r/parentsnark has recently been pearl-clutching over people judging boys for being unruly little monsters, and women expressing that they don’t want sons (called gender disappointment). It’s like a weekly thing now. And sure, it’s Reddit, odds are half the posters are bots, trannies, or larpers. But the hand-wringing is still absurd. It’s one of the last subreddits I check because it’s sometimes funny and sometimes picks on silly parenting stuff, but the “please think of the moids!” is beyond annoying. I cannot take seriously the idea that anyone, including mothers of sons, is genuinely
offended by the concept that some women are distressed about having male children.
Women have held (some) real power for a microscopic sliver of human history. Even now, I routinely see millennial and zoomer women deferential to useless males who actively worsen their lives. All it takes to see what males are doing to women is opening a news site. The sale of child brides is the economic backbone of entire countries. Female infants and fetuses are systematically destroyed in multiple cultures and I think sex-selective abortion against girls is almost certainly happening in the U.S. where those cultures are present like Deerborn, MI.
There has never been a parallel, global system of male disposability enacted by women. No country’s GDP has ever depended on the sale of child husbands. Male suffering has overwhelmingly been inflicted by other males through war, abuse, and hierarchy, not by women.
The idea that it’s
insane or
offensive for a woman to feel grief or dread about carrying and birthing a male child is what’s actually insane. One in four women in the U.S. has been sexually assaulted. Virtually every woman alive has experienced unwanted male attention or male abuse of some kind. I can’t think of a more understandable reaction than a woman feeling conflicted that her body, her blood, her bones, is now being used to create another male in that system. The scale mismatch between a woman saying, “oh I’m having a son, I really wanted a daughter” versus a bunch of female fetuses in a biohazard trash bin at an abortion clinic, or a bunch of infant girls being neglected in foster homes, is so extreme it feels surreal.
And the cope of “you can just raise him to be good.” How many generations of women make up the 300,000-year history of humankind? How about just the 10,000 years since agriculture was first invented? How many mothers have held their infant sons and thought,
I’ll raise him differently than his father? If maternal effort were sufficient, male violence would be an anomaly by now. Are we seriously suggesting that mothers in the Middle East, Eritrea, Somalia, and elsewhere are simply choosing not to teach their sons that women are human beings? In 10,000 years we can turn a mouflon into a sheep, an aurochs into a cow, a wolf into a dog, but we can’t make males human because we just didn’t think about it until now?
That argument just blames women. If a son grows up to be a shitbag, suddenly it’s his mother’s moral failure.
They also whine about girls-only parties because girls are better behaved than boys. I always hear about how upset the mother is about their moidlets being excluded, I never see a post like, “my son was upset about this”. It’s always centered on the mother’s feelings of distress, it seems the moidlets don’t care at all. It’s just emotional martyrdom over something that hasn’t caused harm. “Won’t someone please think of the moidlets!” Hell no. Stop having them? And the claim that girls are just better behaved is itself a lie that hurts girls. Girls are policed earlier, punished harder, and expected to mature faster. Girls aren’t inherently better (well yeah they are, but you know what I mean), they’re just not allowed to be children the same way that boys are.
The other argument I see a lot from these mothers of sons is “men can’t be all bad or you wouldn’t have bred with one”. Like, come on. I think everyone who’s ever peaked on trannies can make a conclusion that male abuse frequently begins or escalates during pregnancy, but it’s also hardly a realization unique to those who’ve peaked. It’s a period when women are most vulnerable and least able to leave. And even if the woman has finally found her nigel who’s one in a million, she’s likely had enough experience with other scrotes to be dismayed at the thought of having one.
I just really cannot reiterate enough that what’s upset these women is another woman feeling disappointment over having a son. She’s just feeling a feeling. There’s no systemic harm. There’s no suggestion she’s going to abort it (god I wish). She’s just kinda sad, she’ll most likely get over it and love her newborn son. That’s all. That’s it! The argument is if you’re not happy to have any baby, you shouldn’t have a baby at all. Most eyerolling of all is the comments suggesting the kid could be trans or nonbinary. Don’t worry, mama, your scroteling might grow up to troon out so you can let out a big sigh of relief. Whew, I’m so relieved that my son, Lilith, has almost certainly stolen my underwear in his pursuit of gender affirmation, thanks redditors.
For some reason, moids fail to grasp that two people can be at fault and they are dog piling Sacramento without also holding Tom accountable. He is still a predator and is a degen who is brain rotted by porn. Only a porn addict psychopath would partake in this hitting and choking during sex nonsense. Both are terrible people in my opinion but Sacramento's misdeeds don't magically absolve Tom of what he did
Kinda crazy to me that the “makes fun of lolcows” website drops the fact that tom is a lolcow whenever the need to shit on women arises. All the moral scolding all over her profile page has been so cringe, too. God, this is supposed to be a website where we laugh at people, I thought the moral outrage brigade was for tumblr or tiktok.
the normalization of violence against women in sex is extremely fucked up. the amount of people in my generation who just think strangulation is a totally normal if not expected feature of sex is so fucking disturbing.
I was startled to find out that choking is considered nbd by my zoomie coworkers when they were discussing dating advice. Apparently I’m an ancient hag for suggesting not to do that. TMD.
Dankula has gone full blown fucktard lolbert…
I stopped watching this retard when he made a video whining about those British policewomen running an anti-catcalling campaign. The collective mantrum over that campaign was unbearable.
There is no married for forty years couple on earth who met through catcalling. There is no lifelong love story that began with a stranger yelling sexual comments out of a car. No woman is fondly reminiscing about her meet-cute where a guy leaned out of a shitbox and screamed “nice tits, sweetheart.” Well, maybe troons.
A catcall is not harmless flirting. It’s unsolicited sexual attention. That’s why pretending it’s “romance” is laughable. Women who oppose catcalling are generally fine with mutual flirting or cold approaches in appropriate social settings. What they reject is being sexually shouted at while minding their own business. It’s completely unserious to frame men screaming sexual remarks at strangers as people earnestly trying to find love.
Also, let’s be real, they’re most likely targeting muslims and jeets with this. Catcalling is for low IQ, low impulse having types.
Edit: I also saw a female user the other day claiming that she read both gender wars threads and that this thread is soooo much worse while Woman Hate isn't serious and is just haha funny memes and jokes. It's just a microcosm of reality, I guess.
I read that thread sometimes and have never seen a point more cogent than “DAE hate it when HOAHS don’t FUCK you”. I was gonna mention it a while back when this thread had a few posts about “consent accidents” and contrast it as “woman hate thread: whining about not having female attention. Man hate thread: actual rape being downplayed by several men”. If that’s not a microcosm of the “gender war” then I don’t know what is. Maybe she finds the woman hate thread easier to handle because it’s not just a parade of actual heinous shit happening, it’s just lolcows crying about having a dry dick.
) giving all the information :
). Wow, when did you become such a nazi karen bitch?? If a trans WoC of colour sex-worker punches you in the face, you definitely had it coming
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