To any they/them lesbians who have an issue with bi/pan lesbians: Every bi/pan lesbian I know accepts that gender isn't a binary, many of us ARE ALREADY ONE OF YOU, and the exclusionists you're allying with do not support you and will turn on you the second they get the chance.
This particular utterly bizarre alignment of beliefs might be the most confusing, self-defeating and obnoxious in the queer corners of this hellsite.
I'm just gonna mute this thread now BEFORE I see whatever discourse I've brought to my notifications.
The thread that I saw seemed to focus on the idea that lesbians cannot like men and men can't be lesbians.
Gender is more complicated than that, but anecdotally at least me and my fellow bi/pan lesbians are very, VERY rarely talking about lusting after cis dudes. It's all queer.
Queer exclusionist rhetoric is always watered-down TERF rhetoric and at any point can be repurposed to suit TERF needs.
That's not me calling you names, that's a fellow queer trying to warn to you get out and save yourself while you still can.
Whatever boogeyman you think is going to use this acceptance to invade our spaces (again, it's ALL REPACKAGED TERF SHIT) can be dealt with on a person by person basis. Don't use hypotheticals as weapons against your fellow queers.
