Are you lost needing femoid advice post here - For the poor bastard's who dare or are just curious

[Thé au lait]

@Psyduck I'm late but please for the love of Christ weather this out together, I can tell you that if I were her and my fiancée ended it because we had to downsize and they felt guilty about not being able to start a family immediately, I'd never forgive them. If those same financial circumstances made it so we didn't get to start a family when we wanted, I'd regret the circumstances at worst and most likely think "for reasons I can't fathom, this is what the Lord intended".

Can you give me specific instances thougheverbiet

He's saying societies with polygamy tend to have a lot of fucking rapeapes, except he's saying that's a natural and morally neutral thing.

He's saying polygamy>not enough women>incels (who just can't help themselves but to be rapeapes), rather than the chain being women are treated as chattel>polygamy、rapeapes (because it's just a property offense or a "mistake" and not what it actually is)

 

[Treasure Champs]

Second one is, and honestly, this is probably just the shock of the moment speaking but... Should i just end it with her right now? She's been so excited, so happy about the idea of marrying up, having kids... Hell, the idea was to finally get her a ring by June, work towards getting a house later down the year, put the bun in the oven... But it doesn't look like it's gonna happen anytime soon like we planned.

What the fuck even is this retarded way of thinking? "If I can't have an absolutely perfect life with this person, should I dump her?" Uh... NO? Material things are not a substitute for a loving relationship. Forget the ring, no-one needs an engagement ring anyway, propose with a cheap amazon special and keep the money for a house deposit. As for kids, you will never feel like you can afford them. Have them anyway, and find a way to manage like everyone in the depression and the world wars did. They are worth it and kids don't know they are poor. You will feel like shit when you can't buy them things they want but they generally get over stuff quick. Honestly, what kind of toolbag would rather be rich and alone than poor with a loving family? Do you think your gf is that toolbag?

when I try to see them as individuals and human they tend to behave so superficially as to create doubt in my mind.

Women have nothing expected of them except not being fat and ugly, because their value is carried with them. Men must generate their own value, it is entirely of their own design, and must incorporate aspects which are desirable to women. It's more difficult

I think I have found your problem. You don't actually believe that women are real people, with inner lives as complex as your own, personalities as diverse as men, with problems that are just as real and complicated. As soon as one woman starts saying something superficial, instead of thinking, "hmm, this woman is superficial" you think "wow, women are superficial".

How would you like it if half the world acted like you weren't a fully actualized human being with your own individual personality, thoughts and feelings? Or if they did attempt to acknowledge these things, always kinda hinted they were less important, less consequential. less DEEP than their own thoughts and feelings and personality? You'd walk away in disgust pretty quickly right? You are downright BROADCASTING that you believe that women are all about the same, inferior to men, with limited problems and easy, compartmentalized lives (as long as they aren't 'fat or ugly' they just have it made, apparently).

Of course you can't get a date or a girlfriend, you don't even think we're full human beings.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Yes, the problem is that women can sniff out that I'm an incel from miles away, every time I decide to be open minded and attempt to open up to them they get the "ick" and find a different, taller chadlite. I'm in a vague, niche hell.

This is redacted enough I think. Ebil narcissistic mirror physique post.

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Oh but it doesn't matter because they'll sniff out that I didn't socialize well in middle school. Fuckin a right I'm in a catch 22, and now I'm the reddit asshole (YTA PATHETIC INCEL) for it, and nothing is useful.

How old are you? How old do you think I am? I cannot find IRL dating events without "50+" or "40+" attached to it anywhere. I am in my early 20s. Joever...

I know just the girl for you, you should send her a DM with some more pictures, her name is @Vingle and she will treat you right.

 

[Psyduck]

I still want to stress the importance of talking to your girl. You are a team, never forget that.

And if you wanna talk just shoot me a pm or write here.

@Psyduck I'm late but please for the love of Christ weather this out together, I can tell you that if I were her and my fiancée ended it because we had to downsize and they felt guilty about not being able to start a family immediately, I'd never forgive them. If those same financial circumstances made it so we didn't get to start a family when we wanted, I'd regret the circumstances at worst and most likely think "for reasons I can't fathom, this is what the Lord intended".

What the fuck even is this retarded way of thinking? "If I can't have an absolutely perfect life with this person, should I dump her?" Uh... NO? Material things are not a substitute for a loving relationship.

Now that some hours have passed by and things got cleared up, i'm embarrassed i even got that idea in the first place...

Lady Duck pretty much suspected something had happened, so the actual revelation wasn't exactly a huge hit for her. What did sting her was the idea that i thought about breaking off almost a decade long relationship because of something that isn't "that big of a deal".

Ugh... Sobering up now, i can't believe i thought of that in the first place. Good news is everything seems fine for now, bad news is i'm a retard.

 

[Thé au lait]

Now that some hours have passed by and things got cleared up, i'm embarrassed i even got that idea in the first place...

Lady Duck pretty much suspected something had happened, so the actual revelation wasn't exactly a huge hit for her. What did sting her was the idea that i thought about breaking off almost a decade long relationship because of something that isn't "that big of a deal".

Ugh... Sobering up now, i can't believe i thought of that in the first place. Good news is everything seems fine for now, bad news is i'm a retard.

You may be a retard, but it seems like you're at least a well-meaning retard. Hopefully she understands why you thought that was a good idea (or why you thought it was a good idea to even tell her that instead of just "I'm upset we can't start a family"), good luck to both of you!

 

[ChudJack009]

How would you ladies deal with niggers who insist on trying to give heartfelt dating advice to retarded misogynistic faggots who have said over and over they hate women?
One, two, like maybe, three bullets?

I don't think insulting him helps all that much either.

Spoiler: In Defence of the niggers

f it’s truly a case of him not listening to advice, calling him a fag is just about as useless as actually giving advice, isn’t it? You’re still giving him the attention, and if he’s just looking for attention, then I don’t think he’s picky about what kind it is. People say things they don’t mean all the time—that doesn’t excuse it, and it doesn’t make it correct. He’s upset, and while that’s not an excuse for his behavior, it’s an explanation.

The guy’s got a problem, he’s come here—whether in good faith or bad—to explain his position, however retarded. I’ve decided to engage him in good faith because he made the effort. Insulting him only makes him more callous to your arguments, however well-meaning. All in all, he’s better off piecing together the criticism you’re trying to give him, but he’s not able to do that with the way you’ve presented it. Is it man-child behavior? Yeah, probably. Do you have to tolerate it? No, you don’t. Tough love is a fine strategy—some people really do just need a kick in the pants—but you’re just trying to hurt his feelings. Which, again, you do you, but don’t act as though you’re above it all. Because if examined, and all he’s doing is being an attention seeker, you’ve given him just as much attention as I have.

I always thought the saying “If you have nothing good to say, then don’t say anything at all” was lame. Being overly positive doesn’t help anyone, right? The opposite is also true. I find that you have to take the chance and extend an olive branch to these kinds of people. Proverbs 25:21–22 says that if you show your enemies mercy, it will be akin to heaping hot coals on their head and that the Lord will reward you. So even if you don’t even like the person, you still get the benefit of being blessed by taking the nicer approach. (Mind you, this scripture—like the one which says to turn the other cheek—is not telling you to be a doormat. The framing here places the reader in a position of power over their enemy, i.e., they’re hungry and thirsty, and you have the ability to feed and hydrate them.)

I’m aware I sound like the internet feel-good police. I’m biased to the particular issue being presented. I’m also aware that simply mentioning the shortcomings of my argument doesn’t make it any more sound. You sound jaded—maybe you have a good reason. I don’t know. I don’t know you. Doesn’t matter what I think, but what is the internet for if not discussion?

Spoiler: More Advice

You gotta change your thinking. You view women as a monolith. Mostly because you’re not one, and also probably because you don’t really interact with them. It’s really not hard to change that line of thinking. For example, when one woman says one man did or said a bad thing, you take personal offense to it because you know you don’t do that. It’s the same concept. Imagine if you did that in real life. Imagine if people were just having a random conversation about something all... idk, green people do, and you, being a green person, know that you don’t do that thing. Would you start screaming about how you don’t do that thing? No, you wouldn’t (at least I hope you wouldn’t). Same concept.


If you want to practice, read the DMZ thread (don’t post or shit-stir, just read). If you see something and it makes you upset, but you don’t partake in that action, then just assume they’re not talking about you—even if they use the term all. People generalize; it’s how we’re wired. Hell, you generalize women. So even if you don’t agree with what I’m saying, isn’t it a bit unfair and hypocritical to minge about them doing the same? It’d be one thing if you didn’t generalize, but you do.


Once you’re able to separate yourself and look at what’s actually being said, you realize that what they’re saying makes sense—that their arguments have merit. And once you can do that, the rest is easy. I say all this because I think that the fact that you decided to try to explain yourself means, on some fundamental level, you understand you’re not 100% in the right.


Again, I’m rooting for you. Start small—change the name, the picture—move from there, if for no other reason than to prove everyone calling you an insufferable dreg wrong. Or maybe I really am wasting my time like @crazedaze said.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

Ladies what's better crack or heroin

 

[pork and beans]

Ladies what's better crack or heroin

caffeine

 

[DickMain]

Yes, the problem is that women can sniff out that I'm an incel from miles away, every time I decide to be open minded and attempt to open up to them they get the "ick" and find a different, taller chadlite. I'm in a vague, niche hell.

This is redacted enough I think. Ebil narcissistic mirror physique post.

Wyświetl załącznik 7193211

Oh but it doesn't matter because they'll sniff out that I didn't socialize well in middle school. Fuckin a right I'm in a catch 22, and now I'm the reddit asshole (YTA PATHETIC INCEL) for it, and nothing is useful.

How old are you? How old do you think I am? I cannot find IRL dating events without "50+" or "40+" attached to it anywhere. I am in my early 20s. Joever...

Cute treasure trail, princess.

 

[Treatlerite]

Everytime I skim this thread I am convinced the hidden purpose is for masochistic Kiwi men to get off to female users being mean to them. What does one seriously expect with like 65% of these questions?

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

Does a brownpilled doomer ricecell such as myself have a chance with a woke alt-right ibs femcel or should I just an hero and get it over with? I have negative canthal tilt and indented head fyi

 

[Susanna]

Ladies what's better crack or heroin

Crack 100%, but I prefer blow.

 

[A Cat in a Minefield]

Does a brownpilled doomer ricecell such as myself have a chance with a woke alt-right ibs femcel or should I just an hero and get it over with? I have negative canthal tilt and indented head fyi

Negtive canthal tilt? You are so cooked bro. RIP og fr. You could Looxmaxx your eyes with a rizzed up piece of Ohio wire though.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

Negtive canthal tilt? You are so cooked bro. RIP og fr. You could Looxmaxx your eyes with a rizzed up piece of Ohio wire though.

One of my favorite incel trends was when they thought that smashing your head with a hammer would make your eyebrows grow bigger

 

[Otterly]

I'm barely even 5'9."

That’s fine. Plenty of women out there who are short and most women aren’t over five foot nine unless you’re Dutch. There’s a guy I’ve always found fabulous and he’s way shorter than that. Get over yourself
It’s not your height. Don’t get leg lengthening surgery, that’s retarded. You’ll cripple yourself. You’ll look weirdly proportioned. You will never be able to do high impact excercise or even mid again, and you will face pain in later life. It’s not even comparable to a knee injury or a regular break, the bone will never ever be strong enough to sustain and active life. Do not do it. Don’t wear lifts, that’s just daft.
Concentrating on your height means you’re blaming an aspect that is a. Not your fault and b. Cannot be changed. This means you allow yourself to give everything else a pass. It’s like Anna o Brien insisting she simply cannot lose weight because all 600lb of fat is fibrotic, and she needs surgery rather than to put the fork down. It allows her to go through life never realising what the issue is at all, and carrying on doing maladaptive behaviours that will kill her.
It’s not your height. Five nine is tall to short chicks.
What are you after in a partner? Where would such a person hang out? What would THEY want in you?
The advice to treat women as humans is spot on. Do that. We can smell when people hate us.

Does a brownpilled doomer ricecell such as myself have a chance with a woke alt-right ibs femcel or should I just an hero and get it over with? I have negative canthal tilt and indented head fyi

An indented head? Wut?

 

[Lidl Drip]

Don't believe her lies, it's when grandma says you're a handsome boy.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

An indented head? Wut?

I can tell you ain't from the south if you ain't never seen no guy with no dent in his head you ain't a real redneck that's for true

 

[Otterly]

I can tell you ain't from the south if you ain't never seen no guy with no dent in his head you ain't a real redneck that's for true

I’m not no, but I’m not American. Show me an example.

 

[ThePozzedOutCritic]

I’m not no, but I’m not American. Show me an example.

Mah uncle Samson looks like that but he's normal just like you or I he just can't count no good

 

[Otterly]

Wyświetl załącznik 7197719
Mah uncle Samson looks like that but he's normal just like you or I he just can't count no good

He looks surprisingly cheerful about it, doesn’t he?

Don't believe her lies, it's when grandma says you're a handsome boy.

I’ve no idea if he’s handsome as we only have an extremely gay parental-bathroom selfie of the torso, but my point was that blaming height allows him to put the locus of control on something that’s not his fault, and stops him from looking at any reason he can control. It removes accountability from him.
And since five foot nine is not terribly short, it’s more likely his personality at fault, or the dislike of women seeping through.
Or maybe he has half his skull missing.
You’d think they’d print out some kind of hard cover for that wouldn’t you? The temptation to poke it must be immense