Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Susanna]

April, you should see someone about this. This is weird.

I still don’t see what’s so bad about it. He likes me, I like him, things work great.

 

[BongoMongo]

Yes, I'm fine with them holding doors open for me, fetching me things off high shelves or are customer service workers who are paid to do whatever I want. I just don't like when they don't know their place in this world is only to provide acts of service for me quietly and politely.

As a very tall woman, I am always on the eye out for shorter women in the grocery store so I can grab things off the higher shelves for them, rather than them have to ask a man. I always feel a bit like a long limbed super hero for it.

 

[Generic Name #37]

Informal poll:
Do you like men?
Yes
No

 

[crazedaze]

Informal poll:
Do you like men?
Yes
No

You've been doing this shtick for a while. Stop pretending you're interested in anyone else's opinion that's my advice

 

[Agarathium1066]

It's a personal preference, you'll need to decide how you might feel about things in a decade's time and what your regrets might be. I never like leaving things undecided.

It also depends on how close you are. You don't indicate it, but if you only just shared one hobby, it sounds like not so close. In that case, just move on.

Fuck that noise about you worrying that you're pressuring them. If they were an established friend, and you want to know whether to unestablish the friendship, that's a minor, quick resolution question.
A true friend won't want to leave you in limbo.

We were fairly good friends but nothing that them pulling away would indicate some serious scare. It's why I think I've gotten different opinions when asking others about it. The scarce details is because its the farms and its vague enough to not need deep details.

I do think the answer is pretty clear that they're just pulling away and leaving me on read despite not really needing to. No harsh words exchanged, no faux pas, just.. bam.

The opinions are appreciated.

 

[Polyarmory]

I have two questions:

1. I recently saw a bumper sticker that said "spitters are quitters" with many images of kirby (an apparent blowjob elemental fursona of sorts). I have seen this sentiment before. Why do some women seem to feel superior for swallowing semen?
2. I have noticed that many middle-aged women wear dark lipstick, and/or heavily contour their cheekbones. Both of these makeup choices make them look sickly or ghoulish. Why do they do this?

Thank you for your consideration.

 

[The Stranger]

Why do some women seem to feel superior for swallowing semen?

Because they are

 

[Hubelublub]

I have noticed that many middle-aged women wear dark lipstick, and/or heavily contour their cheekbones. Both of these makeup choices make them look sickly or ghoulish. Why do they do this?

They've realised the truth about moids and, like a brightly coloured frog to a bird, have figured out a strategy to get them to stay away.

Based on your reaction, it's a successful one.

 

[Big Miss Steak]

I have two questions:

1. I recently saw a bumper sticker that said "spitters are quitters" with many images of kirby (an apparent blowjob elemental fursona of sorts). I have seen this sentiment before. Why do some women seem to feel superior for swallowing semen?
2. I have noticed that many middle-aged women wear dark lipstick, and/or heavily contour their cheekbones. Both of these makeup choices make them look sickly or ghoulish. Why do they do this?

Thank you for your consideration.

1. Pick-mes who have noticed that men give them attention for being whores or talking about sex acts in graphic detail
2. Glam or alternative makeup is not meant for the male gaze

 

[Polyarmory]

They've realised the truth about moids and, like a brightly coloured frog to a bird, have figured out a strategy to get them to stay away.

Based on your reaction, it's a successful one.

Although I only said "middle aged", they're also commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

1. Pick-mes who have noticed that men give them attention for being whores or talking about sex acts in graphic detail

This makes sense, thank you. Is the apparent derision toward other women also pandering? (I could easily believe that solipsistic moids resent women for not swallowing.)

2. Glam or alternative makeup is not meant for the male gaze

Intriguing. So the intended look sort of drag queenish? Or is it more like perfume ads where the models have a lanky "chic"/emaciated look?

 

[Hubelublub]

Although I only said "middle aged", they're also commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

They see you coming and immediately age 20 years and put on 200 kilos to get you to stay away.

 

[glioblastoma multiforme]

Kiwisisters married/ in a long term relationship with a man. What are some things that he does that you love about him?

I just put this in the man hate thread but its more appropriate here: he makes me laugh; after decades and multiple lifestages together, we know we can trust each other no matter what; he knows my music and film tastes well enough that I know I'll always love his recommendations.

Although I only said "middle aged", they're also commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

I can't comment on the specific makeup choices, but a stupidly high proportion, 25% according to here, of women have been subjected to sexual violence.

Desexualisating yourself is a very common reaction. Older women are more likely to have managed to build the self esteem required to know they don't need to give a shit about people's opinions, so feel able to desexualise themselves. Not feeling like a rape target after years of feeling like one is freeing and presenting yourself unattractively is a good way of achieving that. That's just a guess as to the discrepancy.

 

[crazedaze]

commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

Always apply makeup style based on what makes a moid's dick hard or soft depending on what fits my mood that day

Is the apparent derision toward other women also pandering?

Dumb moid "humor" about swallowing cum is actually proof that women hate each other

 

[Polyarmory]

Always apply makeup style based on what makes a moid's dick hard or soft depending on what fits my mood that day

The notion that the makeup has something to do with the male gaze was introduced by @Hubelublub , not by me.

Dumb moid "humor" about swallowing cum is actually proof that women hate each other

Do you have theory of mind? Do you not understand that me speculating that pickmes ape moid misogyny does not imply that I also have this misogyny? When you read a quote, do you think that person is really talking to you? Retard.

Desexualisating yourself is a very common reaction. Older women are more likely to have managed to build the self esteem required to know they don't need to give a shit about people's opinions, so feel able to desexualise themselves. Not feeling like a rape target after years of feeling like one is freeing and presenting yourself unattractively is a good way of achieving that. That's just a guess as to the discrepancy.

Damn, that's sad. Makes sense though; thank you.

 

[Hubelublub]

T

The notion that the makeup has something to do with the male gaze was introduced by @Hubelublub , not by me.

The notion that you're a retarded faggot was also introduced by me, please give me credit.

 

[crazedaze]

Do you have theory of mind?

Of course I do, we can all see you're here to troll genius and what a very fucking stupid response indeed.

 

[Chromeo]

Although I only said "middle aged", they're also commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

I feel it's worth stating that middle aged people often gain weight across both men and women, it's just part of that stage of life. Also, harassment happens to older and fatter women just like younger thinner ones. Harassment isn't always about being attractive, sometimes people will harass or assault just because they can get away with it. It's complex.
Even still, at an older age the trends are different from what the younger generation do. Even if a woman looks gaunt or dark, it could be that it was a fashionable look when she was younger or she just thinks it looks cool and isn't concerned with what someone else thinks. I think that's what a lot of the other women in here are getting at re: not performing for the male gaze.

 

[Hubelublub]

I feel it's worth stating that middle aged people often gain weight across both men and women, it's just part of that stage of life. Also, harassment happens to older and fatter women just like younger thinner ones. Harassment isn't always about being attractive, sometimes people will harass or assault just because they can get away with it. It's complex.
Even still, at an older age the trends are different from what the younger generation do. Even if a woman looks gaunt or dark, it could be that it was a fashionable look when she was younger or she just thinks it looks cool and isn't concerned with what someone else thinks. I think that's what a lot of the other women in here are getting at re: not performing for the male gaze.

Also, men are uglier.

 

[isalaide]

Kiwisisters married/ in a long term relationship with a man. What are some things that he does that you love about him?

Provides orgasms reliably, frequently, abundantly
Lustily sings songs of hatred against Protestants
Can reach things high up
Pets me like the vaguely feral creature I am
Extremely funny
Supplies voiceovers for the dogs' thoughts in a funny voice
Is endlessly delighted and fascinated by his children
Abundance of shapely leg
Ruined a book group by focusing on 'the principal unvoiced theme of homosexual incest' in every single book discussed; was kicked out after My Sister's Keeper
Hates my mother with the fire of a thousand suns
Has gay matching tattoo with me
Eyelashes
Agrees that the Raven Guard are the best legion
Selects truly excellent gifts for me such as a Phantom Titan
Understands how to bring back correct tampons from shop
Has excellent taste in aftershave
Always produces cups of tea at the correct time without any prompting
Has never failed to hold my hair out of the way during any vomiting episode
Superb personal hygiene at all times; smells delightful
Knows all the words to every track on Joanna Newsom's Milk Eyed Mender
Genuinely first class premium looking ass
Always gives me the gherkins out of his McDonalds

 

[Big Miss Steak]

Although I only said "middle aged", they're also commonly fat. These seem like women less likely to be targets of harrassment to me than attractive/young women, but deploy this countermeasure more often. What explains this apparent discrepancy?

Women who don't do their makeup to fit into conventional beauty standards probably don't care to diet to also fit that beauty standard.

This makes sense, thank you. Is the apparent derision toward other women also pandering? (I could easily believe that solipsistic moids resent women for not swallowing.)

Yes, the derision towards other women who don't swallow is also pandering. I think some of the posters here misread you.