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How so? This kind of sounds like you’re marrying someone you’re not sure about. Do not do that. Do you need help to not marry someone?
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More getting married in general, because I don't think it would be 'fair' for anyone to marry me the way I currently am, and there's a specific point regarding religion(basically apostasy in an area that very heavily frowns on it) that I don't think I'll ever be able to properly fix which means it would be a very major secret I'd keep from any potential spouses or lovers, or even children, and I wouldn't want to do that.
 
I feel like I'm supposed to be doing something but I forgot what? Read some anti-psych stuff and now I'm back to "Drop the goypills" but the rational side of me that's like "No." is a bit louder so I think I'll be fine. Oh shit I remembered what I was supposed to be doing as I was typing this lol.
 
Getmeout powiedział(a):
I feel like I'm supposed to be doing something but I forgot what?
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stupid frog powiedział(a):
No person outside of those who have seen the franchise will know she's an android.
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No opinion on the larger issue but SHE HAS CABLES COMING OUT OF HER BACK AND HEAD, AND PARTS OF HER BODY ARE PARTIALLY DISASSEMBLED, SHOWING INTERNAL CIRCUITRY

WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU MEAN PEOPLE CAN'T TELL SHE'S AN ANDROID
 
⋖ cørdion ⋗ powiedział(a):
Genuinely, how often do you see an adult with a somewhat functional social life go "yeah so I joined a new book club".
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Weekly, because I'm in a book club and every week, really nice, functional, friendly new people join. For sure there's some people who join because they don't have a great social life (me included, I've talked in this thread about my own social isolation after all my friends fucked off to all corners of the universe, I became a remote worker, and my marriage ended), but even they are typically good once you get to know them; they've usually just fallen off the side of socialization because of work or some other circumstance beyond "they're bad at peopleing".

It's been going since January (I joined in March I think) and it has become a really tight-knit group of friends, at least the regulars. Of course some people join and then don't gel with it and leave, but it's surprisingly been a minority. As of yesterday (the official sessions are on Wednesdays, plus any other gathering that may come up on other days), the core group is 24 people, plus like 30 more that "joined" recently but haven't joined a session yet but do talk online. Sessions usually have between 10 and 18 people present, as not everyone is available every week and people's houses and apartments are only so big. We've had to implement processes to keep things manageable, and regulate the rate people are added to the "core" group.

I'm even pretty sure two members are hooking up.

What I'm saying with all this is: book clubs, sports groups, hiking groups, and in general hobby groups* can and do work for people who want to socialize, but you have to put in the effort. First you join, then you show up, then you are actually open to actively participate. If someone joins but doesn't go, or goes and just stands there, it won't work for them.

I feel like what you're saying is just being predisposed to it not working, so it won't work, so don't do it.

But from personal experience, it can work.

*I do admit I'm prejudiced against D&D and Card collecting game groups, as I expect those do attract the dankest, most non-functional spergs available. Anecdotally, my daughter told me the other day that she and her mom went into a card hobby shop to ask about something or other, and the whole store SMELLED OF ASS.
 
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