My Advice or god forbid, if I was a Bella simp. the first thing I would do is tell my family I fucked up big time and take the shit from them, then come over here to fess up and take there shit here too. As for Bella at best, never talk about Bella, or throw her under the bus. Either way it's gonna be a rough ride and people would still hold it against me.
But more importantly, I'd take the experience to hard and grow up because that kind of behavior is faggoty and disgraceful.