"" Her brother Greg later recalled a man that she had gone out with several times before moving to Sarasota, but agreed that his sister had trouble connecting socially in the beach resort town. He believed her constant self-deprecation for being "dateless" contributed to her ongoing depression."'
You even mention that she had dates. She sounds like a high standard cunt who refused to settle for the countless men willing to settle for her, she's not even fat. In today's sexual marketplace she'd be extremely desirable but would still treat all the men pursuing her as subhumans and would complain about how no man wants her.
She tried but had severe social anxity
unimportant with a woman, she didn't need to approach, she can just get drunk and high to cope, the man will lead her wherever she needs, she doesn't need to operate machinery and even if she has a bit too much and can't walk she could still be carried. Those same things can't be said in the reverse.
Some incels are obviously dudes with high standards tho?
what do you define as high standards? "under 250 lbs and under 50"?
My theory is that they dehumanize woman.
It's not like the women see us as human.
A incel could do the same.
Disregarding how gay that is do you actually think most men would be ready and willing to fuck a random incel who walked up to him? Fuck no, most men aren't gay, quit the porn.
both incels and femcels are fucked in the head
being "real" of any of these is wasting your life
...You made a whole thread that got to 40 pages and one of the big points was whining about how you'll never be able to get a titjob because you don't have a dick. I just want sex and affection which one of us is more fucked in the head?
Because men think women live on easy mode and that if we just put some effort into ourselves, we have the pick of the litter if we go out clubbing.
You do and you don't even have to go out for it anymore, it literally comes to you after a few minutes on a dating site, meanwhile men like me spend years or even decades dedicating our entire lives to the pursuit of pussy only to end up as kissless virgins who haven't gone on even one date.
I just wanna grill, man. I don't want to be a whore and I don't want to go clubbing. My list of issues is what's keeping me from even attempting to date, nevermind that I'm in my mid 30's and I don't want children. I have nothing to offer to either sex because I'm not beautiful, not funny and not successful in life.
And here you even admit that you aren't trying, where I have spent half my fucking life trying and I've been trying so hard that it has damaged my relationship with my family, left me behind in my career, and caused me to lose basically every friend I have because I was so desperate in my cries for help. These aren't even close to the same experiences.
She tried to date multiple times but failed due to anxiety.
She literally succeeded in GETTING THE FUCKING DATE that's a hurdle most incels will never clear short of chadfishing.
To be fair this describes a great many male incels as well
I'm not even especially bad looking and almost my entire life outside of posting here is spent trying to do anything I can to maximize my chances of getting a woman and I still can't get a first date. You have no idea how bad the dating market really is.
They exist, but is like they make up like 4% of the incel population, they are such a rarity that even counting them is a waste, while a lot of incels suffer from the "Expectations ruined by porn" syndrome the male threshold to have someone look at you is definitely higher than the female one. At least in the straight spaces, faggots of both sexes will fuck anything that moves.
I don't even get the claim of expectations of being ruined by porn, if you look at women 80 years ago basically all of them have the typical porn actress build even in pictures of a random street or a beach. 200lb fatasses being tolerated is a recent development.
In what sense capable?
A lot of incels are men crippled with severe autism.
If they were charismatic they would've probably catch some fish
My lack of charisma was beaten into me by lack of opportunities and constant negative feedback whenever I begged for help getting a woman. Everyone treats me like shit so that's what I expect to be treated like.
