Mom taught the parrot my deadname on purpose.
As the title says.
I was actually going to adopt her soon when my parents retire, and while her saying my deadname would never stop me, I may have to leave the country and I'm not sure she would survive, nor could I afford the processes she would have to go through to leave the country with me. She is probably about 34, and a fearher puller, so she isn't young or healthy enough to be vaccinated and chipped.
I'm mad at my mom because she went out of her way to teach the bird my deadname after I had been out for a few years. I love this bird so much and I'm one of the two people on the planet she doesn't bite without provocation, the other being my dad, her owner her whole life.
I don't live with my parents and miss my birdie bestie. I only know my mom taught her my deadname because she sends me videos of her saying it. She knows I wanted to take on the bird after they retire and move out within the next few years. She's just being cruel.
I was always accused of having a double life because of the horrible treatment I received at home for being trans and not sticking up for myself at home. At school I was out so she always told me I was pretending. I hate my mom so much.