An unpromising start to your own premise. Modern feminism is a toothless zombie. It’s more a marketing strategy for corporations and politicians than a cohesive social movement. Anyone seriously blaming it for their personal problems comes off as impotent, overly socialized on the internet, and from India. Societal cockblockers are pornography, addiction, economic constraints, environmental factors, and community erosion. Not “boss babe” and “nevertheless she persisted” laptop stickers. What neoliberal feminism does accomplish is encouraging women to dress up their loneliness, exhaustion, and anger as empowerment (especially if it empowers you to buy product and vote for candidate) and to consider a self-centered and status-oriented way of life to be a form of liberation in an increasingly inhabitable and unaffordable environment. It can be provocative and divisive, which makes it an ideal distraction, but it’s not the actual source of people’s loneliness, exhaustion, and anger.