I've realized this but not with relatives. My husband does odd job car work and repairs their cars for extra money. Pretty much every single guy who is much older than him are incredibly entitled, and on top of that, they constantly call and text him about their constant car problems.
And they do this pretty much every day. Nonstop. At all times when he's working. For the same reasons you've written. "You know how to fix it. Help me order car parts because I don't know how to order online. Come over to my house and work on my car." These fuckers act like it's some emergency like their car is going to just blow up or catch on fire.
And if he doesn't come over or answer their needy texts, they hound him and beg him to come over.
And all of them are boomer assholes and way older than him. Don't even get me started on all the Middle Eastern men. Seeing their behavior and attitudes ended up giving me a hatred for Muslim men, lol.
Fuck entitled old boomers who can't figure out how to fix stuff by looking online or reading a book. My 90 year old grandpa figured out how to use a computer, and these nearly 60 year old men can't Google.