Why are "bisexual" women so exhausting?

[Feral Postie]

The overlap of vocally bisexual women and "not like the other girls" women is huge, but it's the same problem with any other group of people: the normal ones aren't loud and therefore they get forgotten about in discussions.

 

[pentangle]

On top of that, despite me trying to be "open minded" back then, I was never going to be able to get over my disgust at the possibility of becoming intimate with a man who enjoys getting fucked in the ass by another man. I don't understand fujos, maybe it goes without saying.

I don't think fujos actually find literal gay men (or gay sex) attractive - I think they like yaoi because most media can't write remotely interesting women characters, so a ship between two fleshed out, equally compelling characters strikes them as more romantic. I doubt most of them are picturing dicks going into hairy male buttholes or anything.

In any case, I agree re the disgust. The phenomenon of fat burly redditor power lifter guys flexing how much they love being fucked in the ass by their skinny non binary gfs truly disturbs me for this reason.

 

[The Feline Solution]

We’ve all gone gay for political clout at least once

I'm not sure if i should ask what you even mean by that but i will anyway.

 

[The Feline Solution]

I don't think fujos actually find literal gay men (or gay sex) attractive - I think they like yaoi because most media can't write remotely interesting women characters, so a ship between two fleshed out, equally compelling characters strikes them as more romantic.

Absolutely agreed. Real gays are nothing like the gays in their chinese comic books, a fact many a pooner has already learned the hard way.

 

[Lady Bizness]

I doubt most of them are picturing dicks going into hairy male buttholes or anything.

Whatever do they do when they poon out and decide to visit a bathhouse or sex club?

 

[The Feline Solution]

Whatever do they do when they poon out and decide to visit a bathhouse or sex club?

From what i read in various threads on here they are getting reduced to tears in mere minutes by faggots calling them out for being women who they are not going to fuck. Pooners somehow have a hard time understanding that fags are into dick and man ass.

 

[California Newt]

@pentangle

I think it's also just because men reward women for expressing sexual interest in other women (e.g. many find it attractive), while nobody thinks a guy wanting to get bummed by other guys is flattering. So straight women have more incentives to lie about being interested in other women, while gay guys have more incentives to lie about being into women - both groups end up claiming to be bisexual, but the former is just straight and the latter is just gay. LGBT calculus is something else.

Openly bisexual men experience the world as an atomized existentialist void. Half of the non-physical appeal of women is in their ability to help you put roots down (I don't just mean pregnancy). They're there for when you've already found meaning, not for when you're still looking for it (becoming a man).

The kinds of men who identify themselves as bisexual, and who see no issue with that, live their lives on a never-ending black frontier. Women are not frontiersmen; they help build and maintain the camp once the men stake out a plot of land, but there's no stable land for these men.

In other words, it's partially an issue of the incoherent LGB+ affirming paradigm stunting their maturity.

 

[conodont]

bisexual women are just straight women who want to be unique. it's not that complicated

they're even worse than trendsbians since they prob want a boyfriend

 

[Merton J. Dingle]

Sounds like the OP is just describing anyone of any sexuality that repeats Democratic, corpo-influenced talking points; the most cringeworthy thing mentioned about that woman is that she's so brainwashed into thinking those people are looking out for her that she literally has a tattoo of a politician (And no, I'm not implying that the right not just as cringeworthy).

 

[cybertoaster]

who dated the most stereotypically white white guys ever

Was she white? if so then what's weird about it? more weird is those black girls screeching about white people then getting pipe'd by the whitest mf they can find.

Then she decided she needed lgbt clout

then dumped them unceremoniously and immediately went back to dating men once she got her professorship

There's your answer, clout can get you places.

of the desperation a pick-me

Never seen a truly desperate pick-me, they pretend a lot to fish for simps and it shows but really unless you're FDS-levels of dating autism you can throw a rock and find a man.

 

[supremeautismo]

There is a lot of overthinking in this thread.

> Men are hot
> Women are hot
> Men are violent and scary
> Women are psychotic and scary
> Non-violent, kind man = found
> Non-psychotic woman = ???
> Get man, have babies, be normal
> ???
> Profit (The cycle of life continues)

I feel bad for straight men and lesbians. I’m glad I have a man who loves me— ain’t no amount of pussy worth the pain. It’s pretty telling how every other bisexual woman I know agrees.

 

[UselessRubberKeyboard]

I know a few “bisexual” women who absolutely only do it for the gender clout. I know a couple who just are and things happen however they do and so be it. I just feel bad for lesbians who get treated shitty by the former type, so they end up thinking the latter will be pointless too. It’s a shame all round.

I do get a bit annoyed when lesbians claim bisexual women are no longer bisexual if they have a long-term relationship with a man. It’s always the attitude of “yeah, they were just straight and faking”. It’s cool to dictate other people’s sexuality to them nowadays, I guess - see troons and “my wife is a lesbian, who knew!”. Sir. Please.

 

[supremeautismo]

It’s cool to dictate other people’s sexuality to them nowadays, I guess - see troons and “my wife is a lesbian, who knew!”. Sir. Please.

Lesbians have been exclusionary forever. I almost have sympathy for troons, as True and Honest lesbians are so outwardly aggressive to them (rightfully so.)

They say they’re progressive for hating men (the thing every woman bonds over, especially straight women) , as if they invented it.

They bemoan TIFs who detransition because they’re “bad for the movement,” not because their clits are engorged and horrific.

They hate bisexual women for inevitably leaving them for a dude, as if it isn’t obvious the “lesbian uHaul” stereotype is real, and annoying as fuck.

tl;dr Lesbians are annoying, but at least (most) aren’t predators, unlike gay men & troons. For the most part

 

[California Newt]

tl;dr Lesbians are annoying, but at least (most) aren’t predators, unlike gay men & troons. For the most part

Are we sure they're not just bad at it?

 

[Moon Pie]

There is a lot of overthinking in this thread.

> Men are hot
> Women are hot
> Men are violent and scary
> Women are psychotic and scary
> Non-violent, kind man = found
> Non-psychotic woman = ???
> Get man, have babies, be normal
> ???
> Profit (The cycle of life continues)

I feel bad for straight men and lesbians. I’m glad I have a man who loves me— ain’t no amount of pussy worth the pain. It’s pretty telling how every other bisexual woman I know agrees.

Sex with women is better, but settling down with men is way easier.

 

[The Internet Dick]

Intersectionality, with its myriad sexual and racial categories, is a point-based power acquisition game requiring constant positioning and repositioning for personal and professional advantage, which in this case means an incessant struggle to attain higher placement on the progressive stack, with white heterosexual males at the base of the stack, the poor bastards, and straight white women just above.

I would guess a significant number of troons--especially those who identify as pre-op MtF 'lesbians'--are straight white men attempting to game the game.

No one who plays this game is authentic in any meaningful sense. They're all liars and poseurs. They don't see themselves this way, of course, which makes their lack of self-awareness even more pathetic.

 

[dick brain]

Because they're women.

 

[Flaming_Barghast]

The amount of women i met in my life who claimed they are bi but never, ever dated women and only did attention-whoring stuff like kissing their bestie in front of me and the lads when drunk makes me question if legit bisexuality even exists. Everyone knows bi men are just faggots in denial and/or sexual compulsives.

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It's a thing, just incredibly rare.
I've dated both men and women, I dated men more only because most of the women in my area weren't my type and too progressive for my taste.
It's already difficult for a lesbian to find a non left gf, even harder if you're actually bi because everyone assumes it's a phase.
Runs in my family, too. My mom, grandmother and great grandmother all secretly liked women, it's just more difficult to find one if you like both.
If you date a man, you wssentially need to hide it if you don't want to attract fetishists that just want a 3way with another girl.

Bisexuality, ironically, seems much more prevalent in men. Low standards, all that. But I have known quite a few bisexuals of both, and the """"bisexuals""""" were always women.

One thing people misunderstand is that you truely like them evenly, you don't. Physically I'm more attracted to women, romantically, I mesh better with men. It's frustrating because I have been with and wanted to be with more women, just had terrible luck with it.

 

[Piggle-o]

Bisexuality, ironically, seems much more prevalent in men. Low standards, all that. But I have known quite a few bisexuals of both, and the """"bisexuals""""" were always women.

It's a different kind of bisexuality, whatever it is. I don't even find men to all be the same kind of bisexual. There's that romantic axis you mention, as well as something like personality or sexual presentation not being attractive to a given sex.

There's certainly the image of the bisexual man (indiscriminate or desperate), but more of them are "gay" and that doesn't appeal to women.

 

[Rotting Femcel]

They just wanna be one of the queer ones without completely ostracizing them from moids. They just use other women for attention so moids will be jealous.