That's what SJWism is doing (and PCism did) that drives/drove me nuts. It holds that if you, as a person, have a problem, it's the REST OF US who need to change our behavior to suit. Independent of context. If you have an irrational fear of the color purple, it's my job to never wear a purple shirt if there's a chance we might randomly run into each other...
Look, I'm sure people who've lost loved ones in aircraft accidents, or survived one themselves, may have a hard time not having painful flashbacks at the sight of a plane, that's human nature. And if I know that, I'm certainly not going to invite you over for movie night and show Fearless, but by the same token, we can't dedicate the FAA to making sure nothing flies within 10 miles of you just to keep from triggering you, at that point, it's YOUR problem.