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Most fatty parlor users are dykes and won't suck your dick lil bro, go find a new group to simp over


The biggest mistake incels make is being whiny and male at the same time, that's it. Delusional worldview and mental illnesses come second. Complaining about the opposite gender and expecting sympathy for it is only reserved for muh lady

That retarded netflix show adolescence is a good example of how out of touch the average wahman is in regard to the male loneliness problem. Meanwhile feminists were clapping like seals and insisting that all teenage MOIDS be forced to watch it.
Mossad gave me gold T&H to sponsor this thread to lower the goyim birthrate and create division between the sexes
 
The ones who settle down early are taught that it’s a good idea by their conservative parents, who explain that the nice treatment will disappear sometime after age 35, and that the wise course of action is to lock a man down in your early 20s when your looks are still great enough to hypnotize a man into signing a marriage license.
Mentioned before, and you can see it with the older unmarried guys who post here, but there is a hidden factor in this too: men change as we get older, too. When I was 25, I would have gnawed off my arm to impress a girl. In middle age? Meh. If I were single, I would not put up with the amount of bullshit I put up with in my twenties just to land a woman. If a woman thinks the clever play is to wait until she's got crow's feet and a 25% chance of miscarrying to start thinking of marriage, she's not just waiting until her looks have faded; she's also waiting for men to become a lot more comfortable with staying single.

Along those lines, what very few women are taught when they are young is that her husband's bullshit tolerance declines as they get older, so if you've got a mind to put him through hell while you're still young and hot enough for him to tolerate being flailed by a poison tongue, if your heart's desire is to shrewmax, expect to spend the back half of your life as yet another miserable married old woman whose husband never smiles at her.
 
When I was 25, I would have gnawed off my arm to impress a girl. In middle age? Meh
Absolutely. I'd do more to impress or rather get a laugh out of my male friends than i'd do for any women in existence (exceptions being my grandma and girlfriend, my mother is used to me being a disappointment :story:) now that i am closer to my 40's than 30's.
 
When I was 25, I would have gnawed off my arm to impress a girl. In middle age? Meh. If I were single, I would not put up with the amount of bullshit I put up with in my twenties just to land a woman.
I think about this sometimes, like a very tangible sign that something is wrong. It's good to know if you're single at 40 you're not going to just blow your brains out, but at the same time deeply depressing if that's the optimal, rational choice to make. I think maybe things are best when men want to gnaw off their own arm to impress a girl, and in turn she gnaws off her own arm to be worthy of that kind of dedication. Uhh, maybe the metaphor is escaping me a bit.

I'm reminded of the maxim that in negotiation, the party who is willing to walk away from the table has an advantage. The one that needs the negotiation to work out the most is committed and more likely to capitulate to demands to seal the deal. If both men and women are holding out to 40+ in the negotiation of coupling up and starting families, what does that even do? Maybe men are happier than women in that situation, middle-aged and single, but it's still a relatively unenviable state - sure, maybe it's better than picking the wrong person and getting divorced and living your life penniless paying child support, raising kids in a broken home, whatever your worst case scenario.

How do you end up at the point where both parties think it's easier just to walk away? Surely it's not unworkable to start a family, are expectations just so skewed by (the state? social media? the jews?) that somehow people are convinced it's easier to let society die off?
 
I'm a terrible void of chivalry, mostly because I've lived around too much "uwu won't somebody do X for me" from girls without the drive to impress them.

My boyfriend, sweet guy, is constructing his sister's bed frame. Is she an invalid? Six years old? Dainty? Busy? No, no, no, no. She's an athletic sports-playing 17-year-old laying on the couch in the living room on her phone watching TV. Her shit is laying around the room. She didn't even create enough space for construction. He doesn't even live here. I appreciate his hardworking dedication, but she hasn't even offered to help. *I* have assisted him with this more than she has, clearing shit out of the way, sorting boards, hunting for tools. Watching things like this unfold are release valves for the whispers of chivalry that manage to creep into me. Teenagers are terrible. Teenage girls are the worst.
 
My mother-in-law is a man hater, very "feminist", and always trying to start shit between me and my wife (much to my wife's embarrassment). However, I must really be doing something right these days because THIS year, I received an early Christmas gift, the crown jewel of reasons for her to bitch about things... she actually got mad because "I proved her wrong" via "doing everything right". That's right, the problem this year is that by being upstanding enough... I've made her look foolish and wrong. I know it reads like an "and then everyone clapped" reddit post but holy shit I'm sitting here, hours later, still stunned (and flattered, really) at the absurdity of it. It's just been the classic bitchy crazy mother-in-law scenario for years and her most recent meltdown was nothing but cathartic. I've tried to figure out what the hell her problem is, how I can do anything to make her happier (ie less annoying) but if you do what she asks she bitches, you do you own thing that works out better she bitches, you do your own thing and it doesn't work out you better fucking believe she bitches. I always figured it took two to tango and most mother-in-law issues were probably just because both parties sucked at communicating but god damn it's real there is nothing you can do to appease mother-in-law stereotypes. Absolute woman moment.
 
she actually got mad because "I proved her wrong" via "doing everything right". That's right, the problem this year is that by being upstanding enough... I've made her look foolish and wrong.
I require details of this interaction because I've had similar situations with colleagues and fellow students back in college
 
Merry Christmas, ya filthy animals. 😘
Merry Christmas to everyone as well
Enjoy vacations and holidays
It's good to know if you're single at 40 you're not going to just blow your brains out, but at the same time deeply depressing if that's the optimal, rational choice to make.
"The hardest choices require the strongest wills."
Choice to follow that is easier than accepting the current reality of how bad things got and boy are they bad.
maybe it's better than picking the wrong person and getting divorced and living your life penniless paying child support, raising kids in a broken home, whatever your worst case scenario.
The worst case scenario is getting your heart ripped out repeatedly. Being a prisoner of your ex is something you don't want as well as paying child support/allmoney to a hag that jumped on every dick but yours. If you want company, you get a dog.
How do you end up at the point where both parties think it's easier just to walk away? Surely it's not unworkable to start a family, are expectations just so skewed by (the state? social media? the jews?) that somehow people are convinced it's easier to let society die off?
It is a way of silent protest by both sexes. "I'm not getting what I want so I'll walk away and let things (society) rot"
My boyfriend, sweet guy, is constructing his sister's bed frame. Is she an invalid? Six years old? Dainty? Busy? No, no, no, no. She's an athletic sports-playing 17-year-old laying on the couch in the living room on her phone watching TV.
She is 100% a woman in her natural state - world exists to meet her desires.
My mother-in-law is a man hater
Daddy issues
I always figured it took two to tango and most mother-in-law issues were probably just because both parties sucked at communicating but god damn it's real there is nothing you can do to appease mother-in-law stereotypes.
I will say it once more: She is not your family. She doesn't share your blood. You are seen as an "adoptee" to her family (if anything).
I've tried to figure out .... bitches .... she bitches .... fucking ... bitches
Solution is to just do your own thing and ignore her. Week later she'll completely forget everything.
The BPD narchag wants to be "valued" by her opinion - look I'm helping. Getting even more devalued is making her even more mad.
She begs for male attention yet repulses every male around. She's still 18 yr old teenager inside with a face of 60 year old. "Why don't you listen to meeee ! Waaaah ! "
 
My mother-in-law is a man hater, very "feminist", and always trying to start shit between me and my wife (much to my wife's embarrassment). However, I must really be doing something right these days because THIS year, I received an early Christmas gift, the crown jewel of reasons for her to bitch about things... she actually got mad because "I proved her wrong" via "doing everything right". That's right, the problem this year is that by being upstanding enough... I've made her look foolish and wrong. I know it reads like an "and then everyone clapped" reddit post but holy shit I'm sitting here, hours later, still stunned (and flattered, really) at the absurdity of it.
I've had a very bitchy mother figure do similarly then when I didn't take bait swap to trying to call me 'whipped'. I asked her if she wants a man to run roughshod over their wife or respect that they can have opinions then stick with it. That pissed her right the fuck off but she kept having to couch every single comment in 'But this is good'.

She just wants to bitch at you and now that her argument is void she's just going to keep doing it. The only winning move is to ignore them or not come over.
 
I require details of this interaction because I've had similar situations with colleagues and fellow students back in college
I was right about one little thing, wasn't even being an asshole, just a little anecdote that she disagreed with for some reason. She (awkwardly) insisted on verifying this, a small comment in casual conversation, and I ended up being correct. This proved to be the straw that broke the camel's back, somehow. She got all huffy and left the room. My wife looked really confused by her mother's actions and I got up to ask what was wrong. What followed was a bizarre series of statements about how "You have a lot going for you, such as [thing], [thing2], [thing3]..." with her paying me compliments while getting angrier and angrier! She concluded it with "...but your worst trait is that you [speak authoritatively on many things] (I can't recall the verbatim words used for this) and sometimes, often, you end up being right, but..." and she sort of trailed off there, realizing that this was all sorts of retarded. Thinking about it, I do now have a sort of reasoning behind her acting like this which is...
Solution is to just do your own thing and ignore her. Week later she'll completely forget everything.
The BPD narchag wants to be "valued" by her opinion - look I'm helping. Getting even more devalued is making her even more mad.
She begs for male attention yet repulses every male around. She's still 18 yr old teenager inside with a face of 60 year old. "Why don't you listen to meeee ! Waaaah ! "
The issue is she's not totally useless, and at least in her heyday was actually a relatively competent scientist, and not just some diversity hire either. I think deep down she knows that the things she believed and fought for have genuinely made the world worse for her kids and feels guilt about it and is basically kicking and screaming to not accept that. She truly did face an uphill battle at some points of her career decades ago and the age of free information has damaged the prestige of institutions she was proud of for a long time, and she doesn't like some schmuck (me) just steamrolling long-held beliefs on merit of the internet and new better knowledge being out there.

It is funny though because sometimes, and only sometimes, when she nears very close to being a raging narcissist... something snaps, and she attempts to flee, to another room, back home, whatever, and then seems to genuinely feel shame for her actions, not just performatively. Doesn't seek pity, just gives a curt, genuine apology for her actions, no strings attached, and leaves it at that. It's really fascinating, because it's a person teetering on the edge. An entitled boomer woman just programmed and retarded enough by the feel good slop and victim complexes to desire the status quo more than anything, but just competent and self-aware enough to torture herself with the realization that that may not be what's best for her family. That perhaps it never was. A "girlboss" who wasn't just for show like 99% of them slowly realizing, to her abject horror, that the whole thing was a farce. I suppose if my worldview of 50+ years was being challenged dozens of times a day I'd be a bit unstable until I picked a lane too lmao. Make no mistake though, these are her fucking problems that I am unfortunately sometimes forced to deal with. I'm not exactly downing in pity over somebody repeatedly fucking up relationships and then making it other people's problem.
 
Talked to a female friend of mine today who was complaining she needed to cough up $2,000 to get her headlights replaced. She has a 2014 Honda Accord. I told her she was being overcharged, she got offended and said the person who quoted her was a family friend who was trustworthy and generous. I texted a mechanic friend of mine to ask what he'd charge, and had to show her his much lower estimate along with his saying "they are fucking her badly" when I told him what she was being charged before she'd relent and accept maybe her nice friend her father trusted wasn't so nice. She also had to ask her father what exactly was wrong with her headlights (I was wondering if there was a wiring/electrical problem deeper than just the headlights themselves that was justifying the estimate she'd received) and what kind of car she had, because she didn't know.

She had been freaking out because, as she said, she only makes $3,000 a month. At another point today she'd told me A) how she was romantically lonely, and B) how she'd never date anyone who "worked for a wage" (as opposed to a salary) because she thinks this makes a man too financially insecure. I got lowkey angry at this point and made sarcastic remarks about how doctors were too low for her and she didn't deserve love, which made her relent a bit, but left something stuck in my craw.

She also happened to mention especially hating truckers because they're very poor, which she thought because apparently she'd had some friend in high school whose father was a trucker, and this friend had, she said, lived in a small messy house where partitions had been installed to make more rooms.

I don't understand how women are this insulated from reality while simultaneously being so demanding. I like women on a basic, instinctual level, and I want so badly to like them more on a higher one too, but putting up with this kind of attitude makes me feel like tearing my hair out.
 
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