- Dołączono
- 6 Maj 2019
I find most incels to have an attitude problem, but not without some cause. Societal expectations, clashing with women expecting more than can be realistically obtained, clashing usually with crippling shyness/self-esteem issues, leading to a self-perpetuating cycle of self loathing into external loathing into self loathing.There's only one guy at the incel meetup whose looks are an actual liability; the rest could be improved a lot by either hitting the gym (which would also improve their overall moods), getting decent haircuts and being better-groomed, or both. Most of them are not bad-looking guys at all, and a few are kinda cute, so it's definitely not their looks that are the reason they're alone.
Those Redditors, tho--mousy girl on the right in the beige top is thrilled to be the hottest one there.
Usually, they are salvageable human beings. Clean themselves up, work out a bit, and work on their self-esteem and they tend to shape up alright.
I have NO such hopes for the group of alleged-people in that meetup though.