PeterJQuill/AutisticStarlord

[Dilligaff]

Okay, good. I see your point. Thanks. There's a lot of weirdos on the internet (go see the threads on Nick Bate and some of the others) so I understand. I AM glad you've come here to talk to us.

Also since I'm reading your comment, I'd like to weigh in on the other conversation: I'm not trans, but I have been suicidal. I see how someone deliberately misgendering someone could be extremely hurtful and drive them to extreme emotions. I think what others are trying to say is that no matter how horrible and deliberately disrespectful and hurtful someone is, if they're a random weirdo on the internet, we (as sentient beings) have to try to just blow that idiot off. It's part of learning to cope in life. That being said, it ain't easy! The experience of trans people is so new and foreign to many people that they don't believe it at all, and will be shitty to trans people on purpose because of it. Gay people have gone through it, and people with other kinds of conditions and illnesses have also gone through it. The key is to stay strong and keep explaining to people that it's a real thing.

 

[SPLASH]

splash, you know that you can call someone cute without being weird about it right? i'm pretty sure it was in a calling a little kid playing cute, or like when you see a kitten and think oh thats cute.

No i know. I'm trying to explain this but I'm clearly doing a bad job (that sounds sarcastic but it isn't sorry). I have people of all ages call me cute and I'm fine with that? Hell, even here I was flattered to see I was being complimented. What made me uncomfortable was the fact that this conversation was specifically adults to making fun of me and then turned into complimenting me. It was the transition between insulting me and then complimenting me, while everyone here was an adult, that made me uncomfortable and weirded me out.

But like I said before I'm sorry for the accusations and I am aware that there wasn't sexual or "creepy" intentions behind what was asid.

Also @Diligaff sorry again, and I think you're right. Obviously it can be hard, especially for trans people being misgendered and/or suicidal people, to just ignore it even if it is just a random weirdo on the internet. But ignoring and getting over it should be something people strive to do for their own safety, and it'll help them be stronger in life! So yeah

 

[Eponine]

Again, @SPLASH, just make sure that you do find a good therapist whenever it's safest to do so : )

 

[Dilligaff]

Thanks, Splash.

 

[Colress]

No i know. I'm trying to explain this but I'm clearly doing a bad job (that sounds sarcastic but it isn't sorry). I have people of all ages call me cute and I'm fine with that? Hell, even here I was flattered to see I was being complimented. What made me uncomfortable was the fact that this conversation was specifically adults to making fun of me and then turned into complimenting me. It was the transition between insulting me and then complimenting me, while everyone here was an adult, that made me uncomfortable and weirded me out.

But like I said before I'm sorry for the accusations and I am aware that there wasn't sexual or "creepy" intentions behind what was asid.

Also @Diligaff sorry again, and I think you're right. Obviously it can be hard, especially for trans people being misgendered and/or suicidal people, to just ignore it even if it is just a random weirdo on the internet. But ignoring and getting over it should be something people strive to do for their own safety, and it'll help them be stronger in life! So yeah

i'm no adult tbh (when i talk to you privately i'll tell you my age) but i see what you're getting at! don't worry friend, you're still cool.

 

[SPLASH]

A bit off topic but honestly regardless of if you agree with otherkin or not (i dont care if you do tbh) I've been laughing at my own title since I created it. i think its p fitting

lolotter

 

[Meowthkip]

Just some advice, if you're a minor, just don't post pictures at all on blogging platforms. As it can lead to some gross stuff, But this can me being pretty jaded, but if a stranger said "eh they're not ugly" or "they're cute", it's much better than "I wanna stick my pickle in her china" like some comment's i've seen on certain sites. Tumblr may be your hugbox/'safe place', but it ain't private.

And echoing Dirtbagdeluxe, don't call someone a pedo if there's no evidence. People's lives and careers have died due to people (ESPECIALLY on tumblr, god they're notorious for this) giving out misinformation or unsourced rumors and spreading it around.

I'm going to interject here and tell @SPLASH that Tumblr is not a safe space at all.

I think this is something a lot of younger users fail to understand, especially since the site has attracted a lot of social justice bloggers who brought over their "safe space" and trigger warning habits. Unless you password protect your blog, anybody can see it, anybody can follow it, and no amount of telling people to stop following you will actually make them comply. You will go to somebody's Tumblr page and still see if they've reblogged pictures of people fucking or decapitated heads, even if you have the tag blocked on your dash. No blogger is obligated to stop posting (or hell, even tag) things that make you uncomfortable. Most users will do so out of courtesy, but ultimately, safeguarding yourself on Tumblr is mostly on you.

Honestly I think Tumblr should be an 18+ site because a lot of users come across like the the only other websites they used beforehand was like, Neopets.

 

[SPLASH]

@Meowthkip Yeah I totally see what you mean. I mean, the thing is I think trigger warnings, and tagging things in general is great and the respectful thing to do, like if someone asks me to tag blood or something I don't see any issue with it? And hell, I definitely want jump scares tagged so I know I appreciate people who tag things when they're asked. And like, let's face it, if someone has a blog that they want to keep private for personal reasons without passwording (maybe you want friends to be able to reblog your posts) it's shitty as hell to refuse to leave.

But at the same time there will be people out there who won't tag things and won't leave you alone when asked. I mean, Tumblr's block system is shit and it's easy to ignore someone's request to go away or unfollow or whatever. I don't like it, but I also don't think it's going to be fixed aytime soon and I learned a l o n g time ago that Tumblr is far from a safe space unless you, like, password everything and don't reveal a single piece of personal information ever.

 

[Meowthkip]

@Meowthkip Yeah I totally see what you mean. I mean, the thing is I think trigger warnings, and tagging things in general is great and the respectful thing to do, like if someone asks me to tag blood or something I don't see any issue with it? And hell, I definitely want jump scares tagged so I know I appreciate people who tag things when they're asked. And like, let's face it, if someone has a blog that they want to keep private for personal reasons without passwording (maybe you want friends to be able to reblog your posts) it's shitty as hell to refuse to leave.

But at the same time there will be people out there who won't tag things and won't leave you alone when asked. I mean, Tumblr's block system is shit and it's easy to ignore someone's request to go away or unfollow or whatever. I don't like it, but I also don't think it's going to be fixed aytime soon and I learned a l o n g time ago that Tumblr is far from a safe space unless you, like, password everything and don't reveal a single piece of personal information ever.

>wants jump scares tagged
>Five Nights at Freddy's fan

Naw, but seriously. Good lesson to learn for a young internet user. Be careful on those webby-webs.

 

[Whatisgoingon]

Yeah, that was before I made an account. Sorry about that tbh. You've seemed nice and I didn't mean to outright call you a pedophile. I tried to explain that i was tagging it because of the possible implications but it it was pretty fucked up admittedly, yeah. But at the same time, sexual or not it does feel weird for adults who, like I said, are nearly as old as my mother to be reposting my photos and talking about how attractive I am? Like, it's just weird.

I post on this site and I'm only 18. There's a lot of variance in the ages of the users on here.

Anyways, you seem incredibly reasonable, and you like Spyro. You are okay in my book (not that my opinion matters that much).

 

[SPLASH]

>wants jump scares tagged
>Five Nights at Freddy's fan

Haha, jump scares can be cool and Five Nights at Freddy's is fun, I just don't wanna see jump scares when I'm not actively seeking em out

 

[Mechanism Eight]

Haha, jump scares can be cool and Five Nights at Freddy's is fun, I just don't wanna see jump scares when I'm not actively seeking em out

This is true. I've played Minecraft with a mod that adds monsters that can appear from mining shit, and when they popped up, I freaked out every single fucking time and it just got way too annoying and not cool, basically putting artificial strain on my body from the sheer amount of times it happened.

 

[SPLASH]

Hey, um, I'm really sorry to bump this thread because I know it's ANCIENT but I kinda wanted to know if it's possible to take down the photos of me here?

Hear me out: I had JUST turned 16 when this topic was created (my birthday is December 2 and this thread was made on December 12), and the actual drama that started it was from when I was 15, which from what I've gathered is pretty young for your forum - I believe you're not allowed to even make topics about minors (at least anymore)? I don't really care if you keep up the screenshots of my blog and twitter and shit, I was an embarrassing fuck 2-3 years ago and y'all are allowed to archive that stuff if you want. I totally admit that I was edgy and absolutely overly rude and aggressive to people and I like to think I've calmed a LOT now and when I do engage in internet drama (less often) I've worked to be much more civil. Not to mention lots of my coping mechanisms for my mental illnesses are uh, not ones I have anymore and I sorta regret posting about publicly like I used to haha... All of that can stay up for shits and giggles though, but I would appreciate it if, if it's possible, the two instances where my face was posted were removed? If not that's fine, but I really... don't want my face attached to the way I acted as a kid... Nowadays um I'm 17, I've just started college and identify as a bisexual guy rather than whatever labels I used back then, and I go by a different name but ya'll can keep calling me Splash idc - if anyone was curious at all.

Don't get me wrong, people should be held accountable for their actions and the shit they do and say, and archiving past mistakes and fuck ups isn't inherently wrong or anything, but I hope you can agree that there's a difference between holding an adult responsible for their words and actions and attaching their face to their words online (something that they quite frankly deserve if they're a real asshole), and doing the same thing to a 16 year old who's obviously just a child going through some dumb phase. If there's no way at all to do so or you guys just don't wanna, I understand, obviously I can't *force* you to do that. But I'd really... appreciate it? So I figured, even though it's kind of a shot in the dark and there's a really good chance you guys can't or won't do it, the least I could do was ask publicly (a few months ago I privately asked a mod or admin, I can't remember who it was and I never got a straightforward response back, and I'm not upset about it or mad at them or anything but I figured addressing it publicly might get me a more straightforward answer and if I'm lucky some help).

The two instances my face was posted are here:
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-2#post-435963
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-3#post-436909

Again I'm sorry for bumping this thread like this, but it's been something that's been on my mind lately, and I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask?

 

[GS 281]

Hey, um, I'm really sorry to bump this thread because I know it's ANCIENT but I kinda wanted to know if it's possible to take down the photos of me here?

Hear me out: I had JUST turned 16 when this topic was created (my birthday is December 2 and this thread was made on December 12), and the actual drama that started it was from when I was 15, which from what I've gathered is pretty young for your forum - I believe you're not allowed to even make topics about minors (at least anymore)? I don't really care if you keep up the screenshots of my blog and twitter and shit, I was an embarrassing fuck 2-3 years ago and y'all are allowed to archive that stuff if you want. I totally admit that I was edgy and absolutely overly rude and aggressive to people and I like to think I've calmed a LOT now and when I do engage in internet drama (less often) I've worked to be much more civil. Not to mention lots of my coping mechanisms for my mental illnesses are uh, not ones I have anymore and I sorta regret posting about publicly like I used to haha... All of that can stay up for shits and giggles though, but I would appreciate it if, if it's possible, the two instances where my face was posted were removed? If not that's fine, but I really... don't want my face attached to the way I acted as a kid... Nowadays um I'm 17, I've just started college and identify as a bisexual guy rather than whatever labels I used back then, and I go by a different name but ya'll can keep calling me Splash idc - if anyone was curious at all.

Don't get me wrong, people should be held accountable for their actions and the shit they do and say, and archiving past mistakes and fuck ups isn't inherently wrong or anything, but I hope you can agree that there's a difference between holding an adult responsible for their words and actions and attaching their face to their words online (something that they quite frankly deserve if they're a real asshole), and doing the same thing to a 16 year old who's obviously just a child going through some dumb phase. If there's no way at all to do so or you guys just don't wanna, I understand, obviously I can't *force* you to do that. But I'd really... appreciate it? So I figured, even though it's kind of a shot in the dark and there's a really good chance you guys can't or won't do it, the least I could do was ask publicly (a few months ago I privately asked a mod or admin, I can't remember who it was and I never got a straightforward response back, and I'm not upset about it or mad at them or anything but I figured addressing it publicly might get me a more straightforward answer and if I'm lucky some help).

The two instances my face was posted are here:
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-2#post-435963
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-3#post-436909

Again I'm sorry for bumping this thread like this, but it's been something that's been on my mind lately, and I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask?

ur fucked p much. Don't put retarded shit on the net next time. You're here forever.

 

[chimpburgers]

Hey, um, I'm really sorry to bump this thread because I know it's ANCIENT but I kinda wanted to know if it's possible to take down the photos of me here?

Hear me out: I had JUST turned 16 when this topic was created (my birthday is December 2 and this thread was made on December 12), and the actual drama that started it was from when I was 15, which from what I've gathered is pretty young for your forum - I believe you're not allowed to even make topics about minors (at least anymore)? I don't really care if you keep up the screenshots of my blog and twitter and shit, I was an embarrassing fuck 2-3 years ago and y'all are allowed to archive that stuff if you want. I totally admit that I was edgy and absolutely overly rude and aggressive to people and I like to think I've calmed a LOT now and when I do engage in internet drama (less often) I've worked to be much more civil. Not to mention lots of my coping mechanisms for my mental illnesses are uh, not ones I have anymore and I sorta regret posting about publicly like I used to haha... All of that can stay up for shits and giggles though, but I would appreciate it if, if it's possible, the two instances where my face was posted were removed? If not that's fine, but I really... don't want my face attached to the way I acted as a kid... Nowadays um I'm 17, I've just started college and identify as a bisexual guy rather than whatever labels I used back then, and I go by a different name but ya'll can keep calling me Splash idc - if anyone was curious at all.

Don't get me wrong, people should be held accountable for their actions and the shit they do and say, and archiving past mistakes and fuck ups isn't inherently wrong or anything, but I hope you can agree that there's a difference between holding an adult responsible for their words and actions and attaching their face to their words online (something that they quite frankly deserve if they're a real asshole), and doing the same thing to a 16 year old who's obviously just a child going through some dumb phase. If there's no way at all to do so or you guys just don't wanna, I understand, obviously I can't *force* you to do that. But I'd really... appreciate it? So I figured, even though it's kind of a shot in the dark and there's a really good chance you guys can't or won't do it, the least I could do was ask publicly (a few months ago I privately asked a mod or admin, I can't remember who it was and I never got a straightforward response back, and I'm not upset about it or mad at them or anything but I figured addressing it publicly might get me a more straightforward answer and if I'm lucky some help).

The two instances my face was posted are here:
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-2#post-435963
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-3#post-436909

Again I'm sorry for bumping this thread like this, but it's been something that's been on my mind lately, and I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask?

I've never heard of you but fuck no. Get over it man.

 

[Locksnap]

Hey, um, I'm really sorry to bump this thread because I know it's ANCIENT but I kinda wanted to know if it's possible to take down the photos of me here?

Hear me out: I had JUST turned 16 when this topic was created (my birthday is December 2 and this thread was made on December 12), and the actual drama that started it was from when I was 15, which from what I've gathered is pretty young for your forum - I believe you're not allowed to even make topics about minors (at least anymore)? I don't really care if you keep up the screenshots of my blog and twitter and shit, I was an embarrassing fuck 2-3 years ago and y'all are allowed to archive that stuff if you want. I totally admit that I was edgy and absolutely overly rude and aggressive to people and I like to think I've calmed a LOT now and when I do engage in internet drama (less often) I've worked to be much more civil. Not to mention lots of my coping mechanisms for my mental illnesses are uh, not ones I have anymore and I sorta regret posting about publicly like I used to haha... All of that can stay up for shits and giggles though, but I would appreciate it if, if it's possible, the two instances where my face was posted were removed? If not that's fine, but I really... don't want my face attached to the way I acted as a kid... Nowadays um I'm 17, I've just started college and identify as a bisexual guy rather than whatever labels I used back then, and I go by a different name but ya'll can keep calling me Splash idc - if anyone was curious at all.

Don't get me wrong, people should be held accountable for their actions and the shit they do and say, and archiving past mistakes and fuck ups isn't inherently wrong or anything, but I hope you can agree that there's a difference between holding an adult responsible for their words and actions and attaching their face to their words online (something that they quite frankly deserve if they're a real asshole), and doing the same thing to a 16 year old who's obviously just a child going through some dumb phase. If there's no way at all to do so or you guys just don't wanna, I understand, obviously I can't *force* you to do that. But I'd really... appreciate it? So I figured, even though it's kind of a shot in the dark and there's a really good chance you guys can't or won't do it, the least I could do was ask publicly (a few months ago I privately asked a mod or admin, I can't remember who it was and I never got a straightforward response back, and I'm not upset about it or mad at them or anything but I figured addressing it publicly might get me a more straightforward answer and if I'm lucky some help).

The two instances my face was posted are here:
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-2#post-435963
https://kiwifarms.net/threads/peterjquill-autisticstarlord.6469/page-3#post-436909

Again I'm sorry for bumping this thread like this, but it's been something that's been on my mind lately, and I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask?

You could ask the people who posted the pics invidually, but no admin is going to delete them.

I've never heard of you but fuck no. Get over it man.

Besides writing a textwall they don't sound like they care that much.

 

[SPLASH]

Alright, fair enough. Figured it wouldn't hurt to ask.