I understand people have rightfully called me out for saying stuff about Tom without providing the full context and spinning the narrative about certain things. I’m sorry for not providing the full context of this situation. Here is the full truth with no lies. Just 100% coming clean.
Yes we were both into kinky stuff, but I will say he did never ask before engaging in it so I just assumed he was into that and played into it, from after our first sexual encounter. On our first sexual encounter he was very rough and engaged in choking and BDSM without asking before. What he was into was basically rape play/CNC so thats why I repeatedly referred to it as such, that wasn’t out of the blue me calling our encounters rape. I never asked him to be especially sexually aggressive at first it was like that from the jump. It was because of the nature of our encounters I assumed that was what he was into. Yes I’m into some freaky shit like that but he is VERY MUCH into it too - and that doesn’t mean that he occasionally didn’t take it too far to the point where I would express physical pain. Tom was only able to ejaculate from the videos or if I was crying in pain, and that is the truth.
Also its true I had never used KF before my relationship with Tom and he was on the website often, and did have issues with ED.
Also yes I used to be online and I knew who Tom was but my online activity has been very limited in the past few years and all of my accounts were private.
The bleeding was caused by sex, not my birth control. I made sure to note that in my texts with him, I said I was on my period sometimes or just bleeding after sex if you review the screenshots we have both posted. I would be on my period off and on for a month on occasion but I would bleed consistently after sexual interactions. Sure we had sex on my period sometimes, but he would also cause me to bleed multiple times from our sexual encounters when I wasn’t. There is a clear difference between period blood and blood from being wounded TMI.
Also the Lolita poster was in my best friends room, and I was calling her room goals because I thought her squishmallows are cute. Tom has been in my room multiple times and I did not have any lolita or lolicon related stuff in my room, so I think its odd he referenced that, especially considering Ellies room is filled to the brim with Lolicon figures, and he visited her IRL.
One thing he did not address is the fact that he did hit in me in the face multiple times which I never asked for nor consented to. He also did not address Katie being bruised from their sexual encounters which she proved with photographic evidence.
The texts with my roommate were genuine and I did tell her about a time after we had sex that was very aggressive and he did say he liked hurting me. I was uncomfortable after that one experience but I still stayed with it and fed into it. Tom did bring up the Liam and Kai situation with me multiple times and I knew nothing about the details of that until he showed me pictures of them together. On one occasion he did drive to my place and rant about Kai for like 3 hours before having sex with me that was aggressive. That is when he showed me texts from her and told me about the blackmail folder.
I did ask him if it was okay to film a couple of times and made jokes about the meta goggles, but the rest of the times he would start filming without asking, a couple of times I waved my hands to get him to stop and expressed discomfort and he did stop but kept the videos. I believe I held the phone up once during one of the times I asked him to film. There were several occasions in which he would take his phone out mid sexual activity and record without asking first.
I also find it interesting he called me an insecure partner, when another girl came forward confirming that he was indeed cheating on me throughout our relationship.
Another thing he didn’t address is the ageplay situation. The woman he met up with has been exposed multiple times for being an ageplayer and a lolicon. That was one of the main reasons for me coming forward in the first place because she dressed like a child and fed into that stuff. Based on what Ive seen from her instagram, there is absolutely no way he would not have known this.
He also did not address the comments he made towards me and Katie about us looking underage, which were genuine comments he made.
The things I said in the interview about Destiny and Dick Masterson were true and he told me those things in person.
Katie and I will be making a longer response with more screenshots enhancing our side. He did ask for nudes and we have proof of this. The “unsolicited” nude pictures claims are crazy.
I also want to say that in my sperg out text chain to him during our breakup I called him out multiple times for hitting me without my consent, which he conveniently left out.
