- Dołączono
- 6 Lip 2022
Based Dad
To keep a longer story kinda short ish, I came out to my dad about 2 months ago. I started it out by asking "would you support me if I was transgender?" and he flat out said "no, why do you think you are or something?". To sum up that convo he said he'll still love me no matter what but he doesn't support my decision nor does he want me coming over looking and or dressing like a woman.
I had to go over recently and I can't remember exactly how l worded it, but shortly before I was leaving I had said something and referred to myself as a gal at the end of my sentence. He responds with "gal?", so I said "well yeah if no one's gonna pronoun me correctly around here l'll do it myself". I had said that last thing in kind of a joking manner, and his response was "oh yeah you'll never catch me doing that shit". I was so fed up with him in the moment i just turned my back and left.
I'm just not entirely sure what to do about it.
Part of me just wants to be done entirely with him and just cut his disrespectful ass off, but the other part of me wants to still give him a chance and maybe give him an ultimatum or something. He's always been a selfish and controlling piece of shit throughout my life.
Like this man literally refused to call me by my old preferred dead name because "it's not the name he gave me", even though he goes by a nickname himself!!
Thank you for taking the time to read :3
I had to go over recently and I can't remember exactly how l worded it, but shortly before I was leaving I had said something and referred to myself as a gal at the end of my sentence. He responds with "gal?", so I said "well yeah if no one's gonna pronoun me correctly around here l'll do it myself". I had said that last thing in kind of a joking manner, and his response was "oh yeah you'll never catch me doing that shit". I was so fed up with him in the moment i just turned my back and left.
I'm just not entirely sure what to do about it.
Part of me just wants to be done entirely with him and just cut his disrespectful ass off, but the other part of me wants to still give him a chance and maybe give him an ultimatum or something. He's always been a selfish and controlling piece of shit throughout my life.
Like this man literally refused to call me by my old preferred dead name because "it's not the name he gave me", even though he goes by a nickname himself!!
Thank you for taking the time to read :3






















































































