Most importantly to remember, most abusers do not think they are abusers and are actually victims, that any emotional turmoil they have caused is justified because they may be feeling upset. We have seen some of this in Heidi saying that while those screenshots of her being abusive are confirmed to be real, she was pushed to that point and that gives her an excuse to treat the people around her as such.
Also, she claims to be wanting to move on with her life, yet if she has an opportunity to take potshots, she most definitely will take them. We saw this when she essentially publically posted blackmail and criticized the supposed nudes of holly she has, calling her insecure, and when called out on it, claimed it was her right to do so to the woman who "intentionally" sabotaged their marriage, and when the person backed down, she softened her tone a bit but still called Holly "despicable."
Going back with wanting to move on, every time Jared or Holly posted something, she gets mad at them for speaking up and "dragging her back in." This is CLASSIC emotional abuser. "I've already moved past it, why can't you? YOU'RE the bad one for bringing it up and upsetting ME." She also pulled a bit of a clawshrimpy, and claims that since they're speaking out to her allegations at all, they shouldn't because they have a bigger audience and they have to be accountable for every person who follows them, so they should have just shut up.
Nail in the coffin for me? The tweets where she says that when asked how she could improve and all Jared could reply with is "you make me anxious," and then laments the fact that despite her trying SO HARD to love him. In my experience, if you don't give a vague answer, tell the truth, list every actual thing they could do to improve, they are far more likely to get upset and blow up at you and subject you to more torture. And then, a question like that puts you on the spot, sometimes there's too many things. And then, the fact that she says that she's the only one putting in any effort at all, is something that emotional abusers like to say to make them feel better and morally superior.