I learned back in 2019 that my brother thinks I have something going on, which is wild to me since I've never known him to buy into paranormal stuff. He phrased it something like, "intuition so strong (I) may as well be psychic”. Here's the long of it:
My brother, some mutual friends and I planned ourselves a eurotrip, starting our planning at the end of 2018 and getting everything figured out by autumn 2019, with the plan of being overseas for the end of March and beginning of April of 2020. Just as we were about to start reserving/spending money on it, I tapped out.
”Oh, no way in hell am I going then." Was my brother's immediate response. Of course, our friends were wondering how in the hell all of those months of planning and putting money aside just flew out the damn window started asking questions to figure out what had changed. That was when my brother made the intuition/psychic quote and proceeded to list a bunch of examples of times I had, for no discernable reason, noped out on trips I should have been super excited to go on only for the trips to go off the rails for those that went.
-That time I said a last minute no thanks to a road trip only for the trip goers to have a tornado touch down within five miles of them, getting sprayed by a crop duster and badly sickened resulting in hours at the ER, the cars engine bay catching fire totalling it resulting in buying a replacement vehicle while on the road (and my poor brother getting blasted in the face by a poorly handled fire extinguisher); they didn't even make it out of the home state before having to stop to get the vans AC fixed only to find out there was no hotel availability within an hours drive because some event in the area, my cousin had a tree they were less than ten feet from exploded by a lightning strike causing hearing damage, etc...
-The island camp trip I waved off the day before where an exceptionally rain heavy storm forced everyone to evacuate the island before it went completely underwater. What was a below knee hight wade in turned into the strongest swimmer (again, my poor brother) having to risk his life making it to shore to run a line across the water so the rest of the party could pull themselves to safety along the line, using their waterproof gear bags and air-filled contractors bags as emergency flotation devices. Most gear was abandoned, deemed not worth the risk to life to haul it across food waters.
-The cruise I declined despite enjoying my first cruise experience where it was 6 hours of good sailing and the entire rest of the trip was horribly rough seas that left everyone miserable with seasickness, including the people who'd never had issues with motion sickness. Those willing to tough out their misery found most ship-board amenities/entertainment shut down for safety. Stops at harbor were used to catch up on sleep instead of fun activities, because sleeping is hard when the ocean wants to toss you from your bed all night, every night.
-The other island camp trip I again last minute lolnope'd from where they got to the lake only to return home to get the paddles they forgot only to get to the lake to turn back around again to get the PFDs they forgot. Then they paddled halfway to the island when a popup supercell damn near sank their canoe just in time for a wildlife officer to zip by them, his wake flooding the canoe a half mile from any shore. The wildlife officer never noticed he'd sunk them, the canoe and non-floating gear was lost to the lake and everyone had to swim to shore as the storm battered them.
When the cancelled eurotrip date finally rolled around an my friends realized, ”holy shit, we came so close to getting completely fucked over by covid” my ability became a topic of discussion again. They wanted an explanation and I had nothing to give them. I never got any bad vibes, no negative thoughts or sensations, not even a swoop in my gut or a bad dream about any of it. One moment I'd be hyped for a trip and a microsecond later I would be happily disengaged from the whole affair. I'd never thought about my lack of thought, until I was being asked about it by my perplexed friends. I cannot give a single flimsy reason for declining any of those trips. I just did, and thought no more about it beyond, ”whew, I really dodged a bullet” when people would return with horror stories.
What do you think, kiwisisters? Am I blessed with stupid amounts of luck or is some part of my brain/spirit/soul tapping into something Other outside of my general awareness, keeping me free of bad trips? I think it's sheer dumb luck.
Tl;dr: I seem to have an unusual ability to specifically avoid nightmare trips and after my last swerve away from a disaster my brother and friends think I have a power. Paranormal or just lucky?