martinfinnegan / Sarah Anne / "Sander Safe Space" - obsessive Bioshock fan with a delusional streak

[norrington]

Actually, @norrington, I could use your perspective on something. I'm pretty sure I found Sarah's parents with the dox that was posted earlier, and I noticed her dad's not registered as a sex offender in his area. You mentioned the mom knows about the abuse; did Sarah indicate it was never reported?

They made a number of posts over the years about their mom being homophobic/racist, fond of needless shouting, and at one point hired a private investigator to go "hunt them down" after they "ran away." I distinctly remember the screencap of the texts their Mom sent during that episode, and it all came across as pretty legit at the time (I do tend to look at this shit with an at least somewhat skeptical eye, believe it or not).

Anyway, their mom had a very 'NO. WIRE. HANGERS.' vibe to them in those texts, if you know what I mean? Like not a holy-shit-where's-my-kid vibe, not a what-the-fuck-have-you-done-you-shitbird vibe (like a parent might do if the kid had bolted after stealing a parent's hideaway cash stash?). Like, We'll-eat-you-up-we-love-you-so type stuff, but not in the Where the Wild Things Are kinda tone, but in the like, end-of-that-AltJ-song-about-a-serial-murderer vibe. Not to overstate it; it's just a feeling I got. I can't prove shit.

I also remember way more vaguely and not-positively at all that they did have interactions with a mom's-boyfriend and/or stepdad, but don't take my word on that because it's very possible I'm mixing them up with someone else.

Even assuming I am remembering correctly about the parents not being together, them getting a divorce doesn't guarantee a kid would come forward about something like that; abusers are always careful to cover their asses, after all, especially when alimony/child support payments are on the line. And it's not hard for an abuser to intimidate their victim into keeping their mouth shut and convincing the kid that the court would never take them away from him.

TL;DR - Basically, their mom never struck me as the kind of mom you'd disclose that kind of shit to, and that's even if most kids were likely to 'fess up about that sort of thing when the abuser still holds a position of some authority in their life, which they aren't.

EDIT: syntax/grammar corrections for clarity

 

[Juscum]

tldr

Alright, but even giving Sarah the benefit of the doubt... she didn't go to the police? She didn't go to any local law enforcement? And she went on to (allegedly) tell her ex that her father never did that, and she made it up to "cope with neglect"? The circumstantial evidence is piled too damn high, IMO.

Also, inventing a tragic child rape backstory for attention and then admitting you lied.

 

[Doc Smith]

Might of been a mix-up on my part. I'd forgotten that she has a stepfather and a biological one.

Would be kind of nice if the ex would come back and answer some of these questions, because I'm curious how consistent these claims are with what Sarah has said in the past.

 

[Juscum]

I try to be nice, and see where it gets me? Careful. Spammers have had rating privileges revoked before. (;

 

[lesboslut69]

Alright, but even giving Sarah the benefit of the doubt... she didn't go to the police? She didn't go to any local law enforcement? And she went on to (allegedly) tell her ex that her father never did that, and she made it up to "cope with neglect"?

There's too much evidence which conflicts with the narrative which @norrington seems to believe, all pointed in the direction of "Sarah is a big fat liar."
Not sure how you defend "broadcasting a concocted rape story for teh followers" @norrington.

 

[norrington]

Might of been a mix-up on my part. I'd forgotten that she has a stepfather and a biological one.

Would be kind of nice if the ex would come back and answer some of these questions, because I'm curious how consistent these claims are with what Sarah has said in the past.

I'd agree, but I doubt there's any way it'd provide some sort of answer. I'd say unless they have access to a tumblr account with accurately-dated posts of some interaction between them/martinfinnegan (or her old accounts, or old fanart linking back to her deviantart) at this point, short of dated content + a verifiable post on her current account or something similar, there's too much information on this thread that she could cherrypick from (as I'd argue she's done before) to make her claims seem more legit.

@Juscum you should be flattered, it's one of the only (possibly THE only) autistic ratings I've doled out on this whole site. Wear it with pride. And if you wanna talk about ratings-spam, you might want to direct your aim elsewhere on this thread.

@lesboslut69, I responded to that already. It's buried back in one of those posts you rated autistic within five seconds of me posting it.

 

[Helvetica Scenario]

Christ, I don't even care who did what to who and why in this bullshit rape fantasy any more. Seriously, @norrington, don't you have any more godawful Mama Sander tittymonster fanart? Or maybe you can think of a time where you listened to Pagan playing the Fontaine to Sarah's Cohen over Skype even though they assured you they were quite happy to say goodnight first? Think hard. I'm sure there's got to be something like that.

 

[Takotsubo5]

LMAOOOO DOC SMITH YOU LINKED MY OLD DEVIANT ART IMA FUCKING
DIEEEEEEE.
I'm tha demon who comes when it's name is called. but lookie here I can make a fuckin wall-o text too~


Really foreally really though who the fuck is this norrington person? Defending this bullshit? Is that you sarah?? Or your new gf preggo or whatever the fuck.
Its real fuckin funny you'd be like "omg ppl only made this thread because they have it out for her!111!1"
Because I rememeber when she made that fucking post about me using my REAL fucking name being like "I REMEMBER WHEN MY EX SAID SHE WAS GONNA STALK ME AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE KNEW I WAS A HORRIBLE PERSON11!11"
(And I saw it because she fucking tagged it 'pLS reblog these posts about my ex thank you!!)

SO all of this, like the WHOLE thread and like EVERYTHING that's happened in the 3 years I've left? iTS Funny as fuck. Because all that "ppl are out to get her" nonsense is bullsht. bullshit. Cuz first of all, much like her new GF I ass patted sarah through everything even though i was younger than her, even when she'd so much as flinch.

2) If norrington really is Sarah
WELL. Congratulations BITCH. Ya played Ya self. All I had to do was remove you from my life and you proceeded to act a FUCKING fool in
front of everyone. Good fucking game matey-o.

And NO. NO Sarah never went to the police. NOT EVEN when I FUCKING BEGGED HER. Begged her for her own sake, her mom's sake HER FUCKING BABY SISTERS SAKE. IM NOT FUCKING KIDDING. not even when I spent hours crying and panicking like a FUCKING IDIOT over something that she later told me wasnt even true. But ya know what. Despite all that. I dont have it out for sarah. Never did. My stupid 13 year oldloved her at one point. And all of this taught me a very valuable lesson:
Watch your kids on the internet. Because a lot of kids might be as naive and dumb as I was. lmao.
Oh and good luck to peggy ur gonna fuckin need it.

Edit: so many typos but ill fix it later im fuckin so mad.

Edit again: Also whats this shit about her parents being abusive LMAO??? WHat you mean how they spoiled the absolute shit out of her, and how she talks back to them and treats them like shit like all bratty teens and young adults do??? L MAO

 

[norrington]

LMAOOOO DOC SMITH YOU LINKED MY OLD DEVIANT ART IMA FUCKING
DIEEEEEEE.
I'm tha demon who comes when it's name is called. but lookie here I can make a fuckin wall-o text too~


Really foreally really though who the fuck is this norrington person? Defending this bullshit? Is that you sarah?? Or your new gf preggo or whatever the fuck.
Its real fuckin funny you'd be like "omg ppl only made this thread because they have it out for her!111!1"
Because I rememeber when she made that fucking post about me using my REAL fucking name being like "I REMEMBER WHEN MY EX SAID SHE WAS GONNA STALK ME AND MAKE SURE EVERYONE KNEW I WAS A HORRIBLE PERSON11!11"
(And I saw it because she fucking tagged it 'pLS reblog these posts about my ex thank you!!)

SO all of this, like the WHOLE thread and like EVERYTHING that's happened in the 3 years I've left? iTS Funny as fuck. Because all that "ppl are out to get her" nonsense is bullsht. bullshit. Cuz first of all, much like her new GF I ass patted sarah through everything even though i was younger than her, even when she'd so much as flinch.

2) If norrington really is Sarah
WELL. Congratulations BITCH. Ya played Ya self. All I had to do was remove you from my life and you proceeded to act a FUCKING fool in
front of everyone. Good fucking game matey-o.

And NO. NO Sarah never went to the police. NOT EVEN when I FUCKING BEGGED HER. Begged her for her own sake, her mom's sake HER FUCKING BABY SISTERS SAKE. IM NOT FUCKING KIDDING. not even when I spent hours crying and panicking like a FUCKING IDIOT over something that she later told me wasnt even true. But ya know what. Despite all that. I dont have it out for sarah. Never did. My stupid 13 year oldloved her at one point. And all of this taught me a very valuable lesson:
Watch your kids on the internet. Because a lot of kids might be as naive and dumb as I was. lmao.
Oh and good luck to peggy ur gonna fuckin need it.

Edit: so many typos but ill fix it later im fuckin so mad.

wow

EDIT: @Takotsubo5 what's your name? Not like full name self-dox, like, the one you go by online.
What was your tumblr URL at the time you and martinfinnegan were together?
Did they like all the games in the Bioshock series equally?
They liked Globox; can you tell me which tumblr user got them into that video game series in the first place?
What was their favorite character from the movie Bambi?
Can you name three or more of their friends' accounts from back in the day?
Favorite character from their main old-school fandom?
When did they stop calling themselves Sarah and start going by Sander, by your rough estimate?
Was it a sudden shift or did they use both names simultaneously/let people call them either one?
Did they like the Lutece twins from Bioshock Infinite?

 

[Doc Smith]

Edit again: Also whats this shit about her parents being abusive LMAO??? WHat you mean how they spoiled the absolute shit out of her, and how she talks back to them and treats them like shit like all bratty teens and young adults do??? L MAO

I'd like to hear more about this. Did you ever talk to her parents?

 

[Takotsubo5]

I'd like to hear more about this. Did you ever talk to her parents?

Naw i never talked to her parents. I didn't come out to my family yet so we agreed not to tell anyone we were dating for a while. But I spent a sickening amount of time talking to her online, video chatting with her etc. And well this is just my opinion and my speculation/my side of the story, so yall dont have to believe me like i said before. But her parents (especially her dad) seemed really chill. And her mom was over protective but genuinely wanted to protect sarah. I mean i cant say they were pretending to be nice or anything because they never knew we were dating and didnt know me and her were even talking until like 3 years into the relationship. And based on what she'd tell me, alot of her complaints were typical teenage "omg my parents are so terrible they wont lemme drive to mc donalds and eat 5 cheeeze burgers at 4am" bull shit. oh and how I wish i was joking about the damn burgers.

But lemme give you an example of Sarah's shit attitude. NOW, unlike sarah, I have some damn respect. So I wanna leave her parents some dignity and not go into too much detail about their family/relationship troubles. (though sarah's probably already posted about it so half of yall already know, probably)
But just an example, Sarah would say some pretty fucked up shit to her step dad, thinking she was edgy and all that. I mean some really disrespectful shit for like no fucking reason. Okay fuck it, it was a comment about his dick. Like absolutely unwarranted. And it happened while we were in a video call.

And im sittin there like "WOW" because my mom woulda fucking beat my black ass if i ever woulda even thought about saying something like that to her. And so her stepdad smacked her for it and stormed out. SO IDK??? I guess thats abuse u guys. yells.

Also to confirm the thing u said earlier, yeah. Me and sarah were doing what her and *pagan are doing now. Except for it was naruto weeb shit. She'd get like.....really mad when people would commission me for art of Deidara. Because I was her "Deidara" as autistic as that sounds....

She bullied a girl into deacivating her deviant art because I would draw a lot of that girls fan character with deidara... yeah sarah even made journal accusing the girl of "copying" our shitty ideas. (that sarah stole from another person any way lmaooo but whatevs)
EDIT: LOL tbh my old dA belongs on here. I was so fucking cringey jesus fucking CRHIST.

P.S sorry for the wall of text

 

[Doc Smith]

How about the health problems, and the autism? Did she claim to have these when you were together?

 

[norrington]

Naw i never talked to her parents. I didn't come out to my family yet so we agreed not to tell anyone we were dating for a while. But I spent a sickening amount of time talking to her online, video chatting with her etc. And well this is just my opinion and my speculation/my side of the story, so yall dont have to believe me like i said before. But her parents (especially her dad) seemed really chill. And her mom was over protective but genuinely wanted to protect sarah. I mean i cant say they were pretending to be nice or anything because they never knew we were dating and didnt know me and her were even talking until like 3 years into the relationship. And based on what she'd tell me, alot of her complaints were typical teenage "omg my parents are so terrible they wont lemme drive to mc donalds and eat 5 cheeeze burgers at 4am" bull shit. oh and how I wish i was joking about the damn burgers.

But lemme give you an example of Sarah's shit attitude. NOW, unlike sarah, I have some damn respect. So I wanna leave her parents some dignity and not go into too much detail about their family/relationship troubles. (though sarah's probably already posted about it so half of yall already know, probably)
But just an example, Sarah would say some pretty fucked up shit to her step dad, thinking she was edgy and all that. I mean some really disrespectful shit for like no fucking reason. Okay fuck it, it was a comment about his dick. Like absolutely unwarranted. And it happened while we were in a video call.

And im sittin there like "WOW" because my mom woulda fucking beat my black ass if i ever woulda even thought about saying something like that to her. And so her stepdad smacked her for it and stormed out. SO IDK??? I guess thats abuse u guys. yells.

Also to confirm the thing u said earlier, yeah. Me and sarah were doing what her and *pagan are doing now. Except for it was naruto weeb shit. She'd get like.....really mad when people would commission me for art of Deidara. Because I was her "Deidara" as autistic as that sounds....

She bullied a girl into deacivating her deviant art because I would draw a lot of that girls fan character with deidara... yeah sarah even made journal accusing the girl of "copying" our shitty ideas. (that sarah stole from another person any way lmaooo but whatevs)
EDIT: LOL tbh my old dA belongs on here. I was so fucking cringey jesus fucking CRHIST.

P.S sorry for the wall of text

You didn't go by Deidara, though.

Do you need me to repost the questions I have for you, or did you see the edit I made to that post?

EDIT: I'll do it anyway.

Spoiler: quiz time

what's your name? Not like full name self-dox, like, the one you go by online.
What was your tumblr URL at the time you and martinfinnegan were together?
Did they like all the games in the Bioshock series equally?
They liked Globox; can you tell me which tumblr user got them into that video game series in the first place?
What was their favorite character from the movie Bambi?
Can you name three or more of their friends' accounts from back in the day?
Favorite character from their main old-school fandom?
When did they stop calling themselves Sarah and start going by Sander, by your rough estimate?
Was it a sudden shift or did they use both names simultaneously/let people call them either one?
Did they like the Lutece twins from Bioshock Infinite?

Also, to be honest, until you verify with some tumblr account that can clearly link you to your other shit (before the date of the start of this thread) I'm still standing by my original call that all of this is total bullshit.

If you answer my questions incorrectly, I'll track down proof of the right answers, and for any questions I can't provide hard evidence of, I'll happily go into a private conversation with somebody here and verify my old tumblr + connection to their old accounts and my current one.

If they can't answer and can't provide a URL, I'm calling bullshit. If they can do one or the other, I might buy it, while making the point that ex-girlfriends/boyfriends aren't always the most unbiased of sources.

 

[Takotsubo5]

You didn't go by Deidara, though.

Do you need me to repost the questions I have for you, or did you see the edit I made to that post?

EDIT: I'll do it anyway.

Spoiler: quiz time

what's your name? Not like full name self-dox, like, the one you go by online.
What was your tumblr URL at the time you and martinfinnegan were together?
Did they like all the games in the Bioshock series equally?
They liked Globox; can you tell me which tumblr user got them into that video game series in the first place?
What was their favorite character from the movie Bambi?
Can you name three or more of their friends' accounts from back in the day?
Favorite character from their main old-school fandom?
When did they stop calling themselves Sarah and start going by Sander, by your rough estimate?
Was it a sudden shift or did they use both names simultaneously/let people call them either one?
Did they like the Lutece twins from Bioshock Infinite?

Also, to be honest, until you verify with some tumblr account that can clearly link you to your other shit (before the date of the start of this thread) I'm still standing by my original call that all of this is total bullshit.

If you answer my questions incorrectly, I'll track down proof of the right answers, and for any questions I can't provide hard evidence of, I'll happily go into a private conversation with somebody here and verify my old tumblr + connection to their old accounts and my current one.

If they can't answer and can't provide a URL, I'm calling bullshit. If they can do one or the other, I might buy it, while making the point that ex-girlfriends/boyfriends aren't always the most unbiased of sources.

Lmao. Idk how to reply to ppl on here. but UMMM I wasnt talking to you I was talking to Doc Smith

And i'll giv you my "real name" when u tits or GTFO my dude. I dont take kindly to ppl making demands of me and I damn sure don't take shit from Sarah's fuckin lackeys. Speaking of which, if you really are one of her mutuals then you already know my fucking name and my fuckin URL and all that.

And yeah??? I am bias what do u expect lmao??????? What you expect me to be like 'Oh no U GUYS NO LOOK ITS OKAY TO FUCKIN liE ABOUT BEING RAPED. BEING RAPED BECAUSE OF FANFICTION IS TOTALLY REAL U SHIT LORDS. Like with tha violent sexist video games. Just like how fuckin tetris makes me wanna IDK fucking burn people."

 

[norrington]

Lmao. Idk how to reply to ppl on here. but UMMM I wasnt talking to you I was talking to Doc Smith

And i'll giv you my "real name" when u tits or GTFO my dude. I dont take kindly to ppl making demands of me and I damn sure don't take shit from Sarah's fuckin lackeys. Speaking of which, if you really are one of her mutuals then you already know my fucking name and my fuckin URL and all that.

And yeah??? I am bias what do u expect lmao??????? What you expect me to be like 'Oh no U GUYS NO LOOK ITS OKAY TO FUCKIN liE ABOUT BEING RAPED. BEING RAPED BECAUSE OF FANFICTION IS TOTALLY REAL U SHIT LORDS. Like with tha violent sexist video games. Just like how fuckin tetris makes me wanna IDK fucking burn people."

I say again. wow

 

[Takotsubo5]

How about the health problems, and the autism? Did she claim to have these when you were together?

Health problems: TMI but I always believed she wasn't lying about endo because I have it.
Though??? Puss?? "Vagina too stupid to clean itself"??? Yeah no that's not endo. Rofl.
I think that's more of a hygiene problem on her part loool. Kinda nast.

Autism. NO LMAO. Im not...a people scientist but like
I thought autism was detected at a way earlier age than early twenties??
But I will say this: She only started being "trans" because she wanted to be fictionkin. LITERALLY.
Before that yeah she was pretty racist, homophobic
Y'know, not to whine but
y'know how ppl are like "i have a black___ so I can say____"?? *yeah our relationship was kinda like that
I mean that in itself didnt bother me
its just that y'know how she's all "social justicey" now??
That in relation to her literally a few years ago is pretty jarring...lOL.
She literally went from saying shit to me like "UM BLACK PPL NEED TO STOP COMPLAINING SLAVERY IS OVER OKAY" to fucking "BLACK LIVES MATTER YOU SHITLORDS" on tumblr.

EDIT: OH FUCK ME
Too bad she deleted her dA because she made a whole journal about how she "didnt believe in gay marriage" back in 2010 LOL. Irrelevant but funny.

 

[norrington]

Health problems: TMI but I always believed she wasn't lying about endo because I have it.
Though??? Puss?? "Vagina too stupid to clean itself"??? Yeah no that's not endo. Rofl.
I think that's more of a hygiene problem on her part loool. Kinda nast.

Autism. NO LMAO. Im not...people scientist but like
I thought autism was detected at a way earlier age than early twenties??
But I will say this: She only started being "trans" because she wanted to be fictionkin. LITERALLY.
Before that yeah she was pretty racist, homophobic
Y'know, not to white but
y'know how ppl are like "i have a black___ so I can say____"??
I mean that in itself didnt bother me
its just that y'know how she's all "social justicey" now??
That in relation to her literally a few years ago is pretty jarring...lOL.
She literally went from saying shit to me like "UM BLACK PPL NEED TO STOP COMPLAINING" to fucking "BLACK LIVES MATTER YOU SHITLORDS" on tumblr.

EDIT: OH FUCK ME
Too bad she deleted her dA because she made a whole journal about how she "didnt believe in gay marriage" back in 2010 LOL. Irrelevant but funny.

 

[Takotsubo5]

Also @ norrington why are you asking me questions that you already know the answer to?? Not to mention isnt this shit posted on the thread already?
if you're trying to get ppl to not believe me or whatever-
That's literally fine, my guy
Go right ahead. But I have literally nothing to gain or lose by doing this. Sarah's dug her own grave, like what more could I even do??

 

[norrington]

@Takotsubo5

Could you at least tell me whether you two lived in the same state when you were dating or not? Or, again, what your tumblr username was at the time you were dating?

If it's all right here in the forums already and I already know it all, what's the harm in providing some cold hard proof so we can settle once and for all whether or not you're just blowing all this shit completely out your ass?

 

[Putato]

@Takotsubo5

Could you at least tell me whether you two lived in the same state when you were dating or not? Or, again, what your tumblr username was at the time you were dating?

As someone who has been following this shit storm for an age-
I want to know why you're asking demands when you have yet to meet the demands of tits.