"You're one of the most secure people I've ever met! Well you've become less secure over time because your world has kind of been shaken, but..." AHHHH

"For the first four years of our relationship, there was no one that could make you feel bad about yourself", and the she starts to say "I think it's because OUR RELATIONSHIP DYMANICCC WHERE WE POKE FUN AT EACH OTHER AND" before iDubbbz interrupts her.
I'm going to be a retard armchair psychologist again and say that Anisa was trying to backpedal with that last bit because she knows how bad it sounds. It's a shit backpedal because even if your relationship revolves about you guys poking fun at each other, if the result of that is Ian having less confidence every day, then that just sounds outright abusive you fucking moron