I think you're far from alone. A while back a friend‘s boyfriend went on an epic rant about how much he hated drag queens but got on a roll. I quote- ‘I can’t fucking stand gays! I never go to the bars, they’re full of fucking faggots! You should hear the shit they talk about! They really piss me off!’
He just wants to lead a quiet normal life being a guy who happens likes dick, without having to be associated with...all that. He really raged.
I get the impression that there’s a lot of really fucked off people who aren’t happy with the QUILTBAG community they're supposedly a part of.