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HashleyHashbrowns powiedział(a):
Is it okay if I ask a question about something I have a problem with? I had a conversation about the whole psychology transgender thing and I'm still confused how the hell that all works. Its genuinely a very tiring topic but I don't really accept it at all. I could provide screenshots for context too. I even went through wanting to transition into a man but I got out of that and had my own issues with myself. So yeah. Is it okay if I wanted to ask about stuff?
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imo one of the necessary steps for this is to preempt it with a basic overview of modern transgenderism. first thing; no matter how open minded you are etc, modern transgenderism is just objectively mentally deranged. no point trying to understand it, because it doesn't understand itself. constant updated rules and regulations. for the truth. if connected to the mainstream, you have to now cut everything off as objectively false, back to "do you know what gender dysphoria is?" and do your own offline research, if sources needed, then using old unupdated ones. you could debate someone or get preached to about xe xer, gender identity etc all the good long day, or preach to get them off, but both are pointless, because it's basically a low tier cult of nonsensical bullshit that people can only really stop, or join, themselves.

the truth is peeled back, before lots of, whatever title you prefer, liberals, bleeding hearts, etc, babying mental issues until they secured high positions and recruited more like them like how indians (pajeet ones) do, until arriving at dysphoria itself. dysphoria is a mental illness, and it's a more dangerous one that has been virally accepted, similar to anorexia tier effects, actual mental illness, derangement. compare to having a gay person, that goes " fuck it, im a man and im only attracted to men, and i like to dress fucking fabulously. i take a fucking bath and may live kind of effeminately and identify basically as a woman in a man's body" to "if you don't fund me cutting my dick off im (redacted fedpost) heckin ty"

true dysphoria, before the "well you're trans if you believe or feel like it kind of", the shit of having a man or woman dressed in baggy clothing that hates themselves in the mirror and feels like they're in the wrong body, is by default blatantly a severe mental issue, and in modern day, people with the true cases are pushed to make mock ups of themselves as actual men/women, and then they go full sunk cost, lie to themselves and others, ie "yeah i got bottom surgery and my starfished colon penis is the same as a woman's vagina which i have definitely seen in any form", or they become fully aware that actually, we do not have star trek age tech, and they're always going to have a male/female body, regardless of their "engine", and then they direct their feelings to make others feel like them (hurt), hurt themselves, or go beyond and try to save people like them best they can.

at the end of the day, that's really the easiest possible answer to give but the hardest to hear to the troon question; people have been fucking lied to, and we do not have body restructuring tech. we have nazi plastic surgery and experimental injections. you don't need more. you can argue brain chemistry, male/female brains, philosophy, none of that is fucking needed. bottom surgery and keeping a wound active for the rest of your life and having a psycho or degenerate stick their dick and scrub various colors and fluids around while you writhe (in excruciating pain you apparently consider/mindfuck yourself into thinking is what a woman feels) is cartel shit. it's a mental illness (or spiritual if you want) you can currently only deal with. not uncommon, most everyone has some sort of issue they have to deal with. any of chris ulmer's vids showcase children that, if they weren't mentally based af most of the time, would kill to just have to deal with "i feel like im in the wrong gendered body". having to be a gay man or gay woman, dealing with it best you can, either until you return to your true form as a masculine/feminine soul or whatever or just working with life's bullshit, is pretty basic shit for a life form. it's far too common for babies to be born with their skin peeling and bleeding in agony until they sooner or later die, minimal joy, proms, hobbies, life, etc. they do not (should not) delude themselves into being told they're actually butterflies. having to be, bluntly, fucked in the ass or grinding taco while never having a mind transplant is pretty boot camp tier shit in comparison.
 
Fishnumm powiedział(a):
are like disfigured war veterans incels?

or are incels born from purely like their personality
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An incel born purely from personality issues is not involuntarily celibate. They have voluntarily chosen to be obnoxious or a creep or whatever they are that is making women not want to fuck them, and they have voluntarily chosen not to work on those aspects of themselves. They just say it's involuntarily because it's easier to throw your hands up and go "WELL, nothing I can do about it, it's the damn foid's faults" than to actually try to improve.

Severely disfigured war veterans could fall under the incel category, but I've seen some who have wives. Those with severe mental disabilities also could fall under it.
 
Its not letting me reply directly but birthday cat. You pretty much said how I feel about the whole thing because ive been arguing about biology and it feels so weird that oh this science is new from 'outdated' science so it doesn't matter and you're wrong. And I'm not looking for my echo chamber but I'm only trying to learn and understand because its just confusing as hell for me. I still don't agree with the bullshit that trans women are women because they identify as such. I wanted to share some discord screenshots for context but I'd rather not have someone crash out on me or my decisions for how my discord looks thats just my precaution either way.
 
HashleyHashbrowns powiedział(a):
Its not letting me reply directly but birthday cat. You pretty much said how I feel about the whole thing because ive been arguing about biology and it feels so weird that oh this science is new from 'outdated' science so it doesn't matter and you're wrong. And I'm not looking for my echo chamber but I'm only trying to learn and understand because its just confusing as hell for me. I still don't agree with the bullshit that trans women are women because they identify as such. I wanted to share some discord screenshots for context but I'd rather not have someone crash out on me or my decisions for how my discord looks thats just my precaution either way.
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You are clearly new here so my kindest advice would be to not post for about a month or so and only read threads.
 
Two Frogs powiedział(a):
You are clearly new here so my kindest advice would be to not post for about a month or so and only read threads.
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I've made my account a year back. I've just only lurked here and there. I'm not trying to look for any kind of trouble either. Like some things I would just look for that seems interesting and seeing what people think about a certain situation. I was even surprised there was a megathread about a company as well. But for the most part I've only posted at few and thats about it. I'm just trying to be humble I guess.
 
HashleyHashbrowns powiedział(a):
I've made my account a year back. I've just only lurked here and there. I'm not trying to look for any kind of trouble either. Like some things I would just look for that seems interesting and seeing what people think about a certain situation. I was even surprised there was a megathread about a company as well. But for the most part I've only posted at few and thats about it. I'm just trying to be humble I guess.
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I think Two Frogs was talking about the double posting, the not knowing how to quote long posts (just highlight the text you want to quote), and the worry that anyone here will tell you you're wrong for acknowledging biological reality. We're transphobic here, queen. You can even say slurs if you want. No one will mind.

Also, word of advice: don't post anything that could be connected to another account of yours unless you're okay with people finding you online. That includes screenshots.
 
Shakira Flabbergasted powiedział(a):
I think Two Frogs was talking about the double posting, the not knowing how to quote long posts (just highlight the text you want to quote), and the worry that anyone here will tell you you're wrong for acknowledging biological reality. We're transphobic here, queen. You can even say slurs if you want. No one will mind.

Also, word of advice: don't post anything that could be connected to another account of yours unless you're okay with people finding you online. That includes screenshots.
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Got it. My apologies for double posting.
Also I'm transphobic as well myself. And those are basic internet rules and I don't post anything online that leads back to me.
 
As women are the more clean gender TM, I wanted to ask what methods you ladies use for cleaning the home. Bathrooms, furniture, upholstery, kitchens, work table stuff, display thingamabobs, electronic devices, everything. I find my method of just spraying the entire house with glass cleaner and wiping down doesnt necessarily keep the dust away. Every week the dust comes and mucks everything up, no matter how much I clean every week. Also no dishwashing or cutlery, that is taken care of.
 
funwithshemales69 powiedział(a):
As women are the more clean gender TM, I wanted to ask what methods you ladies use for cleaning the home. Bathrooms, furniture, upholstery, kitchens, work table stuff, display thingamabobs, electronic devices, everything. I find my method of just spraying the entire house with glass cleaner and wiping down doesnt necessarily keep the dust away. Every week the dust comes and mucks everything up, no matter how much I clean every week. Also no dishwashing or cutlery, that is taken care of.
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Not sure if this is a bait but I'd probably start with using a vacuum. You can't avoid dust. If you want less things to clean, stop having unnecessary clutter.
Just spraying everything down with glass cleaner seems insane to me.
 
funwithshemales69 powiedział(a):
As women are the more clean gender TM, I wanted to ask what methods you ladies use for cleaning the home. Bathrooms, furniture, upholstery, kitchens, work table stuff, display thingamabobs, electronic devices, everything. I find my method of just spraying the entire house with glass cleaner and wiping down doesnt necessarily keep the dust away. Every week the dust comes and mucks everything up, no matter how much I clean every week. Also no dishwashing or cutlery, that is taken care of.
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If you're not trolling, change the filter on your heater if you haven't, and clean the dust filter on the back of your dryer. Check these things quarterly. Air purifiers can help. Don't be a retard and at least use an all purpose cleaner if you are going to just use one (anti bacterial for bathroom and kitchen). Make sure you are actually wiping up the dust on a rag or duster and not just pushing it around or into the air.

Vacuum at least twice a week and make sure to get corners and vents. Exfoliate once a week and make sure animals are brushed regularly. A lot of dust is hair and skin particles.
 
I suppose I can pose this question to all of KF but I'm more interested in the female perspective as I'm not one so I'll drop it in this thread.

I've been meeting new people around the big city and going on dates as a young adult and have realized from both good and bad experiences that passion means a lot to me. I need my future partner to have strong opinions, to love and hate shit and be able to express it, and/or be able to sperg about the shit they love whenever they are given the chance to or else it's a deal-breaker for me. I just can't see myself with a go-with-the-flow person who doesn't hold much strong opinions and doesn't express much emotion. While I understand that this may be somewhat related to wanting your future partner to have their own personality, is the need for passion from your partner ubiquitous enough to be considered a standard or is it more of a preference? Do most of you prefer to date someone who has things they care about or is it a requirement?
 
Tommy John Surgery powiedział(a):
I suppose I can pose this question to all of KF but I'm more interested in the female perspective as I'm not one so I'll drop it in this thread.

I've been meeting new people around the big city and going on dates as a young adult and have realized from both good and bad experiences that passion means a lot to me. I need my future partner to have strong opinions, to love and hate shit and be able to express it, and/or be able to sperg about the shit they love whenever they are given the chance to or else it's a deal-breaker for me. I just can't see myself with a go-with-the-flow person who doesn't hold much strong opinions and doesn't express much emotion. While I understand that this may be somewhat related to wanting your future partner to have their own personality, is the need for passion from your partner ubiquitous enough to be considered a standard or is it more of a preference? Do most of you prefer to date someone who has things they care about or is it a requirement?
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I'm just a moid, but I dated a woman who was so passive and unopinionated it was like talking to a brick wall. I have opinions, I have academic qualifications in culturally relevant topics and I want to talk about the things that I'm passionate about, but what I don't want is a passive sounding board. I'd rather be passionately disagreed with than shrugged at. I dated that woman for five years and I can't think of a single opinion on any topic that she expressed with any degree of force, even mundane things like what to have for dinner. I felt that I was doing the thinking for two people and eventually that was the main reason why I broke up with her. I felt so alone, even though we lived together.

Whereas the woman I married was not only interested in what I had to say, but had things to say back that were insightful and interesting. Sometimes she agreed with me, sometimes not, but it felt alive. Throughout my life, a woman who has strong opinions and wants to tell me passionately what they are has always sent me wild with desire. Doesn't matter if they align with my opinions (well, unless they're really repulsive opinions like Communism) or if they are in an area of study that I know a lot about or not, but few things make me not want to date someone than them being all "ooh I'm just a girl" or agreeing with everything I say, because if you agree with literally everything I say it's not because I'm correct about everything, I'm definitely not correct about everything, it's because you just want to agree with me because you think that will stroke my ego. It feels fake and dishonest.

For the most part, though, I've found that more passive women are in the majority and that makes dating very frustrating. For the foids, then: is it just a cultural thing whereby women (even after all these waves of feminism etc.) feel under pressure to be seen and not heard, or do women, in general, not consider having or expressing strong opinions about things to be an important aspect of who they are?
 
queens of the stone age powiedział(a):
huge disclaimer: it’ll make any blows to the face hurt 20x more than they do now. if you do regular manual labor, and being hit/almost hit in the face is a common occurrence, then stay far away. if you get in fist fights with any kind of frequency, stay even farther away
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When I was a young teenage Pho I saw two guys get into a fistfight. One had like 4 piercings in his lips, 2 in each eyebrow, a septum ring, a ring in his nose, and about 5 or 6 in each ear. In about fifteen seconds the guy with no shit in his face ripped out every piercing buddy had. Heard through the grapevine he needed 50 some stitches to put his face back in one piece. I'd advise against it, if only because one scrap could do serious damage.
 
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For the foids, then: is it just a cultural thing whereby women (even after all these waves of feminism etc.) feel under pressure to be seen and not heard, or do women, in general, not consider having or expressing strong opinions about things to be an important aspect of who they are?
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I am one such Strong Opinionated Wahmen and I have been physically injured by a man before because I made him so mad. We were just having what I thought was a lively yet friendly debate, then my arm was twisted behind my back before I could even react. He was my friend at the time, and he sprained my shoulder. He isn't the only example, just the most extreme. Most don't resort to physical violence, but they can become very physically menacing or verbally abusive. I've experienced this all my life, and I must be retarded or something, because I've never stopped being opinionated. I've asked my husband if there's something uniquely infuriating about me or how I argue, and he said no, but that I persist in treating every man the same when I shouldn't bother with some of them.

Obviously, this type of behavior from men is not universal. You and the person above you are men who prefer an intellectual partnership and like it when a woman has her own thoughts. My husband is another such man, and I'm friends with many more. I'm not claiming all men are violent against women with opinions, but there are enough of them out there that being universally agreeable feels safer to some. I also understand why some men are bored by these women. I probably would be as well, if I were you, but I still don't judge the ones who go along to get along because I get why they do it.
 
Shakira Flabbergasted powiedział(a):
I am one such Strong Opinionated Wahmen and I have been physically injured by a man before because I made him so mad. We were just having what I thought was a lively yet friendly debate, then my arm was twisted behind my back before I could even react. He was my friend at the time, and he sprained my shoulder. He isn't the only example, just the most extreme. Most don't resort to physical violence, but they can become very physically menacing or verbally abusive. I've experienced this all my life, and I must be retarded or something, because I've never stopped being opinionated. I've asked my husband if there's something uniquely infuriating about me or how I argue, and he said no, but that I persist in treating every man the same when I shouldn't bother with some of them.

Obviously, this type of behavior from men is not universal. You and the person above you are men who prefer an intellectual partnership and like it when a woman has her own thoughts. My husband is another such man, and I'm friends with many more. I'm not claiming all men are violent against women with opinions, but there are enough of them out there that being universally agreeable feels safer to some. I also understand why some men are bored by these women. I probably would be as well, if I were you, but I still don't judge the ones who go along to get along because I get why they do it.
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I've seen like 80% of men just completely ignore what a woman is saying like they think can't decide or think for themselves and I have never once bought into the bullshit that they like that at all.
Besides just treating them like a human being and actually talking to them; Do you have any examples listening that showcase it really well? I can't PL
 
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