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[S.C.U.D.]

Really fucking long story:

tl;dr poly spaghetti leads to a guy's "main character partner" (female) banging a slut (male) with herpes without him telling her. When confronted the (male) slut replies "oh I thought she already knew so I didn't need to say anything." But it's OK because he's a responsible slut!

Despite being poly they somehow still find ways to get cucked:

 

[RainbowStarlight]

Oh great, another baby born into a poly mess. Op is having mental health struggles after meeting her meta. Her husband is allowed to leave once a week because he just needs that break from the baby. Instead of telling her to grow a spine, in true reddit fashion, the subreddit is telling her to simply get a therapist.

 

[Attractive Sexhaver]

Therapy speak has been an absolute disaster for middle class anxious white women. Lady, do you know what your ancestors would have done if their men had suggested bringing their side bitch into the home to help with the new baby? They’d have beat his ass with a frying pan.

Honestly, there needs to be an exemption in domestic violence laws if they find out the victim was posting in r/polyamory

 

[SauceRyuKen]

Most of the time I believe the polytards are just excruciatingly stupid whores who can't keep it in their pants, but mommy said to never lie, so they're upfront about how much they fuck around.

With cases like this last one I legit wonder if there's a sadistic angle to this hippie commune horseshit. Woman just went through pregnancy and childbirth: No way she wouldn't be better off just not fucking knowing about the stupid, disloyal, sleazy husband's bang buddy. Dude's being as destructive and harmful as he possibly can.

He's already a piece of shit to even cheat on a pregnant woman in the first place but parading the other bitch in her face and moving her in feels like a god damn victory lap. This woman should sue him for every cent he's worth.

No doubt in my mind this motherfucker would try to bang his teenage son's first girlfriend too. Just to make a point. If your partner is a disloyal pussyhound he's absolutely NOT parent material and you're not just better off without him: You pretty much owe it to your kid, if you want them to have any sort of shot at a stable, normal, good life, to take out the trash.

And what's the sidebitch's role in this? You just tell the kid she's an aunt of sorts until they're old enough to understand? How fucked in the head are these people to agree to this sort of arrangement?

Even a single mom and her new squeeze is awkward as fuck for the guy and the kids, and that's assuming everyone involved is reasonably sane and well adjusted. Being the type of downbad dude or dudette who signs up for poly in the first place carries some really sketchy implications where kids are involved, as I'm sure has been said in the thread many times over.

 

[Paper Machete]

1. That man has no intentions of marrying her. They're "engaged" but already live together and have a baby. He's just using engagement as a way to seem more committed than he actually is but I gaurantee the wedding will keep being put off for any number of reasons.
2. She's definitely being manipulated with therapy speak bullshit into being okay with situations she shouldn't. Which is what I always find so creepy about so many "woke" things like poly. It's NORMAL to be upset by certain things. You SHOULD be upset by certain things and take action like when your bitch ass baby daddy brings his side chick home while you have a newborn.
3. There is no way in hell that man needs a break any more than you did, lady. You just gave birth and I would bet are doing most of the care. He doesn't need "space" he's just playing around.

 

[Gandhi's Left Hook]

Polyamory is just a ploy to wigger-fy white people. Only blacks used to struggle with the low impulse sidebitch baby mamas thing. And in terms of female AIDS cases, only black women used to get AIDS (in terms of specifically women who had it since it's usually gay men getting it moreso than women), but I bet polyamory and hookup culture has started spreading it to white women too now.

I met a white couple once. Way older guy duying of full blown AIDS with an absolute psychotic GF who fucked him raw dog and knew he had AIDS. They were sorta poly. She fucked other dudes and he knew about it and didn't care because his options were limited DO TO HAVING FUCKING AIDS. I sometimes wish I had ended them right then and there. Met them once. I felt like the girl wanted to fuck me (give me AIDS). Never been into being a bull though.

 

[Attractive Sexhaver]

I'm certain someone on reddit has been therapy bullied into rawdogging an AIDS patient because they didn't want to be an abelist bigot contributing to anti-HIV discrimination.

 

[The Taco Santo!]

I'm certain someone on reddit has been therapy bullied into rawdogging an AIDS patient because they didn't want to be an abelist bigot contributing to anti-HIV discrimination.

"They have medications now, it's not a death sentence!" - actual quote I've seen from a faggot trying to bully other faggots who said they wouldn't fuck Aids carriers.

 

[AbsurdumRideo]

The only poly relationship I was ever exposed to ended in the guy in the relationship finding a woman he thought was way more fun and outgoing and divorcing his wife whose idea it was to open the relationship. Literally ended a relationship of 10+ years. This was after years of her hooking up with other dudes while he was mostly single I need to add that context. I remember him telling me about how he had to comfort her after her fuckbuddies would break her heart and how insane that was. Like he would literally come up to us and be like "yeah I gotta go console my girlfriend one of her [INSERT WORD FOR POLY FUCK BUDDY HERE] is fighting with her I have to go cheer her up".

Well my ex was POS, but him wanting a poly relationship ( and be cucked) was too much for me. I don’t understand this shit.

 

[mold]

And what's the sidebitch's role in this? You just tell the kid she's an aunt of sorts until they're old enough to understand? How fucked in the head are these people to agree to this sort of arrangement?

most people I know who grew up with this kind of arrangement understood it as "dad is fucking the babysitter." it doesn't matter what the adults thought were going on, that's how the kids understood it.

 

[Tanner Glass]

Oh great, another baby born into a poly mess. Op is having mental health struggles after meeting her meta. Her husband is allowed to leave once a week because he just needs that break from the baby. Instead of telling her to grow a spine, in true reddit fashion, the subreddit is telling her to simply get a therapist.
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The reddit actually turned on her and told her what a horrible idea this was and went through her post history and saw she's been a doormat for months into years.



So she was already told months ago (by Reddit of all places) that this was a horrible idea but she then decides to say her husband is actually amazing and deleted/marked hidden everything she wrote over the last several months.

1. That man has no intentions of marrying her. They're "engaged" but already live together and have a baby. He's just using engagement as a way to seem more committed than he actually is but I gaurantee the wedding will keep being put off for any number of reasons.

Almost entirely an engagement as a result of her being knocked up and her post history indicates that the other girl was looking to make a Triad situation happen (probably at her man's request) because...



She's a submissive in a "mind games/freeuse dynamic/TPE" - which if you're blissfully unaware, is a BDSM dynamic where the master (the man in this case) has permission do in essence whatever he wants to whenever he wants to. TPE is "total power exchange" and is exactly what it sounds like - the master is given control of every aspect. Where she goes, what she does, how she sits, anything. "Freeuse" means that intercourse can happen at any time for any reason (like it or not).

As if this could not already get worse for our hero,



She apparently has a kid from 2017 where the boyfriend then (not the same as now, different ages and such) did the exact same thing to her. It's unclear if they married and divorced or just never married but god damn this woman is just living life as a recepticle.

 

[Paper Machete]

Those attachments aren't working.

 

[Tanner Glass]

Those attachments aren't working.

Must have been the outage, thankfully I saved them because my lord this woman is insane.

 

[break these cuffs]

Must have been the outage, thankfully I saved them because my lord this woman is insane.

Her bf can just solve all her problems by telling her she isn't allowed to be upset over his other fuckbuddies. She's into that kinda thing based on how she's described their bdsm relationship. Also, I would be shocked to find out that she walks around looking for new abusers and pitching herself as the perfect victim.

 

[McSneaks]

Her bf can just solve all her problems by telling her she isn't allowed to be upset over his other fuckbuddies. She's into that kinda thing based on how she's described their bdsm relationship. Also, I would be shocked to find out that she walks around looking for new abusers and pitching herself as the perfect victim.

That freak claims to be into "not thinking and basically rape" yet poly still managed to fuck it up. Great example of what a mistake it is always and forever if even she can't handle it lol.


Kind of sounds more like "I'm justifying being abused and now I'm going to fuck this poor kids life up forever" but I'ma still blame poly

 

[scathefire]

She's a submissive in a "mind games/freeuse dynamic/TPE" - which if you're blissfully unaware, is a BDSM dynamic where the master (the man in this case) has permission do in essence whatever he wants to whenever he wants to. TPE is "total power exchange" and is exactly what it sounds like - the master is given control of every aspect. Where she goes, what she does, how she sits, anything. "Freeuse" means that intercourse can happen at any time for any reason (like it or not).

This shit is complete mental illness, having a pregnant fiancé isn’t really the time to be living out a rape and abuse “larp” that isn’t even a larp. The guy should be supporting her and attending to her needs as an expecting mother, not beating and abusing her under the guise of living out a full-time fetish. Did they anticipate continuing this nonsense while also trying to care for a newborn? These people are more retarded than rocks and shouldn’t be parents.

 

[Tanner Glass]

This shit is complete mental illness, having a pregnant fiancé isn’t really the time to be living out a rape and abuse “larp” that isn’t even a larp. The guy should be supporting her and attending to her needs as an expecting mother, not beating and abusing her under the guise of living out a full-time fetish. Did they anticipate continuing this nonsense while also trying to care for a newborn? These people are more retarded than rocks and shouldn’t be parents.

She apparently considered exactly this and thought she could impose rules on him when the basis for the relationship was her giving up the ability to impose anything on anyone. She helicopters around from him being amazing and being terrible and the same with his girlfriend.

It's worth pointing out (again) she apparently already has a kid prior to this and this is not likely to be her first BDSM relationship so she's likely now just repeating mistakes she's already made.

I really (tragically) wonder what kid #1 thinks about all of this - if she's involved with kid #1 at any point in time.

 

[break these cuffs]

if she's involved with kid #1 at any point in time.

I sure hope not.

 

[Mary Lee Harvey osWalsh]

The guy should be supporting her and attending to her needs as an expecting mother, not beating and abusing her under the guise of living out a full-time fetish.

Please, guy, that requires too much effort and work and selflessness! Why sacrifice your precious time and resources when you could be spending that time gooning?

 

[Agares]

Alpha Mansion animations hit the nail on the head.