Okay.
You know that there's no way to prove or disprove engagement. It's pretty easy to get away with making alt discord accounts and doing whatever you want. Even if I had the private messages, they would most likely be useless for identification.
I was just fed up of the nth attack she has gotten, and wanted to know if it was justified and maybe talk to the engagers about it. I do see how fruitless my attempts are now, because the said attackers wouldn't care about this place's rules in the first place, and might not even be members.
Maybe this message will get to the relevant people.
Maybe not.
So on that note, sorry for the intrusion. I just wanted the attacks to stop, and kept to the community it came from.
P.S: It's hard for you to say your community doesn't condone engagement when you dox the individual. That just asks people to use it, regardless if they are members or not. Doesn't matter if it's public info; you're still inviting them.