- Dołączono
- 3 Maj 2019
- Primary partner is #1, meaning if they aren't comfortable with something for any reason, it stops.
This is a prime example of why, even with these rules, poly never works.
She proposes poly and gets an agreement from him.
She develops a secondary relationship on the side, by her own account, develops feelings.
He develops a secondary relationship on the side, and as soon as THAT relationship develops feelings, she goes and calls everything off and demands everything be shut down.
They want the right to do shit they would NEVER be okay with their partner doing, but want to simultaneously reserve the right to shut it down if their partner starts doing the same thing.
Degeneracy.