US Americans finally snap over 'ridiculous' tipping culture as millions slash gratuities... and reveal the trick they are refusing to fall for - A new nationwide survey found that 78 percent of Americans believe tipping culture has become 'ridiculous'

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Americans have finally reached their breaking point when it comes to tipping.

After years of being asked to leave gratuities everywhere from coffee shops and takeout counters to ride-share apps and self-service kiosks, many consumers say they have had enough - and are now tipping less than they did just a year ago.

A new nationwide survey found that 78 percent of Americans believe tipping culture has become 'ridiculous,' while nearly half say they have actively cut back on gratuities in 2026 as household budgets come under increasing pressure.

The findings, from restaurant technology company Popmenu, suggest a growing backlash against what many consumers see as relentless requests for extra money on top of already rising prices.

According to the survey of 1,000 adults, 44 percent of consumers say they are tipping less this year than they were in 2025.

Retail analyst Neil Saunders told Daily Mail that consumers are increasingly frustrated by both the size of expected tips and the growing number of situations in which they are asked to leave them.

'There is growing resentment over tipping, which is partly driven by the fact everyone is feeling squeezed financially,' Saunders said.

According to the survey, restaurants have been hit hardest by the backlash, with 35 percent of respondents saying they have reduced tips when dining out.

Grocery delivery services followed at 24 percent, while hotels, ride-share services, auto repair businesses and hair salons also saw notable declines.

The research points to growing 'tipping fatigue' among consumers who are grappling with higher costs for food, housing, utilities and other everyday expenses.

Many Americans say digital payment systems have only made the problem worse.

Nearly three-quarters of respondents said they have noticed restaurants increasing suggested tip amounts on checkout screens, with many establishments now prompting customers to leave 15 percent, 20 percent or even 25 percent gratuities.

While 59 percent of consumers still say they feel pressured to tip when presented with a digital prompt, that figure has fallen from 66 percent just six months ago, suggesting people are becoming more comfortable clicking 'no tip.'

In fact, 42 percent of respondents said they now feel increasingly comfortable skipping gratuities altogether for services where tipping was not traditionally expected.

Consumers also reported spending less on what they considered unnecessary tips.

Over the past year, respondents estimated spending around $130 on gratuities they felt were unwarranted, down from $150 in a similar survey conducted in late 2025.

The trend is also showing up in restaurants.

Only 41 percent of diners now tip restaurant servers 20 percent or more, down from 45 percent last year.

The decline was even sharper for food delivery drivers, with the share of customers tipping 20 percent or higher dropping from 23 percent to 15 percent.

Even traditionally tip-friendly venues are seeing pullbacks. The percentage of consumers who tip at coffee shops fell from 46 percent to 39 percent over the past six months, while tipping at food trucks and fast-food restaurants also declined.

Popmenu CEO Brendan Sweeney said workers who rely on gratuities are increasingly feeling the impact.

'Tip-reliant professions are feeling the financial impact of tipping fatigue more than anyone,' Sweeney said. 'This is compounded by customers having less disposable income due to inflated costs for food, energy and other necessities.'

'One is the level of tips, which seem to be getting higher and higher,' said Saunders. 'Adding 25 percent on top of the cost of a meal seems excessive to many, and it adds a huge amount to the price.'

He added that consumers are also objecting to being asked to tip for services that traditionally did not warrant one.

'The other dimension is being asked to tip for things where only basic service has been provided. Customers collecting their own food from restaurants, for being served in a retail store, and so forth all feel unnatural and unreasonable.'

Despite the backlash, many consumers remain open to alternative compensation models.

More than half of respondents said they would be willing to pay higher menu prices if it meant restaurant workers received better wages and tipping could be eliminated altogether.
 
It's really insane to me coming from Europe.

There is no world ever where I would tip as much as 20%. I'll tip a proportional amount of 10% maybe, if I tip. Sometimes larger if it's cheap and I like the service. Up to 70€ it sounds OK, but really if I am happy.

But when we go up in prices, I am going to cap my tip. There is no way I am going to tip you more than 20€, even if I spend 1K. I think it's more than fair already. Nobody else gets this kind of tips anywhere. You are paid to bring dishes. I expect that from a restaurant.

Of course service is included in most places in EU so that makes a difference. But I feel Americans took the soul out of the tip. If you make it routine, then it's no longer a token of appreciation.
 
It's simple: don't tip anyone except waiters, porters and maybe bartenders. You didn't tip anyone else 10 years ago and you shouldn't be tipping them now.

Give them a big fat zero.
Never Started. Tipping your burrito artist and taking out a Klarna loan to do it is the most dystopian fucking thing I’ve ever seen, and I’m never going to do it
 
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The craziest thing was that they increased the percentages blaming "inflation", which is stupid because percentages already automatically account for inflation.
 
It's really insane to me coming from Europe.

There is no world ever where I would tip as much as 20%. I'll tip a proportional amount of 10% maybe, if I tip. Sometimes larger if it's cheap and I like the service. Up to 70€ it sounds OK, but really if I am happy.

But when we go up in prices, I am going to cap my tip. There is no way I am going to tip you more than 20€, even if I spend 1K. I think it's more than fair already. Nobody else gets this kind of tips anywhere. You are paid to bring dishes. I expect that from a restaurant.

Of course service is included in most places in EU so that makes a difference. But I feel Americans took the soul out of the tip. If you make it routine, then it's no longer a token of appreciation.
From what I gather, 10-15% was the highest it ever went until the last 5 years, when it suddenly shot up and everywhere from coffee and donut shops to movie theatres started asking for tips.

Waiters have to serve you for longer than 5 minutes; everyone else who just heats up some food or pours a coffee should not be entitled to a gratuity. If the normal citizen possessed a brain, this trend would never have escaped San Francisco.
 
If you make it routine, then it's no longer a token of appreciation.
Its a 3rd world-type bribe for the service you're ostensibly already paying for. Most servers in the US without tips make near or less than 20,000 dollars every year.

Its a shit job that pays awfully. People should push back on tipping in every industry just because of how its used to justify wage suppression.
 
The most ridiculous tip request I've seen was at a counter service restaurant that was asking for an additional tip on top of an automatic 10% "service gratuity" that they stuck on the bill. Of course they put it on one of those digital payment screens and the minimum suggested tip was 20%. It was something like "Good Experience: 20%, Excellent Experience: 40%, Amazing Experience: 100%." Mind you, this was counter service, so they were asking for payment up front.

Maybe it was supposed to be bribe, rather than a tip.
 
Implying that tipping culture is going away as the country rapidly becomes browner may be the whitest white lady thing about the reporter.


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From what I gather, 10-15% was the highest it ever went until the last 5 years, when it suddenly shot up and everywhere from coffee and donut shops to movie theatres started asking for tips.

Waiters have to serve you for longer than 5 minutes; everyone else who just heats up some food or pours a coffee should not be entitled to a gratuity. If the normal citizen possessed a brain, this trend would never have escaped San Francisco.
I think you can still agree that if you spend actual money, it's not reasonable to start with.

If you're five people at dinner, it's not unreasonable to run up a tab in the 500+ including wine in a regular restaurant. The 15 collective minutes it took for my waiter to care for me don't deserve a 15% or even a 10% tip, I am sorry.

I think it was unreasonable to begin with.

I truly enjoy tipping, because I know that the people I tip appreciate it. They know I don't have to, and they know I do because I recognize that they are better than average. And I tip them because I want them to keep being that way.

Now if the tip is not only extortionate, but expected. Then what's the point anymore?
 
I think you can still agree that if you spend actual money, it's not reasonable to start with.

If you're five people at dinner, it's not unreasonable to run up a tab in the 500+ including wine in a regular restaurant. The 15 collective minutes it took for my waiter to care for me don't deserve a 15% or even a 10% tip, I am sorry.

I think it was unreasonable to begin with.

I truly enjoy tipping, because I know that the people I tip appreciate it. They know I don't have to, and they know I do because I recognize that they are better than average. And I tip them because I want them to keep being that way.

Now if the tip is not only extortionate, but expected. Then what's the point anymore?

The justification for it previously was that waiters and such were underpaid and made little more than minimum wage, so the good nature of their customers through tipping helped put them closer to a living wage.

Tipping was never a part of Australian culture and hopefully never will be, but there's much less justification for its existence in American culture now. These tipping groups don't make as little money as they did before, and prices are excessive.
 
I’ve always refused to tip random baristas, ‘sandwich artists,’ and everyone else that’s not a waiter or a delivery driver, and I only started getting shit delivered after it became necessary following major surgery and mobility issues.

I always have wondered if the listless dead-eyed Gen Z/Gen A servers at Noodle Company or equivalent ever felt shame about rattling the tip jar, and I’m afraid the answer is probably ‘no.’

TL;DR, if you’re not my waiter and you didn’t deliver my groceries or dinner to my literal goddamn door? No tip for you.
 
Ever since the tip options started showing up on the POS systems at counter service restaurants I've wondered how much, if any, of the tip actually goes to the staff? It wouldn't surprise me one bit if the staff never see any of that tip. I don't tip at counter service places out of principle, but that's yet another reason not to.

I guess you could say the same thing about a traditional sit down restaurant, but they have established procedures for tip pooling and how the tips get divvied up between the server and BoH staff. The Subway kiosk in Singh's gas bar? Not so much.
 
Having been a server and bartended a bit in college, those people absolutely should get tips because they’re paid next to nothing and most work their asses off. Restaurants can pay way below minimum wage because it’s expected that servers will get paid through tips. If they don’t make up the amount in tips they get minimum wage. Everyone understands this and people that go out to sit down meals and don’t tip can rot in hell.

Everyone else though, they can fuck right off. I used to not mind tipping other people on occasion if I felt like I got exceptional service but even then it wasn’t expected and certainly wasn’t demanded.

Editing my comment to add: I think it would be great if the entire practice was done away with, including restaurants (which is basically the only time I tip because I generally don’t order delivery). But until restaurants are forced to start paying a wage that can be competitive, not tipping at a sit down restaurant is shitty. In fact it’s nigger behavior. Because those are the people who usually don’t tip at all.
 
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It's really insane to me coming from Europe.

There is no world ever where I would tip as much as 20%. I'll tip a proportional amount of 10% maybe, if I tip. Sometimes larger if it's cheap and I like the service. Up to 70€ it sounds OK, but really if I am happy.

But when we go up in prices, I am going to cap my tip. There is no way I am going to tip you more than 20€, even if I spend 1K. I think it's more than fair already. Nobody else gets this kind of tips anywhere. You are paid to bring dishes. I expect that from a restaurant.

Of course service is included in most places in EU so that makes a difference. But I feel Americans took the soul out of the tip. If you make it routine, then it's no longer a token of appreciation.
Tbf, 20% tip in the USA is about the same as tipping in Europe because we tend to ignore the fact that taxes are included.
 
Reminder that they doubled the money supply during COVID and everyone's just more poor now. That's not debatable, it's just how it is. Eurotards have always scoffed at American tipping culture, but it was fine when we were in a better economic position, when you could get hired as a white guy in America and you actually made money at your job.
 
The justification for it previously was that waiters and such were underpaid and made little more than minimum wage, so the good nature of their customers through tipping helped put them closer to a living wage.
I made ~$3/hr when I was a server/bartender (10 or so years ago now) but if I didn't make at least minimum wage through tips my employer had to cover the difference. This varies by state, I believe, and I don't remember if it was federal or state minimum wage.

Anyway, tipping is a scam.
 
Having been a server and bartended a bit in college, those people absolutely should get tips because they’re paid next to nothing and most work their asses off. Restaurants can pay way below minimum wage because it’s expected that servers will get paid through tips. If they don’t make up the amount in tips they get minimum wage. Everyone understands this and people that go out to sit down meals and don’t tip can rot in hell.

Everyone else though, they can fuck right off. I used to not mind tipping other people on occasion if I felt like I got exceptional service but even then it wasn’t expected and certainly wasn’t demanded.
Restaurants can pay way below minimum wage
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Ehm. Yes. And this needs to stop ffs. Minimum wage should be the starting point and a tip a little thank you (if you have some money left for it)
 
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