The only person I feel bad for in this situation is Ross.
Jared is hormonal dumbass who set up a tumblr where he solicited nudes from his fans, and started all of this by announcing his divorce on twitter, Heidi is a vindictive, manipulative attention whore who thought having polyamorous relationship was a good idea, and just won't let this thing fucking die already, Holly is a whiny idiot who seriously needs to stop the whole "muh mental health" schtick lest she do more damage to her already destroyed reputation, and Nulyu is a snappish, holier-than-thou, whiteknight SJW who is clearly involved with this more than we know, but is somehow the smartest out the bunch by actually successfully locking down all of his social media accounts, (no, I still can't access his tweets) and nuking the rest.
Quite frankly, while they all might not be equally bad, they all still definitely deserve each other.