Online Dating Grievance Thread - All I need is a toy and any will do

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The women have always sucked but at least there was a time when they were pretty much all either real women or scammers, then the services got infested with trannies and the latest trend seems to be Tinder feeding straight male users male profiles that are just regular men, not even low effort trannies.
Beelzebub's Lawyer powiedział(a):
Hopefully.
I've been doing that for a while now, talking to women IRL is a lot better and a lot of the "6 pack, 6 figures, 6 feet tall" bullshit isn't present when you have the benefit of eye to eye conversation.
Women are horrible on dating apps and on social media in general but in person, they're not that bad.
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Where are you even finding them? young women seem like a fucking rarity now days. I've tried going out but when I do I rarely even see women and even when I do I never feel like there is an opportunity to interact with them.
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As a straight woman, I have had good experiences with Hinge. I don't understand what you guys' gripe with dating apps is. It is superior to irl dating because you get to see their dating intentions and other important information before even matching with someone, which leads to better compatibility. Figuring these things out face to face is more difficult and time-consuming. It gives you access to lots of people you could have never met in a regular setting. Online dating will only get more common because it is more efficient.
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Typical woman response. YOU get to see other information before even matching because you're a woman so you have the benefit of most guys wanting you, straight men on the other hand have to rely on sheer numbers so it doesn't make sense to do much more than taking a glance at first picture. Why bother reading a profile before swiping if there's less than a 1% chance she'll even match with me? I'm already desperate enough to chase girls I have no attraction to so it's not like there's anything in the bio that could be that much of a deal breaker.

Most men get access to nothing and nobody. I haven't even managed to get a girl to use me as a free meal ticket yet.
Tutu powiedział(a):
But do real life alternatives have a significantly higher success rate? At least when someone is on a dating app, you know they actively want to be approached and what type of relationship they are looking for. If I was a guy, I would find it easier to get rejected on a dating app than face to face, especially by women I have to see often like those I know from work, school, etc.
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You'd be surprised how tiring it gets having to do daily logins on three or four separate apps constantly swiping and with your only likes being one per month from a landwhale or tranny(don't blame me for not clocking them in the time it took to move my thumb a half inch, I accidentally click ads for the same reason). Then these chicks who wouldn't look out of place in the Deathfats sub end up ghosting me anyway. It's all so tiring

Tutu powiedział(a):
I agree that hookup-oriented apps like Tinder do have a negative effect, making society more degenerate but Hinge is effective in helping people find serious relationships. Back in the day, they used to meet their spouses through shared circles. Nowadays, everybody is using the internet to socialize, thus a surprisingly large percentage of people do meet their spouses online, although not specifically on dating apps (lots of normies use social media as a dating app).
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What do people even use social media for? It just seems like an even bigger drain on my life than dating sites are, so much bullshit I'd have to fake to give the impression of having a fulfilling life and for what? Just so my posts can be read by my mom and other close relatives who know how fake and miserable my life is? Social media is for those who already have achieved social success and have no fear of ruining their lives, losing their jobs and alienating everyone they know just from one rant.
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I only match with fatties, crazies, single moms. Or sometimes even fat, crazy single moms. I'm in my late 20's.

Dating apps are a fucking joke and if you look into the gender ratio on them, you can see why. Shit's a sausagefest.
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Yeah, that's the normal experience but it's not like the selection or success rate any better if you go out and try, At least it's free and less time consuming than going out just to sit around wasting time.
DoomsdayElite powiedział(a):
An experience twenty years ago soured me on online dating forever. And this was before the apps. It's not a good way to meet people (read: women) because lying is almost always involved.
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Lying is the least of the problems IMO, at least if you're being lied to you're getting interaction which is more than I can say for my attempts at dating.
 
Tutu powiedział(a):
As a straight woman, I have had good experiences with Hinge. I don't understand what you guys' gripe with dating apps is. It is superior to irl dating because you get to see their dating intentions and other important information before even matching with someone, which leads to better compatibility. Figuring these things out face to face is more difficult and time-consuming. It gives you access to lots of people you could have never met in a regular setting. Online dating will only get more common because it is more efficient.
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Hinge is actually the only one I managed to get dates from as a man, it's a lot more usable without paying than the others.
 
Kornheiser powiedział(a):
Question for you that I’ve noticed, why are women on the apps not all but many are so upfront with politics being the big factor in hard boundaries?
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If you are looking for a serious relationship, it makes sense to seek people with at least non-contradictory values. Some people have more moderate views or genuinely do not care enough about politics to mind differences, but for those who do, a progressive and a conservative dating does not work out on the long run.

I have some strongly held political opinions myself, but I did not share anything political on my Hinge profile because I don't want to look like a sperg. I swiped left on everyone who had something offputting on their profile like "No conservatives!", "My politics say "Other" because I'm a leftist!!", "Together we could eat the rich!!!" because I already know we would never get along. The girls you are talking about and these guys are looking for each other.
 
Colon capital V powiedział(a):
Real volcel type shit 😤✊🏿
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scallion powiedział(a):
Hinge is actually the only one I managed to get dates from as a man, it's a lot more usable without paying than the others.
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I've had the worst luck with Hinge. Literally no matches every single time.

Tinder is okay for me along with Hily but of quality of those matches is lackluster. I rarely get matches on Bumble. The women there seem stuck up and insufferable even by dating app standards. PoF and Meetme are sketchy as fuck.
Tutu powiedział(a):
If you are looking for a serious relationship, it makes sense to seek people with at least non-contradictory values. Some people have more moderate views or genuinely do not care enough about politics to mind differences, but for those who do, a progressive and a conservative dating does not work out on the long run.

I have some strongly held political opinions myself, but I did not share anything political on my Hinge profile because I don't want to look like a sperg. I swiped left on everyone who had something offputting on their profile like "No conservatives!", "My politics say "Other" because I'm a leftist!!", "Together we could eat the rich!!!" because I already know we would never get along. The girls you are talking about and these guys are looking for each other.
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Having a politisperg bio is such a red flag for me. If you're a political hobbyist, that means you're neurotic and outraged all the fucking time.
 
Tutu powiedział(a):
If you are looking for a serious relationship, it makes sense to seek people with at least non-contradictory values. Some people have more moderate views or genuinely do not care enough about politics to mind differences, but for those who do, a progressive and a conservative dating does not work out on the long run.

I have some strongly held political opinions myself, but I did not share anything political on my Hinge profile because I don't want to look like a sperg. I swiped left on everyone who had something offputting on their profile like "No conservatives!", "My politics say "Other" because I'm a leftist!!", "Together we could eat the rich!!!" because I already know we would never get along. The girls you are talking about and these guys are looking for each other.
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I find that sperging about politics on a dating app bio such a red flag that mentioning it right away tells me politics is central to your life that it’s concerning.
 
There is a lot of animosity towards these dating apps, I never hear anything positive said about them.
After the recent pathetic attempt to shoot up the pornhub HQ by that Canadian incel, it makes me wonder if one of these guys tries to take their frustration out on one of the apps ones of these days.. it almost feels like an inevitability.
I can also see some closeted guy shooting up the grinderHQ because it ruined his marriage or something, which would be the funniest scenario.
 
Online Dating is Futile - Chadnet
"During downtimes when I was too tired to go out and meet women I experimented with internet dating. I found love from just a few custom tailored emails. My friends think I hit the dating equivalent of the lotto. From what I have heard, I agree. Most guys struggle to get one positive response on dating sites...."
 
babyDunk powiedział(a):
Damn.

I was actually somewhat joking but it does appear like it is skill based matchmaking
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Honestly I go by this rule of thumb:

If you're not fat, you can turn down fatties. Whether it's from metabolism or genetics, it doesn't matter. But if you're a chubster, you have no room to be picky with physique. This applies to both men and women.
 
Agares powiedział(a):
Honestly I go by this rule of thumb:

If you're not fat, you can turn down fatties. Whether it's from metabolism or genetics, it doesn't matter. But if you're a chubster, you have no room to be picky with physique. This applies to both men and women.
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This is how we get more fatties, retard. Yeah, that's exactly what we should be telling them: "HAVE NO STANDARDS! FUCK EACH-OTHER! REPRODUCE! MAKE MORE FATTIES". One of the most beautiful elements of modern life is enjoying hypocrisies like Whales being so psyopped they won't even consider other whales.
 
My main issue with apps is the gamification of dating. If you successfully enter a relationship you no longer use the app. So they drip feed you matches in order to keep you logged in and swiping. It's basically a gatcha game but for finding the most important relationship of your life.
 
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