That, plus demanding to "educate" the general public about her warped beliefs. She might turn into a bitter crybully as she ages.
That's a good point, especially about the world being less forgiving to older women. I think for me, she made me feel like "there but for the grace of God go I". Her experiences and her trauma resonated strongly with me and I do feel a measure of empathy for that. And while it is absolutely okay to be devastated by such experiences, eventually you have to ask yourself,are you going to let it define you, and wallow in self pity forever,or are you going to rebuild yourself stronger from the aftermath?
I had to come back to this because after dealing with an insane narc mom my entire life I think I could dissociate enough to put up with Anna or Tess for a few hours if it meant I could see how big they are without filters. That would be worth it to me because I am so fascinated by how god damn big they must be.
Sorry about the narcissist parent, I know how it goes. It might honestly be therapeutic to spend time with a ridiculous narcissist you have no attachment to, kind of like watching the boogeyman trip and fall down a flight of stairs. Take out all the fear and let you laugh at them. The only thing the devil can not stand is being laughed at.
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Replying to @Daniel don’t worry Daniel, I made it back to sea
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I thought this was just another silly trend, but putting these two pictures together made me tear up. so much growth and healing has happened over the last 10 years, and I’m so proud of 17 year old Bekah for holding on and sticking around, even when they really didn’t want to#cptsd #mentalhealthtiktok #healingtrauma #HealingJourney
happy new year friends! I always find this time of year overwhelming, especially with all the diet culture and “new year, new me” posts on social media. this year, I’m trying to spend less time scrolling, more time doing things that make me happy, and just generally giving myself a god damn break for once. I deserve it, and you do too, so I hope you’re being kind to yourself
a new year doesn’t have to mean a new you. just because the calendar year has changed, doesn’t mean that you or your body needs to. the person you are right now is pretty wonderful as far as I’m concerned
Her, Jaimie Weisberg, and Jacqueline Adan are some of the ugliest women I’ve ever laid eyes upon.
I find Virgie kind of fascinating. She’s been around forever and is very successful at her grift. Plus by Gorl World standards she’s actually a smallfat, she just has horrifically unfortunate distribution.
She still looks like she fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch with her face on the way down.
God shes so ugly that I’m pretty sure my brain automatically tries to repress her visage so I forget about her until I see a picture of her.
Last week, I got an email from someone named Amanda, who wrote me from a subway car in New York: “I was doing OK until these #WeightWatchers ads hit the subway. Now it feels inescapable — they are on every screen in this car, they flash and draw attention, and it’s hard to keep reminding myself not to look. I’m fat, in recovery from a long history of eating disorders (over 20 years), and dealing with mental health issues and physical health issues related back to the ED... I feel like the WW ads are so much worse than those ads that showed thin white torsos with needles. Those were kind of gross, but these are more ads that look like people I relate to, most of them aren’t skinny and look like a size that {my brain thinks} should be actually attainable for me, and that’s somehow more triggering to me personally.”
The damage being caused by these ads is not just about the sheer inescapability of them. It’s that the ads are deploying a flavor of fat-shaming/fatphobia that’s new to us. We’re no longer in the era of overt fat-shaming. We’ve entered the era of covert fatphobia.
Like implicit racism or implicit sexism, it often has a positive, hopeful, uplifting, pitying, or helpful tone. It wears the language of empathy and empowerment. Yet, it produces the same outcomes: it perpetuates the idea that it is products that fat people need to change our bodies, not a culture free from weight stigma.
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Ashley’s weird baby teeth freak me the fuck out. Did anyone ever figure out whats wrong with her teeth?
