I just don't see it as shady at all. Yes, the power dynamic is different for an older man and a younger woman. Here's the thing though: that's a power dynamic women like. It's the reason you see it happen way more often than the inverse.
The only reason this whole thing is on the table now is because of people like Shoe: older women being traded in for younger women. Now back in the day, older women would just side-eye young whores and keep them in line other ways. I'm not expert on it but broads would just sort it out, and it worked across generations. This was especially amplified with groups of married women.
Now because of their gay sisterhood the blame falls to men for daring to be into women in their sexual prime and extreme unlikelihood of trying to desperately get pregnant by you or steal all your money. You will see this increase year over year as millennial women age into irrelevance, and the ones who actually have kids will usually shut up about it forever.
But otherwise, women dating older men happens all the time, they are attracted to it, everyone on the planet knows this, and until 15 minutes ago it wasn't used as a placeholder for being a pedophile. And I mean really think about it, unless you're a zoomer you can remember a time before we were calling everyone creepy for dating younger women. What, precisely, is creepy about it? What's creepier is older women dressing up in cheerleader outfits and shit to try and look young, not 17 year olds who at a distance look like they can breeze into a club which is pretty much the only thing D'Elia is guilty of.
Even on the absolute extreme where it's like an 80 year old dude with a 30 year old wife, every single person who sees that understands it. It's never "wow what's going through his strange mind? What is trying to GET AT with that?"
And for this reason Sh0e was great for this, she's a dumb ho. I don't think you can plug her into the trad life and have it last long term, it'll just be a lot of window dressing and she'll eventually bow out for some other dumb shit that'll get her attention. And now she's stuck with that, there will be no wheatfield-walking for her!