What's your negging story? - Because every woman has experienced it once

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DespotCTM

DespotCTM

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21 Sie 2016
As the title says because I want to talk about this weird shit with other women.

Here's mine:
Few years ago I became friends with a friend of a friend and we talked a lot about vidya. Started hanging out a few times and it was fun.

So I think that we were just friends and I made it clear in actions and words that I just wasn't interested in romantic relationships. He never hinted at wanting one either

One night we were talking about favorite spec combos in Dragon Age and that fucker started to ask for nudes, I said no and tried playing it off like "you don't want to see that, trust me" but no. Tried to "you sent yours I sent mine" me and not to be rude but he was smelly, kinda balding and wasn't fat but he was this..flabby, pale body that reminded me of a slug.

He went fucking off and told me that I wasn't all that and should feel honoured and grateful that someone wanted my nudes/I would be a lonely bitch/Why wasn't I interested in giving him my subpar nudes etc etc. It went on for close to an hour until he finally dropped it

Turns out he never said a word to the rest of the group but damn he was such a pissy little bitch every time I disagreed with him on anything lol when I and another guy disagreed on something he said and he pm'd me telling me I betrayed him and how dare I and he'll remember that. Basically told him "no u" and he went off again and blocked me. He appearantly still talks with that other guy who disagreed with him
 
DespotCTM powiedział(a):
"you don't want to see that, trust me"
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Never say this ever. Moids feed on any potential insecurities and will throw it in your face immediately if you don't do what they want.

Negging should always be reciprocated with a hearty kys.

You should have dumped all those DMs in the group.
 
DespotCTM powiedział(a):
He went fucking off and told me that I wasn't all that and should feel honoured and grateful that someone wanted my nudes/I would be a lonely bitch/Why wasn't I interested in giving him my subpar nudes etc etc. It went on for close to an hour until he finally dropped it
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You’re either a slut whore who deserves to have her nudes shared around with everyone in the gc or a prudish lonely bitch cunt who led his poor heart on. I agree that dropping a kys is the best route to take.
 
A friend of mine who our whole group knew was a bit keen on me said it was endearing that I was "awkward and socially retarded".

No nigga, you are just so deep in the friendzone and ignoring all the signs I was not interested AS WELL AS me straight up saying "ew, no." when you couldn't take the hint, that I am genuinely uncomfortable even talking to you.
 
CorvidFag powiedział(a):
You’re either a slut whore who deserves to have her nudes shared around with everyone in the gc or a prudish lonely bitch cunt who led his poor heart on. I agree that dropping a kys is the best route to take.
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Exactly, it’s not a game you can win. A withering look and a ‘no’ is what’s needed. Add a vague look of disgust if needed.
Back in my day, you’d have called the police on a bloke pestering you for nude pics, or whoever was around you would have staved his head in. I’m still a bit shocked this kind of thing is normalised, and I do not envy younger ladies in this climate
I always wonder WHY they ask. Like are they told this will work or has it worked in the past?
 
DespotCTM powiedział(a):
but no. Tried to "you sent yours I sent mine" me and not to be rude but he was smelly, kinda balding and wasn't fat but he was this..flabby, pale body that reminded me of a slug.
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That's when you just straight up say those things to that dude.
DespotCTM powiedział(a):
He went fucking off and told me that I wasn't all that and should feel honoured and grateful that someone wanted my nudes/I would be a lonely bitch/Why wasn't I interested in giving him my subpar nudes etc etc. It went on for close to an hour until he finally dropped it

Turns out he never said a word to the rest of the group but damn he was such a pissy little bitch every time I disagreed with him on anything lol when I and another guy disagreed on something he said and he pm'd me telling me I betrayed him and how dare I and he'll remember that. Basically told him "no u" and he went off again and blocked me. He appearantly still talks with that other guy who disagreed with him
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Imagine continuing to associate with the dude after acting that way. I don't understand why women do this. 'Oh this person acted like a raging psycho with no ability to interact with another human in a normal fashion. I should keep talking to him and then complain about what a raging asshole he is.'
 
I was at the supermarket and a group of them came in, hands on their crotches, pants sagging to the knee. They made their way to the beer fridge and they not-so subtly started stuffing malt liqour in their jack-
Oh negging stories-not- my mistake, I'm kinda dysleixc.
 
CharcoalChkn powiedział(a):
A friend of mine who our whole group knew was a bit keen on me said it was endearing that I was "awkward and socially retarded".
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A chick in my friend circle tried hitting on me for A WHOLE YEAR, but I did everything I could to act uninterested because she was a walking red flag (accused her ex of being gay because he hung out with his male best friend too often, constantly asked where he was and what he was doing, etc). Eventually she had one of her simps ask me why I'm so clueless around women and if I know how to take any hints. Bitch, you're the one not taking my hint; get your head out of your ass.
 
Grub powiedział(a):
Imagine continuing to associate with the dude after acting that way. I don't understand why women do this. 'Oh this person acted like a raging psycho with no ability to interact with another human in a normal fashion. I should keep talking to him and then complain about what a raging asshole he is.'
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Eh we barely spoke after that until almost half a year later and that was when I 'betrayed' him in the group chat. Honestly his outburst was kinda funny to me sure I was pissed he did that but it was just funny to see him get so butthurt about it.
 
Not one but two men have told me that "no man would want me" if I didn't do what they wanted.

What they wanted:
Number one demanded I give in to his relentless sex-pesting, which meant I drove 40 minutes to go see him because he was a rich motherfucker that didn't feel he needed a car. (Like, for serious, asshole?)
Number two demanded I give up the friends I had long before I met him because he felt I was too "emotionally involved" with them. Well, motherfucker, my friends were there for me when assholes like you decided you could dangle a two-month relationship in front of me and make demands.

Like who the fuck made you the representative of all men anyway? And how interesting is it exactly that what all men would want lines up exactly with you giving up my agency for the benefit of your sorry ass?
 
I'd like to commend the women here for being an inspiration for KF's finest autists
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Law powiedział(a):
Ghosting, blocking and deleting - all good practices.
You don't owe him anything.
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Ghosting gets a lot of people revved up, but frankly, there's nothing wrong with it.

I have encountered plenty of men who probably have no self-awareness about why I wasn't interested, but it wasn't my job to explain what was wrong to someone I just met, and who would take from that: "Oh, I need to do this to keep you" as opposed to "Oh, I wasn't out-of-the-box right for this person, so it was never going to work out".

The best possible strategy sometimes is to disengage because it isn't worth the energy.
 
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