Actually Jesus supports me.
Buying friends with money is good:
Luke 16:9 "9 “And I say to you, make friends for yourselves by unrighteous money, that when you fail, they may receive you into an everlasting home."
Keep pestering and pestering a person who is not giving you justice until they do:
Luke 18:1-7 "Then He spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not lose heart, 2 saying: “There was in a certain city a judge who did not fear God nor regard man. 3 Now there was a widow in that city; and she kept coming to him, saying, ‘Get justice for me from my adversary.’ 4 And he would not for a while; but afterward he said within himself, ‘Though I do not fear God nor regard man, 5 yet because this widow troubles me I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me.’” 6 Then the Lord said, “Hear what the unjust judge said. 7 And shall God not avenge His own elect who cry out day and night to Him, though He bears long with them?
Keep pestering and pestering those you care about until they give you what you righteously desire:
Luke 11:5-8 "5 And He said to them, “Which of you shall have a friend, and go to him at midnight and say to him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves; 6 for a friend of mine has come to me on his journey, and I have nothing to set before him’; 7 and he will answer from within and say, ‘Do not trouble me; the door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed; I cannot rise and give to you’? 8 I say to you, though he will not rise and give to him because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence he will rise and give him as many as he needs."
The person who is sinned against should always forgive the person who sinned against them if they repent of what they did:
Luke 17: "3 Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.”"
The best thing a friend can do for those he cares about is to sacrifice his entire life for their wellbeing:
John 15: "13 Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends."
We should love our enemies and do good things to those who hate us:
Luke 6:27 "27 “But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you"
So then I will leave Tamar alone so long as there is a protective order and so long as she is married. But when the protective order is over, if she is not married anymore, then I will buy her friendship with unrighteous money and i'll keep pestering her until she gives me justice, and justice is forgiving me because I am her brother and she is required to forgive me by command of God because I repent of my sins so she is obligated morally to forgive me. I will keep pestering her to give me the righteous thing I desire, which is her friendship at a bare minimum. I will love her even though she is my enemy and I'll keep trying to do good to her even though she hates me. And I'll sacrifice my entire life for her, if needed. As long as I am not doing anything illegal, I am in complete justification for pursuing her if she is not in a relationship and if there is no court order against me. So I just have to wait until the court order is over and wait until she may be single again.
