They do not exist.
As so many others have noted, they denigrate the people who want to fuck them as "chasers", because that, too reminds them that they are living a lie.
Essentially, they want a Stacy/Chad, who is also kind, loving, rich, indulgent, 100%-willing to let them goon all day and never contribute at all, while simultaneously gaslighting them so skillfully that they never, ever have to think about the fact that they are not and never will be women.
They want kind, sweet people whom are also manipulative, gaslighting sociopaths, and whom also want a parasitic narcissist attached to them more firmly than a tranny's cum-encrusted programmers socks are stuck to his hairy legs.
It's a tall order.