He's been the victim in this for a very long time, First mistake was marrying Phil's mum, and then having two kids with her that she then used to beat him over the head with for child support and lied to the only one who's able to talk into believing her last great power play in the form of Daddy rape day's first incarnation (Phil's added to it).
Now I'm going to be upfront here I've not reached out to Angelo because he's an old guy who's happy with his current life and I don't want him saying anything or doing anything that would bring Phil back into his world even if it's Phil spewing autism at him. I have run across one of his step kids though and they are very much aware of who and what Phil is and they for obvious reasons want nothing to do with him, and are only interested in seeing if Phil's planning on making a move on a guy they have come to love and respect in a way Phil has never even tried to emulate.
So out of respect for Him I'd like to ask that we drop the subject for now because I don't want to give Phil or anyone else ideas.
That's the nail on the head, J-Lo was really hot at the time Phil had his sexual awakening and he thought she was hot and that stuck in his head, the latino culture thing was also popular in mainstream culture around that time and Phil became enamoured with it, much like he later did with Judaism and Israel, but other than very superficial aspects he's never developed an understanding of anything he's interested in, and real latino's not the middle class 90's media safe versions scare the crap out of him because he's never been exposed to them.