She is allegedly moving in a couple of weeks. Assuming the happy couple isn't waiting for the last moment, arrangements would have been made. Perhaps Phil dropped a wad of cash on a plane ticket and wired her money to rent a u-haul etc. I've seen enough judge Judy to know if you give your soul mate money without a specific written contract the other party can do whatever they want with it and have no legal obligation to pay it back. If this was a scam she could string Phil along to get some cash pretty easily. Just tell him what he wants to hear. She wouldn't even have to sleep with him if she said something like not until we live together. Tell him you love to cook and clean and pay bills. We'll just have to see.