"Hey, are you gonna get the surgery? I'm just curious..."
"DIE CIS SCUM! DIE CIS SCUM! DIE CIS SCUM!"
Let's give the Devil her due here. It's an incredibly personal question and I can totally understand someone not being comfortable answering it, or even not having an answer because they haven't decided and are agonizing about the issue.
However, if you are the one representative of some minority population that someone who is obviously well intentioned and wants to help knows, pissing in their face when they ask a simple question is not going to help anything.
Seriously, I know the SJW "it's not my job to educate you" schtick which usually is just saying "I'm a titanic douchebag" but seriously, if it isn't your job, whose is it? You're the only one they know who knows anything about it.
I'd totally cut slack about this if someone didn't want to answer, and avoid the issue if it were obviously uncomfortable, and even apologize if it somehow hurt their feelings, but this shit is what Stephie does EVERY time.
Stephie is a giant cock! Why do you create such an unlikeable, nasty, mean character?
ETA: Actually, I should have said that as "unlikeable, nasty MAIN character." Because this is the character you're supposed to sympathize. Meanwhile, Sophie creates strawman characters who are more likeable! Christ, even that shithead grampa who actually called his own grandchild a faggot is more likeable.