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Personally would never wear either of them. Unless you have a very good understanding of fashion and what your lady likes, I would never recommend buying a woman clothing as a gift. Men just don't have a good understanding of fashion and especially not women's fashion.

If you want to get her something related to clothing though, you could get her a giftcard to her favorite clothing shop. Simple, easy, still shows thought(in my opinion), and she can pick something out that she will actually cherish.
Yeah, you're right. I just really love the idea of her in this, so I’ve been kinda pushing for some validation on the choice.

Thanks anyway.
 
I would never recommend buying a woman clothing as a gift. Men just don't have a good understanding of fashion and especially not women's fashion.

If you want to get her something related to clothing though, you could get her a giftcard to her favorite clothing shop. Simple, easy, still shows thought(in my opinion), and she can pick something out that she will actually cherish.
Strong agree. Men suck at fashion, makeup, hair etc. A gift card might seem boring, but it will be much more appreciated than a dress or some hair products we'll have to tactfully return or never use.
Kiwisisters married/ in a long term relationship with a man. What are some things that he does that you love about him?
We can talk for hours on just about anything. He's an amazing conversationalist, and really well read, and if he disagrees with me he'll push back and argue, not just give up and let me win. He's also very funny.

Basically he's great company.
Need movie recommendations
 
Men suck at fashion, makeup, hair etc
This one especially. Telling us her eye colour, but nothing about her body type or personal preferences.

Also, men who buy revealing outfits for their partners are more about showing her off like a trophy and less about buying her something that she wants.

Offer to clean the bathroom while she goes out for the afternoon to buy herself clothing she likes. Give her the cash to do it, and have her come home to a shining clean bathroom, and you'll win more accolades than whatever the fuck that shirt is you're trying to buy.
 
I appreciate your effort in helping me figure out how a black man might pull off a strawberry-themed dress.

On a serious note, I'm considering buying the second dress for my girl but still debating on the first. For reference, she's about 6 feet tall, around 95 pounds, my bad kg to pounds isn't a 1.5 conversion - ~60 kg to 143 pounds - with an average shoulder-to-hip ratio, brown skin, and greenish-brown eyes.

My main concerns: the second dress might feel a bit too themed, while the first one could end up being too tight, uncomfortable, hell, maybe too revealing.

Do you see any reason why either dress might not work well?

Edit: Reworked this so it sounded good and corrected weight
Idk what you mean by themed, but I hate the second one. Looks like an early 80s regret.

The red ribbons on white/cream is legit an accent to something my mother made me for a 1981 valentine's social.

But so yeah - it's the pink/white/red + the ribbons + the material, which looks synthetic and therefore not really a pick for a country picnic (I assume that's the theme you meant, now that I read a couple more comments). And it just doesn't look well-made.

I'd go for cotton. Maybe a gingham. Or there are some nice full-sleeved dresses at Asian places like soolinen.com or rongshop.com, or at Scandi places like gudrunsjoden.com. Tulleandbatiste.com has a lot of feminine, flowy dresses. You can find similar to some of the above stores at Amazon. Quick search also turned up fashionsully.com, which has a variety of dress styles.

She's going to be easy to fit at her height/ weight, just might fall a bit higher/ shorter on her body/ legs than how it is modeled
 
Yeah, you're right. I just really love the idea of her in this, so I’ve been kinda pushing for some validation on the choice.

Thanks anyway.
Okay, so you’re buying yourself a gift.

I guess you can do that if you want, but I’d also get something for her that she actually wants so she knows you’re not just thinking of yourself.
 
I really like the simplicity of the back paired with the detailed front. Do you still find its too excessive for let's say a countryside outing, even with the contrast?
I find the front lace garish, it seems it was put there because the designer "liked lace" and didn't actually have much thought beyond that.

This is with out getting into the specific shade of the dress, this is a really ugly pink/red. PANTONE 12-3456 "I accidentally put a red shirt in the wash with my whites."
 
Like most moids, I suspected this was more about his wants than his partner's, and is why I suggested he tell us his body type and what the occasion was.

If he likes it so much, he can buy it for himself to wear.
Yeah, sorry. I just wanted to pile on at yet another dent rolling in here expecting everyone to kiss his ass for being so thoughtless and insightful because he’s considering a gift for his gf.

Need movie recommendations
I watched Guillermo del Toro’s Pinocchio recently. I thought it was lovely.
 
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We can talk for hours on just about anything. He's an amazing conversationalist, and really well read, and if he disagrees with me he'll push back and argue, not just give up and let me win. He's also very funny.

Basically he's great company.
I thought you hated your husband and married him for money.
 
Keeping this low info but I have a friend that shared a hobby with me. She's largely just stopped talking me or engaging with any of the hobby we used to do.

I've considered reaching out to them to essentially offer a sort've last shot at opening a dialogue. Just making it clear that I didn't mean to insult or bother them but if they want to just not hang out that's fine. I've waffled on it because I don't want it to seem like pressuring them.

Should I just leave 'em be? I've gotten mixed opinions.
 
Keeping this low info but I have a friend that shared a hobby with me. She's largely just stopped talking me or engaging with any of the hobby we used to do.

I've considered reaching out to them to essentially offer a sort've last shot at opening a dialogue. Just making it clear that I didn't mean to insult or bother them but if they want to just not hang out that's fine. I've waffled on it because I don't want it to seem like pressuring them.

Should I just leave 'em be? I've gotten mixed opinions.
I don’t think it’s a good idea. Similar situations have happened to me, and I’ve found that oftentimes the reason for dropping contact had very little to do with me, specifically, or anything I’d said.

If this is the case, which it might be, there is nothing you can do to change it. I would let it go.
 
If anything I married him out of boredom
April, you should see someone about this. This is weird.
Keeping this low info but I have a friend that shared a hobby with me. She's largely just stopped talking me or engaging with any of the hobby we used to do.

I've considered reaching out to them to essentially offer a sort've last shot at opening a dialogue. Just making it clear that I didn't mean to insult or bother them but if they want to just not hang out that's fine. I've waffled on it because I don't want it to seem like pressuring them.

Should I just leave 'em be? I've gotten mixed opinions.
I would like to close the door in things for the ending of a good friendship. Don't need to be dramatic, or to even tell them what you're doing, just one final conversation, for yourself, knowing it'll likely be the last time we talk.

It's a personal preference, you'll need to decide how you might feel about things in a decade's time and what your regrets might be. I never like leaving things undecided.

It also depends on how close you are. You don't indicate it, but if you only just shared one hobby, it sounds like not so close. In that case, just move on.

Fuck that noise about you worrying that you're pressuring them. If they were an established friend, and you want to know whether to unestablish the friendship, that's a minor, quick resolution question.
A true friend won't want to leave you in limbo.
 
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