Ask men why they do things the way they do and maybe you'll get an honest answer

[Epic Fail Man]

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or it it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

This is the type of confusion I've been seeing. "Why are my male platonic friends suddenly acting weird?"

Men will get the wrong idea. It is very hard to have a platonic friendship with a opposite genders, at least at a certain level of intimacy men and women have friendships with each other. There are few cases where it works but it's like 2% of the time and they most be in very specific points in their lives.

You can have a coffee with them once a month or something and maintain a light friendship, but when you hang out too often with a man his instincts kick in. In the mind of a man when they build a "friendship" with a woman they see the end goal as "pussy", always. They see it as an investment, so when you have been "friends" with a man and that friendship has become more "intimate" and there has not been any advancement (usually due to the man's fault for not being forthcoming with his developed feelings and letting it go on for too long), they start to see the friendship as a sunk cost and will start to either ghost you or lash out and behave weirdly BPD.

This is also driven by the male ego and arbitrary idea of "status" and "dignity". thoughts like "what am I a cuck? a simp?", "how could I have been so pathetic and waste this much time with that woman". the humiliation and degradation of a man's sense of dignity and pride is a bigger stab in the heart than a rejection of a loved one. I think even your dear feeder feminist admin null has said this and this should absolutely be something taught to women and men in "women studies" or "sex studies" which they never tell because they don't know the "negative" psyche of a man as the educators are full of shit and most men are too proud to admit this or are in their nice guy phase in denial. but it would be good for both genders to know this.


Here's a bonus. "What about gay men with other men" you might ask?
Here's a little secret for you and I've spoken to gay men and found out about this. A lot of gay men you meet are actually not exclusively gay. Most of them are bi. So be careful of your gay friends. I was at a lunch break and talking to this outspoken gay man who makes everyone know that he's gay. He shows me a picture of his "best friend" who is a blonde woman. He says to me "she's got nice tits don't you think?" and I'm like "eh". He starts to get visibly angry and argues about how hot she is. I ask him what does he care he's gay, he then leans over and whisper's "actually I'm bi". several weeks later it was revealed that most of the gay men I've met are actually bi. So I tell other men this, watch out for your GF's gay friends as they might take pictures of her and jerk off to them. Your gay male friends might not actually be gay, and anything for pussy is the man's motto even if it means to snake your way in as a faggot.

 

[Agarathium1066]

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

I'd welcome it. Just try to say they 'look sharp' if its their outfit or something related to appearance. If you think they're doing a good job on a task, tell them. We get praise very rarely unless its a compliment couching a sharper criticism or an attempt to butter someone up. You'll likely see confusion and moderately defensive reactions. Men have been taught that if something seems too good to be true (even if its something small) then it is.

I'd hope to pass on to a daughter that communicating your feelings like that helps keep things more clear. It might take some work to use the right language to not potentially signal any more personal interest. Some won't figure it out at all but that's the case with every interaction. Spergs are everywhere.

 

[A Very Big Fish]

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

I think it depends on the compliment and how we know each other. I think guys who take every compliment as, "She must be in to me" are socially retarded. It also doesn't help that most men get a compliment once every 3 to 5 business years.
But...

I once had a woman I worked with tell me I had a sexy voice. Now, maybe I'm just as socially retarded as the next guy, but I think if she was going to literally use the term sexy, wasn't out of line for me to think she was interested.

Regarding what I would teach a daughter, be courteous, but realize that a lot of people are fucking dumb, so don't say stuff that could string an idiot along. I know that's vague, but I'm not going to pretend that I've given it much thought, I'm not a parent. The one piece of advice I would give to women, is that if you want to make a man feel like a million bucks, a sincere complement from a woman he likes, that shit is seared into his brain for the rest of his life.

 

[McMitch]

When it comes to prog rock, I was always more into Jethro Tull. I agree that Rush is a very technically proficient band, but it's not my bag.

Rush was a prog band that didn’t hit big until a year after prog had been supplanted totally as a mainstream genre. I would say their one contemporary, Kansas, is the better group.

 

[The Grognard]

Rush was a prog band that didn’t hit big until a year after prog had been supplanted totally as a mainstream genre. I would say their one contemporary, Kansas, is the better group.

I also think Rush in particular is amongst the most radio-friendly of the prog bands of the time. People often forget this but being able to make stuff that could be played on the radio was an important stepping stone for any band that wanted commercial success.

 

[Shamefuru Disprayu]

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

Depends on the compliment:
"I like your shirt" that type of compliment is fine and generic enough to not be misconstrued.
"Nice cock" only our bros and significant others can say that, even though we all know they are lying.

I would teach this lesson, word for word to my daughter.

 

[MadStan]

You don't think women can make observations?

Of course I think women can make observations. I just thought the comment "...Not because they will/won't be answering honestly, but because there are several billion men on this planet, and every single one has different personalities, drives, ideals, morals, etc..." was very manly in nature because men like to give an answer and justify why its right rather than accept the fact that it might be wrong.

I thought you would have read my comment as compliment, but I guess I messed that up, proving with certainty, that I am indeed, a man.

 

[Illuminati Order Official]

I'm dating myself with this probably, but why do men like Rush so much?

Because...

Spoiler

...we are the priests
Of the Temples
OF SYRINX!

But seriously, I don't know. My wife likes them too so I guess it's not exclusively men.

 

[Sexy Senior Citizen]

Men do what they do because they're men, simple as.

 

[We Are The Witches]

...was very manly in nature because men like to give an answer and justify why its right rather than accept the fact that it might be wrong.

I'm always open to be corrected, if what they say is compelling enough.

 

[Waffle Iron]

why do men run defense so hard for BPD foids? it really is baffling to watch a dude defend a woman thats done nothing but burn down everything he ever loved

Because BPDs have a perfect antenna when they feel their prey pull away. They lovebomb you and seem like the most amazing perfect person. Which makes sense since they have no personality of their own and copy yours. Then they split on you and you try to hold out, because you remember the good times and figure she's just having a rough time and you're crazy. Then, just when you're about to cut her loose because she's destroying all your friendships, she suddenly turns back into the perfect person again and begs you for forgiveness. Wouldn't you take the girl you like back when she's saying she's sorry?
This continues a few times until she found another guy to latch on to, or when you are strong enough to cut her off even when she tries to pull you back.

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

It's a vicious cycle. Some guys get the wrong idea, so less women compliment men to avoid giving the wrong idea. This makes compliments even more charged since they're given so rarely. I honestly don't know how you could compliment without some guys thinking it is an invitation. Even if he knows you have a boyfriend already, he can still be thirsty and retarded enough to try.
If you want to be nice to men, compliment their work (not their looks), thank them if they did something for you and be kind to everyone. If you're also generous to his friends and colleagues he might notice you're not singling him out.

Or become a granny, guys won't get the wrong idea if a granny is nice to them.

 

[Plastic Paddy]

why do men run defense so hard for BPD foids? it really is baffling to watch a dude defend a woman thats done nothing but burn down everything he ever loved

BPD can either stand for Best Pussy Disorder or Best Penis Disorder, either way as a guy I have no desire to be attached to a woman who can't get a grasp on their mental issues. We all have some but not having worked to keep them in line is no excuse. Be an adult help yourself first before you add another person to that equation.

 

[The Feline Solution 2]

80% of why men cheat on their GF or wife is because the other girl does anal

Anal is so overrated. From talking to younger, male relatives i feel bad that girls/women of the younger generations are almost expected to take it up the shitter. From personal experience women either like it or don't, no gray area, if you pressure a girl into assfucking when she does not like it you got something wrong with you. To not make this post all about shitting on inept males, i had multiple, younger women tell me how anal is "vanilla" now in the past couple of years. Despite my views on anal these where some peak "I'm born in the wrong generation" moments for me

Like the pee comes out faster?

Yes.

Men, thoughts on belly dancing?

Hot and very enjoyable to watch if it's a genuine lebbo girl who had training and knows what she does.

So I can take an assertive stance at the urinals and mog the others.

A King amongst men.

why do men run defense so hard for BPD foids?

Only have second hand experience with BPD girls (more than i like, really), no man i know who has had some sort of a relationship (be it in a work enviroment, ONS, or an intimate, longer lasting one) with one does that, me included. As a Christian i am convinced they have no souls, literally.

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord? What would you teach your daughter?

It's flattering but i value compliments my male friends give me, be it about my physique, on my accomplishments or whatever else infinitely higher than if a woman i am not sticking it in compliments me (nohomo). It also often leads to misunderstandings and overthinking (on the man's part) when a girl you know who is taken does that shit.

 

[DoomsdayElite]

You don't think women can make observations?

Not many accurate ones, no.

No offense.

 

[Gothic Runes]

They're probably talking about the Man Hate thread. I used to love that thread but I quit going to it when Amber Heard Supporter and Lidl Drip left and Android Raptor got banned. It just wasn't as much fun after that. I still love my based zoomer women though.

I looked at that thread once and they were calling men penisniggers. And they say women aren't funny.

 

[Agarathium1066]

I looked at that thread once and they were calling men penisniggers. And they say women aren't funny.

Holy shit that's actually pretty funny. Good on them.

 

[147573952589676412927]

why do men run defense so hard for BPD foids? it really is baffling to watch a dude defend a woman thats done nothing but burn down everything he ever loved

Dudes who fucked bpd bitches cope about it by saying that they are really good on the bed and most men like to go along with the it to see if another sucker ends up falling for it and then we get to laugh at him for being a gullible retard

BPD Bitches give off the energy that they'd be really fucking insane in bed but they legit just lay there.

 

[long waters]

What kind of genuine questions do you men want to be asked?

Stuff like How to unclog a sink drain? A: You disassemble that whole bish and clean it properly!

Alright men, how do you feel about women who are not interested/not single giving men compliments? Sometimes I want to give men platonic compliments like I would to other women, but I hold off as to not give the wrong idea. Do you think women should feel more comfortable doing this or is it unbecoming? Do you think this would improve the general relationship between the sexes or would it sow confusion and discord?

I think it might be a good thing, but it could also give off the wrong idea depending on the context.
Like for example, the other day I was clearing up snow on the sidewalk and some random lady greeted me as she was passing by, wishing me a good day. It was a very nice thing. Probably one of the best foid interactions I've had in years.
On the other hand, if this was some situation where it's someone I might see on a regular basis, like the office, I might start getting the wrong idea that she's interested in me in some way.

Edit:

This is the type of confusion I've been seeing. "Why are my male platonic friends suddenly acting weird?"

Men will get the wrong idea. It is very hard to have a platonic friendship with a opposite genders, at least at a certain level of intimacy men and women have friendships with each other. There are few cases where it works but it's like 2% of the time and they most be in very specific points in their lives.

I generally agree with what you're saying in that post.
One thing I noticed with my interactions with foids, I seem to not have this "getting the wrong idea" problem when it comes to friendships with married women or women that are already in a committed relationship. If it's clear from the start that the woman is unavailable, my mind switches to treating her like a sister instead of potential mate.
Not that I've had many foid friends to begin with, but the ones that were not spoken for I've almost without fail developed some kind of feels for at some point and it sucks.

 

[Dojima's Dragon]

Every man loves his money and are OCD about keeping things cheap. We have a wired intuition that helps us detect whenever there's a variable that might increase our expense bill by a couple of cents.

You can say in a way...we are all jewish.

 

[Otterly]

Not many accurate ones, no.

No offense.

Accurate or precise ?