this isn’t ok - 11/27/20

[Red Mask]

To Becky, her situation is considered a “dream job” because Amber makes more than anyone working at McDonald’s. She has more time to do whatever work she wants to do beyond ALR, she doesn’t answer to anyone(except Amber), things are more on her terms rather than some manager‘s. She gets things that she likes/wants from Amber. If she is being abused, then she gets a lot of rewards for it. At least that‘s what Becky thinks or tells herself.

Compared to many people, Becky is actually fairly privileged and if she wants to keep that, then she simply does what Amber says. And to Becky, that’s better than working at Walmart or a saw mill or wherever she previously worked. To Becky, she hit pay dirt and isn’t about to let that go.

I suspect that Amber encourages the hobbies, the gaming, the tv shows, because that way, Becky won’t ever leave. It’s a gilded cage full of fat and I think Becky is fine with it.

Others would see it as a nightmare. I am very much aware of that. I have also always believed that being trapped with an abuser is a fate worse than death.

 

[deputydogshit2.0]

Ngl, I genuinely hope these two lardasses are sitting around bingeing and getting fatter.

Spoiler alert: they are.

 

[Very Honest Content]

Becky's mom didn't like Amber, no retcon will ever erase that big fat fact. Becky's mom was not a nice person too so her opinion isn't a final arbiter of anything but even a stopped clock is correct twice a day before you bury it in the ground.

No way Amber is shadowbanned on youtube, Phil Burnell would be shadowbanned before her if they were going to hide the lolcows on their site and he's still up as a bearded bisexual in the closet, no way an out bisexual like Amber would be the first to get hidden in the algorythm. This is a nothingburger, Amber's least favorite burgers or all.

 

[Borbie Dahl]

Why WAS FatAl filming in the bathroom? Was she saying something she didn't want the Thumb to hear? Hearing anything about this topic too much for Thumby's tummy? You'd think Thumby might have something to say about this as it is about her dear, departed mother and her monstrous gorlfrien.
And really Al, you're not threatening to anything but a plate of orange chicken Give it up

It’s an odd habit for sure, but Amber spending hours in bathrooms has been ‘a thing’ for long long time. Casey’s mother complained about it years ago, Krystle got after Amber over it, especially because Amber chose Krystles parents bathroom to chill in & make kissy faces in the mirror or practice her camera angle tricks. Whatever the F she does, we know it’s not shower. In Kentucky, Amber was often in Eric’s bathroom if you pay attention to the background of her videos. Why? Idk tbh. Maybe she likes mirrors? I have no clue. I do know however, that when everyone is over Amber & her shit, her hogging bathrooms & stomping around the house at 3am are always the first daggers thrown.
PS...I just remembered that tale she loves to spin about ‘selling’ Girl Scout cookies. An interesting detail, she hid in her bathroom at the group home & ate all the boxes. Huh, well I guess that’s a big part of what she does in the bathroom. Secret eating. While making sexy faces & moaning into the mirror I’m sure. I’d bet money she puts hella lipstick on & kisses her mirrors. Enjoy that mind theater kiwis lol

 

[Situation Type Deal Gorl]

People moralize these things because it makes shitting on Amber easier/more funny/more satisfying, not because they actually believe these things. At least, that's what I do. Deathfat tripped and accidentally grazed a puppy with foot while falling? GASP! PUPPY KICKER! Makes things more entertaining imo.

Moral superiority isn't required if the object of scorn is objectively a terrible person.

I do wonder what the Kiwi opinion on Norma is though. She sounded like she was a smoker and I keep thinking that people like her can be manipulative, and knew that the Voice Notes would be shared. However, what if she is telling the truth? What if she really wasn’t as bad as she was made out to be?

My opinion: I don't think I really care one way or the other. I've seen rural bullshit soap opera crap in the South before and this is just like that, albeit with the addition of fuckingover your neighbors via the internet.

Becky can't do better than where she is now. She'd have to get a job or try living off welfare which is much harder than it used to be. And she'd really have to dig deep to find anyone to fuck her with how she looks now.

It's a job. Don't know if I'd call it a dream, though.

So that begs the question - WHY would Norma send those voice messages to Ann, who she knew hates Amber with every ounce of herself and who is at best a loose cannon, undeniably batshit crazy & never passes up an opportunity to try & bury Amber in sewage? No way Ann was going to sit on those forever or delete them.

If you wanted to get revenge on someone, this would e the way to do it. I doubt she'd have done it for Becky's sake. More like a jab at Big Al without any repercussions, because a) Norma's dead and b) she's dead of cancer, and I've found many people have a tough time dumping on cancer patients in general or people dead of cancer in particular.

Stereotypical hillbilly histrionics at their finest.

Holler life.

What is consequential is the way a petty pig child dispassionately attacked a woman who'd just had major surgery for not being grateful enough for a charitable act she never even did. Water seeks its own level and trash begets trash, and Becky and her pedo fucking sibling have managed to eclipse and outdo the trash from whence they sprang. I have always maintained that Becky is a sociopathic nasty piece of work, and I am delighted she has proven this to be a fact beyond dispute.

I believed Frazzle and I still do. She came with receipts about her scummy exhusband, all of which have withstood scrutiny.

This, for sure.

Her telling Ann to put them out there at X time after her death wouldn't surprise me. Really makes me wonder how many more 'Easter eggs' are out there.

Oh, I hope so. This is great fun.

Which is also why Norma and Amber hated each other. They recognized themselves in each other (unconsciously of course, cause like all Narcs they lack self-awareness).

It's like trying to push the positive ends of two magnets together.

I am not so sure if we will see anymore information from Ann. If I was Ann, I would contact Amber and ask to be paid off to keep quiet. I do not believe that Ann posted this telephone conversation without an ulterior motive and money might be it.

Isn't she married to some rich dude? Even if she weren't, I bet she would prefer the drama over money anyway.

 

[497]

Well its not the first time she paid someone I believe she paid off Eric and Ricky like 10 - 20k to stop him posting tea. I think Ann just really dislikes her and like I said earlier there may of been some conversation with Norma to vindicate Norma and just wreck her. Now if she has pet abuse tea, she is fucked we know pet abuse and youtubers is death sentence. I doubt it but I am curious I assume its money given etc.

I was thinking that too. She might even keep paying the fags off like she does with Dusty to not cause drama to her youtube channel. We all know Eric had some tea to spill and those videos would have brought him in more money than working at Walmart. This is why she becomes people's favorite cow, who else pays people off to stay quiet and not leak pictures of her leaky layygs?

Rafe's comment, all Amber talks about is youtube and food. Youtube means so much to her because it brings in that food money.

 

[Scarboroughgirl]

When she brings up Becky breaking down in the other room it immediately made me think of the stupid "Kai is crying" thing, typical manipulative deflection.

 

[8008135]

I was thinking that too. She might even keep paying the fags off like she does with Dusty to not cause drama to her youtube channel. We all know Eric had some tea to spill and those videos would have brought him in more money than working at Walmart. This is why she becomes people's favorite cow, who else pays people off to stay quiet and not leak pictures of her leaky layygs?

Rafe's comment, all Amber talks about is youtube and food. Youtube means so much to her because it brings in that food money.

I 100% believe the fags were/are being paid off to keep their mouths shut. There is no doubt in my mind.

 

[DefCon Dumb]

The "Becky is crying in another room" schtick was really eye rolling. Is Becky the tough broad she's tried to present herself as & surrounding which we have a few funny GIFs? Or is she so upset, so overwrought by a situation that apparently is no longer an issue within her family, that Amber has to drama whisper about it in another room - like you'd do with a spouse if you were trying to share or discuss bad news without further upsetting a tiny tot?

It's over-served drama. If it's truly not an issue for Becks & fam, they can easily ignore, delete or do whatever you do on various platforms to irrelevant messages. If it is bothering Becks & fam, it's THEIR role to address it, not Amber's who once again, is inserting herself into an aspect of something where she doesn't belong.

But for Amber, focusing on the effects on Norma's family is a beautifully convenient out. She doesn't, because she can't, deny that she said those things. It's not only her voice, it's her intonation, her focus on self & her misuse of words & phrases. None of her rationalizations work for me; whatever happened to being Miss Empath or being the bigger person?

I wonder how this will impact any plans she has for doing Vlogmas? Don't know if she planned on it; if she did, I missed it but this situation gives her a perfect out once it becomes too tiresome.

 

[dfranki723]

I honestly don't believe Becky feels as deeply as ALR portrays when it comes to Norma.

I remember watching that video of her and Famber (think it was the Go Fund me video?), Becky had such a false ''poor me'' look plastered on her face. It didn't look sincere. I'm not saying she didn't care about her Mother, I couldn't possibly know that BUT considering her actions and her terrible attempts at showing compassion, I don't know. I'm thinking it's purely a tactic to take some of the heat off.

Nobody should fucking care even if Becky was upset, the silly twat let her psychotic lard arse girlfriend talk to her dying Mother like a piece of shit. I hope Becky is sat in her room feeling like shit but I doubt it.

In my mind, Becky and Norma having a turbulent relationship is understandable, feeling some animosity etc, however that should stay between family members. You don't give your partner (or anyone else for that matter) the go ahead to treat your family like shit just because you aren't currently lovey dovey with them.
If Norma had abandoned/abused/attempted murder or some shit, fair enough. She didn't though, she was just your regular arsehole like a lot of people. I hope Ann releases anything else she might have.

 

[Smoovy Jay]

Why WAS FatAl filming in the bathroom? Was she saying something she didn't want the Thumb to hear? Hearing anything about this topic too much for Thumby's tummy? You'd think Thumby might have something to say about this as it is about her dear, departed mother and her monstrous gorlfrien.

Fat Ass said she likes filming in the bathroom because the lighting is good, no more no less. She is never genuine, it's always about how she looks. Which is weird because she's disgustingly fat.

Maybe Becky is crying because Norma said Piggy threatened to break up with Becky if Norma didn't fall in line. And the pig recently chose Destiny to fuck in Marry, Fuck, Kill. I'd cry too if I learned the person I loved thought I was disposable.

I missed it - did Norma say why Eric/Ricky and Fat Ass banned her from the shanty?

 

[DefCon Dumb]

No explanation given that I can recall as to why Norma was banned from the house.

Lighting can no longer serve as an excuse for filming in the bathroom - ALR recently bought a ring light.

 

[Bubblez McGee]

Amber...just shut up...OK...really, just shut the fuck up.

 

[Slappy McGherkin]

Amber...just shut up...OK...really, just shut the fuck up.

She can't. It's a narc thing. Are you new here? (No offense, just curious). This is just another day in lying gaslighting it's all about ME day in the Amberverse.

I won't even begin to cite all the videos as evidence. But if it ain’t about Hamber and her "legacy" channel, it's all NOT TROOF.

Every pound she gains increases the aren't I cute and watch me shove a whole rotisserie chicken in my face bullshit.

The current shis-u-ation? Just another bump in the road or bigger ankle roll to deal with. It's tough to find something that actually sticks to this mega-fat. Duct tape don't even stick to Hamber.

While I'm ranting, ya know what? Fuck Becky. I actually held an iota of sympathy for her. No more. You have revealed to be as miserable a fucking cunt as your master. Enjoy your miserable snapback dyke life. I hope wiping Amber's disgusting neither regions is worth it.

 

[Pog Mathoin]

I think Norma was basically just a massive cunt and liked nothing better than having a bitch and moan session to Ann about how much she hated Amberlynn. I'm sure Norma probably backstabbed all of her family members in a similar fashion whenever she was pissed with one of them. She strikes me as an extremely manipulative person who did stuff like this to control her assorted family of fucktards.

NGL - am disappointed Amberlynn couldn't get Becky to sit and mean-mug the camera in the background while she filmed this load of bollocks. Mean-mugging Becky is best Becky after all.

 

[Slappy McGherkin]

NGL - am disappointed Amberlynn couldn't get Becky to sit and mean-mug the camera in the background while she filmed this load of bollocks. Mean-mugging Becky is best Becky after all.

Agreed on mean mugging Becky. But, she got a tummy ache and is currently crying on her Nintendo controller while playing Tony Hawk.

 

[Rasputin's Side Piece]

Okay, I am not an expert on the Norma/Becky/BigAl relationship,

Maybe I missed something, but I have seen many places where Norma was excoriated as a homophobic bitch who kicked her daughter out of the house for being gay. I wonder if that wasn’t a gross misrepresentation of what actually happened, given the fact that Big AL blames all her misfortunes on the fact that she is fat. Why not be ready to whip out the “Norma kicked out Becky because she’s gay” card as well?

Although I never saw anywhere where she got a chance to defend herself, I saw plenty of people take someone else’s word for it, so I just wanted to present it from the point of view of a mother who most likely grew up in a different time with different social mores. Things have been changing for years, but most parents would have to have a difficult period of adjustment to finding out their child was gay. I don’t know what kind of a Christian she was either, but most Christian parents would have a doubly hard time of it.

And to add to the initial shake-up, imagine her showing up with Amberlynn Reid. I have a son, and I can assure you, if he showed up with a 600-pound girl, I would definitely have to have some time to process.

How do we know it wasn’t, “I’m sorry, but you cannot bring that woman to live with us”? And then Becky said “either that or I am leaving” or something along those lines. How do we know it had anything at all to do with Becky’s sexual preference? There are so many scenarios that COULD have happened, but only they know the truth, and we all know AMBERLYNN LIES.

We do know that Norma put forth effort to be involved in Becky’s life after the “kicking out.” She didn’t “disown” Becky, rather she invited Amberlynn, as well as Eric and Ricky, into her home in an obvious attempt to stay in Becky’s good graces. We don’t know how all that unfolded, how many times there were disagreements, misunderstandings, etc. I think that Big Al did all she could to drive a wedge between Becky and her family, for whatever reason. What we DO know is that, at the end of her life—as sick and frightened as she must have been already—she was terrified of losing her daughter. This fear could have been alleviated by the Gruesome Twosome, but evidently the drama was more important to them than helping Norma die with some sort of peace of mind. And that is unforgivable.

I know this may be off-topic, but I think that woman was done wrong. If I am misreading the situation, or if I am missing any FACTS, please feel free to set me straight.

 

[behavioral swamp thang]

Low Teir - Don't pay off anyone and let the drama out in the open. All publicity is good publicity if it's raking in hella adsense sheckles.
Mid Teir- Hire a lawyer to draft up and enforce paid NDA's for pesky haters with mad dirt
High Teir - Pay off the haters with a yearly or monthly sum so they won't collect everything then immediately spill the tea
GOD TEIR - Pay the haters one time and nervously wait until they welch and feed the TROLLZ

 

[DuckSucker]

So those messages she was showing between her and Norma don’t prove shit So she was nice to her face (I.e. via text) and vice versa, doesn’t mean she didn’t think you were a heinous bitch and hated you enough to shit talk you behind your back (and nice versa)

I agree but imagine being caught in a text war between a 500 lb walrus and a dead woman. Becky is right to step out, she cant win.

I hope Ann Doran didnt blow her shot all in one go. The leaks are like, yeah maybe youre proud you got the guy to blow in his pants, but its a sign of how shit things are to come.

 

[Turd Fergusson]

Rafe's comment, all Amber talks about is youtube and food. Youtube means so much to her because it brings in that food money.

She must be a hoot to be with at dinner parties or family functions. Nothing like someone like her shoving her money under your nose and telling you that she is better than you. Now that Norma is buried, the headstone chosen, the memorial weekend celebration concluded, there might be people that had enough with Amber’s shenanigans, that feel no loyalty for her, and are ready to set the record straight.

It must be terrifying for Amber to not be able to maintain the narrative created for herself even if it does not affect greatly her income from YT. She must be seen in the best light possible as she wants to be an inspiration for her throngs of admirers and these releases are not helping.