??? Some people just like to fuck.

I do care because I understand what a marriage means, how it helped us, as a specy, to grow powerful societies that lasted for centuries and I simply value the idea of creating a physical bound between two humans. A physical bound nature built us for. Do you have two dicks ? Two pussies ? Can you procreate with two people at the same time ? No.

I don't know your friends personally, I bet they don't even exist and you're just promoting your decadant lifestyle, but if they do exist, I can imagine what a clusterfuck they life is and if it's - surprisingly - not, they're more the exception than the norm. Like I said earlier, name me one powerful and developped society that wasn't built around the marriage of one woman and one man. If your poly-decadant lifestyle is normal and healthy, why was no powerful society built around it ? Societies have rules and so far, the most powerful and developed ones forbid poly-marriage.

So far, polyamour is something rampant in autistic communities and it's always about the same persons, let's not lie. Heidi and Jared are a good exemples. I've yet to see a successful, healthy and inspiring couple living that decadant lifestyle. It's always about your pink-haired, non-binary legbeard, covered with tattoos and a ring in their noses. Do those people inspire you ? Do you think they're what make us strong as a western developped society ? Nope, they're just the reason Isis want to behead us.
 
Seriously read all 20+ of her tweets and Holly looks crazy. None of those tweets from "Heidi" (no proof) even look that bad. It comes across as Heidi trying to appease her husband by going poly and he abused it.
 

As strange as it sounds I feel like Holly, the side chick herself, has been the smartest one out of the main players involved. She did her bit of damage control during the initial blowout and then we haven't heard a thing from her since, not even after the resurrection of this whole dumpster fire.

...I'm going to jinx it, aren't I?

Huzzah, I jinxed it once again! Damn I'm good.
 
Seriously read all 20+ of her tweets and Holly looks crazy. None of those tweets from "Heidi" (no proof) even look that bad. It comes across as Heidi trying to appease her husband by going poly and he abused it.
I disagree. From everything we know Heidi is the one who wanted the open relationship, but then freaked out when Jared decided he wanted to fuck the ugly bird woman.
If you don't see anything abusive in those texts, wew. If those are legit, Heidi's a complete psycho.

But that's what makes this situation fun. We've got a hysterical, psychotic thot; a cheating (as in, she cheated on her husband) bird-bitch; and a cowardly youtuber who may or may not have exchanged nudes with literal children. It's a complete clusterfuck. They're all retards.
 
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