Surgery 05/26/2017 - Phat Phil Going Vegetarian to Prep for Surgery, Cheese Still an Option - "bye-bye unwanted boy parts May 24, 2018."

[Ti-99/4A]

I find it fascinating that a straight (albeit pretty much loser) male would want so desperately to be gay. Because? It's... What? Cool? Trendy? Hip? It's very surreal the lengths he goes to for all of this.

There's even a song about it.

 

[Positron]

How was Slingblade supposed to provide "a lot of" his food when Slingblade himself complains of having ramen all the time?

Almost off topic, but vaginoplasty is a really nasty word.

How about vegetoplasty?

 

[Rollo]

There's even a song about it.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=xsYi9aWM8Q4

Yeah, but my dad says that's for pussies.

 

[Tragi-Chan]

How was Slingblade supposed to provide "a lot of" his food when Slingblade himself complains of having ramen all the time?

You'd think the two of them could get together and figure out a consistent story for their e-begging. I guess the thing is that they're both really self-centred, so neither of them cares if their latest lie contradicts something the other one's said.

 

[Ravenor]

You'd think the two of them could get together and figure out a consistent story for their e-begging. I guess the thing is that they're both really self-centred, so neither of them cares if their latest lie contradicts something the other one's said.

Unless slingblades drunk they have next to no conversation face to face, they talk more on Facebook than they do in person.

 

[Four-Wheeled Fedora]

Unless slingblades drunk they have next to no conversation face to face, they talk more on Facebook than they do in person.

God damn that's depressing. Slingblade should get an award for being so terrible he makes people empathize with Phil.

 

[Ravenor]

God damn that's depressing. Slingblade should get an award for being so terrible he makes people empathize with Phil.

Don't in any relationship Phil has been in he's been the abuser, this is him getting some just deserts.

Torren is little more than an older slightly more capable Phil with added alcohol problems, He's essentially kicked Phil out to the couch because he just wants a quiet warm place to get smashed and Phil was a easy mark who he could manipulate with next to no effort, Phil tries in every relationship to play stupid little powergames to make himself feel powerful and Torren is more than capable of not only playing Phils games but beating him at them as well.

 

[Positron]

You'd think the two of them could get together and figure out a consistent story for their e-begging. I guess the thing is that they're both really self-centred, so neither of them cares if their latest lie contradicts something the other one's said.

It is a given both Phil and Slingblade are lying. i.e. Slingblade does not subsist on ramen, and neither does he provide for Phil -- if anything he demands Phil to feed him his tugboat. But the question is, why does Phil go out of the way to paint Slingblade in a favorable light? I understand not wanting to disclose being financially abused, but Phil could have stayed silent about the food arrangement.

 

[Ginger Piglet]

It is a given both Phil and Slingblade are lying. i.e. Slingblade does not subsist on ramen, and neither does he provide for Phil -- if anything he demands Phil to feed him his tugboat. But the question is, why does Phil go out of the way to paint Slingblade in a favorable light? I understand not wanting to disclose being financially abused, but Phil could have stayed silent about the food arrangement.

Because Phil is so exceptional that he thinks that for a translatinx to call out abuse by a fellow transwomxn is problematic and giving the cishetwhitemale hegemony ammunition against trans people (said exceptionality Phil has relied on himself in his past relationships). He also probably keeps quiet about it because it's an excuse to demand "financial praxis" which he can then spend on cheese and pretend weapons.

 

[Tragi-Chan]

Unless slingblades drunk they have next to no conversation face to face, they talk more on Facebook than they do in person.

That would certainly explain the "Scared Vikki is going to leave me." "Not. Going. To. Happen." conversations on Facebook.

It is a given both Phil and Slingblade are lying. i.e. Slingblade does not subsist on ramen, and neither does he provide for Phil -- if anything he demands Phil to feed him his tugboat. But the question is, why does Phil go out of the way to paint Slingblade in a favorable light? I understand not wanting to disclose being financially abused, but Phil could have stayed silent about the food arrangement.

My guess would be that he's scared of Slingblade or he's too proud to admit that he's being taken advantage of. Possibly both.

 

[Country Matters]

My guess would be that he's scared of Slingblade or he's too proud to admit that he's being taken advantage of. Possibly both.

I'm gonna guess it's this

If Phil told everyone what Slingblade was doing while he was still in the apartment, Slingblade could get revenge immediately (idk if he actually would, but the possibility seems to be more than enough for Phil)

If Slingblade left for his next mark? I would guess Phil would 'suddenly' open up about the relationship. But for now Phil's too intimidated by him to do much of anything public.

 

[Hyperion]

I'm gonna guess it's this

If Phil told everyone what Slingblade was doing while he was still in the apartment, Slingblade could get revenge immediately (idk if he actually would, but the possibility seems to be more than enough for Phil)

If Slingblade left for his next mark? I would guess Phil would 'suddenly' open up about the relationship. But for now Phil's too intimidated by him to do much of anything public.

Probably for the best. Phil couldn't beat some skinny hippy in a fight, let alone a tranny hippo.

 

[Darndirty]

Unless slingblades drunk they have next to no conversation face to face, they talk more on Facebook than they do in person.

I can picture Phil quietly weeping while he's trying to sleep on a shitty couch while torrent gets #analrips in the bed room he pays for.

 

[TrippinKahlua]

Phil is not going to become a vegetarian.

And he is not going to have anymore surgery to further destroy his body.

 

[Flame the Sunbird]

Phil is not going to become a vegetarian.

And he is not going to have anymore surgery to further destroy his body.

C'mon now @TrippinKahlua , you know you wanna see some beaver shots from the rat boy.

 

[MMX]

I'm gonna guess it's this

If Phil told everyone what Slingblade was doing while he was still in the apartment, Slingblade could get revenge immediately (idk if he actually would, but the possibility seems to be more than enough for Phil)

This is more or less what happened with Otter failure.
Phil told Wild what was happening in the house, Wild tried to warn him about his own experiences with Toren so Toren started a twitter mob against him.

If Slingblade left for his next mark? I would guess Phil would 'suddenly' open up about the relationship. But for now Phil's too intimidated by him to do much of anything public.

Phil won't speak out against Toren because Toren will fucking destroy him. Toren can expose all Phil's lies and completely undo Phil's persona and undermine his crowd funding.
Hell Toren destroys Phil for fun in the comfort of his own home, he's already called Phil out for not being Latinx and still having his balls and Phil still keeps him around.

 

[Dr.Research]

Because Phil is so exceptional that he thinks that for a translatinx to call out abuse by a fellow transwomxn is problematic and giving the cishetwhitemale hegemony ammunition against trans people (said exceptionality Phil has relied on himself in his past relationships).

Phil getting a taste of his own medicine? I don't think anyone will lose any sleep over that.
But what Phil is doing by sticking around in at best an unhealthy relationship and at worse an abusive relationship is adding to the fallacy that queer relationships can't be unhealthy/abusive. There's very little talk in queer education about abusive relationships and a lot of people in same-sex relationships are even more hesitant that folks in hetero relationships to come forward or leave their partners. If anything, queer abusers have an extra edge on their victims aside from the usual garbage logic ("How can I be abusive? We're both gay. Only straight men are abusive.").

Anything a trans persons does can/will be ammo for the anti-trans camp regardless of how much it happens in literally every other group. So by Phil clamming up and choosing to defend labels rather than character he does nothing positive for the trans community. If he did actually call out Toren then I could almost commend him for bringing up an often ignored topic. But this is Phil. And his credibility is so shot that even if he did manage to escape a legit abusive relationship and try to educate others it would come off as petty retaliation for a breakup.

 

[Tragi-Chan]

Phil getting a taste of his own medicine? I don't think anyone will lose any sleep over that.
But what Phil is doing by sticking around in at best an unhealthy relationship and at worse an abusive relationship is adding to the fallacy that queer relationships can't be unhealthy/abusive. There's very little talk in queer education about abusive relationships and a lot of people in same-sex relationships are even more hesitant that folks in hetero relationships to come forward or leave their partners. If anything, queer abusers have an extra edge on their victims aside from the usual garbage logic ("How can I be abusive? We're both gay. Only straight men are abusive.").

Anything a trans persons does can/will be ammo for the anti-trans camp regardless of how much it happens in literally every other group. So by Phil clamming up and choosing to defend labels rather than character he does nothing positive for the trans community. If he did actually call out Toren then I could almost commend him for bringing up an often ignored topic. But this is Phil. And his credibility is so shot that even if he did manage to escape a legit abusive relationship and try to educate others it would come off as petty retaliation for a breakup.

I think the issue is partly that, ironically for someone so self-centred, Phil has no real identity - just whatever persona he wants to project. He wants to be this badass Evil Trans Latinx, and maintaining that is more important to him than getting out of a terrible situation. He'll never admit to getting suckered by an abusive drunk, even to himself, because that doesn't happen to Izzy Hell.

 

[Dr.Research]

I think the issue is partly that, ironically for someone so self-centred, Phil has no real identity - just whatever persona he wants to project. He wants to be this badass Evil Trans Latinx, and maintaining that is more important to him than getting out of a terrible situation. He'll never admit to getting suckered by an abusive drunk, even to himself, because that doesn't happen to Izzy Hell.

That too. It wouldn't surprise me one bit if Phil sometimes forgets he's in a queer relationship and just sort of accepts that a fat drunk is hogging his bedroom without completely understanding why.

Goes to show even when Phil could do something for himself and possibly help others in some slight way he won't.

 

[AnOminous]

I think the issue is partly that, ironically for someone so self-centred, Phil has no real identity - just whatever persona he wants to project. He wants to be this badass Evil Trans Latinx, and maintaining that is more important to him than getting out of a terrible situation. He'll never admit to getting suckered by an abusive drunk, even to himself, because that doesn't happen to Izzy Hell.

I wouldn't be at all surprised if Phil tards out at some point on a drunken Toren who has already decided to leave, and Toren just beats the fuck out of him.