- Dołączono
- 6 Mar 2023
Anal is something you have to be introduced to, one way or another. A lot of exclusive fags aren't into it from the beginning, because there are so many points of resistance -- both physical & psychological -- that you have to struggle past in order to even get off the ground.I've never been interested in rectally sodomizing either sex (it always looked like a war crime outside of the cartoons), so it's good to get confirmation that the psychology of it works in the way you're describing.
The experience of it is unlike any other type of homosexual activity in that control of the situation lies with the superior party, as opposed to the subordinate. In more pedestrian variations of sodomy, it's the hierarchically "lower" half of the act in whom trust is placed; he's the one whose hands or teeth are within striking distance of a sensitive part of another person's body; he dictates the proceedings. It's a mutual give-and-take, in which you voluntarily assume an inferior position in exchange for responsibility.
Buttlove offers no such recourse. The subordinate is the one who has to give his trust to a potentially dangerous person. It differs in a number of other ways, too -- it's the only male-on-male sex act that can be physically pleasurable for both participants, it hurts (badly) for the person on the receiving end, and yet, paradoxically, you have to release tension in order to make anything happen (that's how those muscles work). The giver is the captain and the navigator, and the recipient is at his mercy, in hopes of being lead to something; in this sense, it begins to resemble a very different kind of relationship.
I do wonder if the men of the thread find any one form of sodomy repulsive in a unique way, or if it's all just varying levels of the same general ick.
When it comes to TiMs, Blanchard was right -- about the dual typology, I mean, not anything else. Either something happens to them before puberty to make them internalise the "woman" role, or they psyop themselves into developing an emasculation fetish later on (which seems surprisingly easy to do, for some reason). The lines do blur a little when you introduce porn & stuff into the mix, but I can say with confidence that these are the two motivations and they result in markedly different kinds of tranny behaviour.Studies should be done on the motivations that men and women troon out. We don't have any numbers, it's kind of a silly argument.
Pooners are a different breed entirely. You probably can't screw up a girl's development in a way that makes her think she's actually a man, so I'm left to believe that the yaoi gooners are the only ones who actually want to be male and the rest are either trying to become un-women or hurt themselves.