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I may just not understand what you mean, then; I haven't really read porn written by women. I'm not sure what you could be referring to other than physically implausible fetishes.
Fujo porn is essentially lesbians with dicks put in situations that are implausible for the men involved. The non-porn places the homosexual (bottom, but it varies) as some kind of surrogate Other that women feel kin to, except through a kind of empowerment and freedom that they're not capable of. Yaoi is a business lawyer prince in a high pressure situation who falls for some kind of slave and is both sensitive and a rapist and can cook and the lesser man is the key to his heart. It's a female fantasy. Baragay shit is two office workers who get drunk and play video games and overcome some internalized homophobia before they go to work the next day, maybe they start dating, the fantasy starts about there.

I have never read actual lesbian porn, it's all about 900 pages and there's no sex.
 
I had to go look it up. It has an oppression narrative. I'll make a chart that may be useful in the future:

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Needs some more data points. Like where would Brokeback Mountain go (I'm guessing straight audience, oppression narrative?) .. and would Call Me By Your Name be like gay audience, right in the middle?
 
Needs some more data points. Like where would Brokeback Mountain go (I'm guessing straight audience, oppression narrative?) .. and would Call Me By Your Name be like gay audience, right in the middle?
Updated Chart:
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I haven't seen everything that's on this chart, and I had to go look some stuff up for other parts to refresh my memory. If anyone disagrees with my placements, I encourage them to voice their corrections. I refuse to go within 1,000 feet of Call Me By Your Name, so that one's a guess based on what I remember from the looking up the early life section on the Wikipedia article for the director.

Baragay shit is two office workers who get drunk and play video games and overcome some internalized homophobia before they go to work the next day, maybe they start dating, the fantasy starts about there.
I can see what you mean now. Half the time, even if it's some sci-fi or fantasy setting with a bunch of crazy aliens or chimeras or whatever, they still set the stuff in college dorms or public bathrooms. It's the Bertrand Russel of fantasy; just total base material slave-brain garbage clipping the wings off of the human imagination and pinning it to the ground. Wild.

Also you bring up an interesting point: the only real vaguely sovlful part is usually the motion from denial to honesty; it's the one place where you get a real increase in depth-of-understanding. Nowhere to really go from there though unless it's just more fetishes (which obviously winds up in a dark place if you extend it very far), unless—again—it transitions into a buddy comedy.

I have never read actual lesbian porn, it's all about 900 pages and there's no sex.
Before I came to this website, I thought that lesbianism was real. Then I started talking to them and asking them about how they experience romance and attraction. They just sound like incredibly closeted straight people. Homosexuality is incestuous fraternity—I don't know that women have an equivalent to fraternity that's even possible to sexualize. They seem to struggle with real friendship as a concept. I wouldn't be surprised if the ones that do experience "fraternity" misinterpret it—willfully or otherwise—as romantic love.

Gay men will treat their funny business like it's crack cocaine; they can't stop even if they really want to, and will do it until they are dead. Gay women seem to treat it like it's jury duty.
 
Ostatnio edytowane:
I haven't seen everything that's on this chart, and I had to go look some stuff up for other parts to refresh my memory. If anyone disagrees with my placements, I encourage them to voice their corrections. I refuse to go within 1,000 feet of Call Me By Your Name, so that one's a guess based on what I remember from the looking up the early life section on the Wikipedia article for the director.
Wonder where Mary Renault's novels would fit in the chart. They're pretty unique as it's gay romance historical fiction written by a lesbian. Would she fit under early Yaoi?
 
Wonder where Mary Renault's novels would fit in the chart. They're pretty unique as it's gay romance historical fiction written by a lesbian. Would she fit under early Yaoi?
This can be an exercise. Where would you place it, with the three axes being porn (sex appeal), buddy comedy (actual realistic mechanics of male bonding), and oppression narrative (anything where the conflict comes from society not accepting them)?
 
This can be an exercise. Where would you place it, with the three axes being porn (sex appeal), buddy comedy (actual realistic mechanics of male bonding), and oppression narrative (anything where the conflict comes from society not accepting them)?
Zero porn at 400+ pages which tracks with the author being a lesbian. No oppression narrative in most of her ancient historical fiction, lots in the Charioteer. Wouldn't call it comedy either so the bottom left corner of the triangle? The thing is, I would still say that the vast majority of her audience is gay or some flavor of artistic/autistic.

Edit: Updated gay chart.
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Also you bring up an interesting point: the only real vaguely sovlful part is usually the motion from denial to honesty; it's the one place where you get a real increase in depth-of-understanding. Nowhere to really go from there though unless it's just more fetishes (which obviously winds up in a dark place if you extend it very far), unless—again—it transitions into a buddy comedy.
Such is life. Total depravity or mythopoetic buddy comedy.

That's the best thing about genuinely gay lit, it's realist and representative of a contemporary or historical reality (or speculates in a certain way, almost all of the Weird and Speculative fiction writers are fags), and queers and women don't like or relate to it. You know who does, and I want to see your opinion because you're more of an esoteric philosopher than the usual homophobe, straight guys. The kind who read fiction, which is a very different type of person all around, but still. There's a lot of homosocial, romantic and even sexual behavior that, because I despise queer theory, I find to be heteronormative. It's not-straight, but the contemporary hetero/bi/homo distinctions don't account for it.

I bring it up because there's often a labeled and explicated distinction made about maleness and what is gay that recognizes marginal outliers who are straight---as men and not-gay---where the mainstream societal onus has abjected all of it. You could call it a perversion of fraternity, but descriptively speaking, expressions of fraternity include and may be the definition of this behavior. Nohomo.
 
mind telling me how a movie about faggot cowboys who ruin their family appeals to straights?

Men deciding that they're gay all of a sudden and abandoning their wife and children in favor of poopy manbutt was a precursor to men who go full autogynephile and abandon their wife and children for similar reasons.
 
mind telling me how a movie about faggot cowboys who ruin their family appeals to straights?
Well I'm the one who put it there on the chart, and I've never actually seen the movie.

The reasoning is that the more heavily oppression narratives feature, the more it'll appeal to a straight prog audience than gays who—I assume—probably just want to see gay stuff happen.

It occurs to me that there's no reason to assume that this is the case for a majority of gays, though. My original point with the chart was just that without sex or oppression narratives, there's nothing identifiably gay about a gay story.

Wouldn't call it comedy either so the bottom left corner of the triangle?
A "buddy drama" would also fit in the right bottom corner; I'm talking about the dynamics mainly.

Such is life. Total depravity or mythopoetic buddy comedy.

That's the best thing about genuinely gay lit, it's realist and representative of a contemporary or historical reality (or speculates in a certain way, almost all of the Weird and Speculative fiction writers are fags), and queers and women don't like or relate to it. You know who does
I'm not sure that I do; I'm not really sure what "Weird and Speculative fiction" you're referring to. It's possible that I know what you mean, but can you elaborate?

I'm also not sure what the distinction you're drawing between "queers" and "fags" is. Are "queers" straight they/thems, while "fags" are the "real gays"?

The best I can parse is that you might mean that "queers" and women don't understand the mythopoetic buddy comedy, while "fags" are drawn to this (even if typically in incestuous depictions).

and I want to see your opinion because you're more of an esoteric philosopher than the usual homophobe, straight guys. The kind who read fiction, which is a very different type of person all around, but still.
I'll do what I can. I believe I went into depth on the subject you're asking about earlier in the thread: my position is that—on one level—sexual fetishism is religious and mystical psychology collapsed into the lizard-brain so that it can have a shallow half-life under our contemporary materialist slave-paradigm.

Sex is only the "ultimate act" in a paradigm with no contact with a transcendent source of life-power.

Beyond the materialist slave-level, it makes sense for the powers that be to acclimate people to this way of understanding sex because it's actually the same general understanding of sex as is seen in the sorcery that they use—the difference being that in sorcery, the ritualism is no longer understood as empty and innefectual beyond the psyche. You could call it a form of recruitment for those who figure it out (but who probably haven't yet noticed the annihilationist ethos undergirding that superstructure—they'll be let in on that once they've marinated enough in the subtext to be cool with it).

Essentialy, the "fags" you describe don't really want a husband or male-wife (despite what roles they may put on); what they really want are fellow initiates.

Gays will say that women are bad at sex and romance, but that's impossible; women define sex and romance: you can define "romance" as "the border and permeable membrane between men and women". Women can't be bad at something that they are the boundary of; it'd be like saying that lakes and oceans are bad at beaches. Compared to what? You dumping sand in your living room? That has properties of a beach, but it's not a beach.

The fraternal erotic (not in a necedsarily sexual sense) drama is an initiatory drama. It's all about mutual initiatory struggle. How that plays out just depends on what you're being initiated into, but the underlying uniative psychology is the same. It's all about some kind of agonistic transformative experience undergone together, or done by one to the other.

There's a lot of homosocial, romantic and even sexual behavior that, because I despise queer theory, I find to be heteronormative.
This is very confusingly phrased, but I think you're saying that queer theory weirdos are claiming normal aspects of the human experience as part of their territory—redefining the desire to be close to or "know" a member of the same sex as "homoromanticism", for example.

It's not-straight, but the contemporary hetero/bi/homo distinctions don't account for it.
If there's blood flowing downstairs, it's gay. Everything else is straight. Weird, maybe, but straight.

I bring it up because there's often a labeled and explicated distinction made about maleness and what is gay that recognizes marginal outliers who are straight---as men and not-gay---where the mainstream societal onus has abjected all of it. You could call it a perversion of fraternity, but descriptively speaking, expressions of fraternity include and may be the definition of this behavior. Nohomo.
I don't know what behaviors you're referring to. Could you elaborate?
 
Men deciding that they're gay all of a sudden and abandoning their wife and children in favor of poopy manbutt was a precursor to men who go full autogynephile and abandon their wife and children for similar reasons.
More like people are forced to hide themselves and suddenly as society becomes more accepting they can be open about who they really are.
 
people are forced to hide themselves and suddenly as society becomes more accepting they can be open about who they really are.
Don't forget, pedos could easily use this exact same argument. This is why I hate using it.
Besides, one can always control their actions, so this isn't even REALLY the case, anyone can refuse to act a certain way if they have self control
 
Don't forget, pedos could easily use this exact same argument. This is why I hate using it.
Besides, one can always control their actions, so this isn't even REALLY the case, anyone can refuse to act a certain way if they have self control

Then there's the fact that the increases in the percentages in LGBTQ identification are almost exclusively amongst younger and younger generations.

Surely if the greater percentage of LGBTQ identifying people were due to more acceptance and not social contagion, grooming, glorification of LGBTQ in the media, or escalation in porn habits, we'd be seeing increases across the board, and not the most easily manipulated, impressionable people.

And surely if the greater amount of troons in the population were people no longer having to hide it, why do we see suicide epidemics now, but not back then when transgenderism was rightly considered a severe mental illness and treated as such?

Though to be fair, it's only just now, as I'm typing this comment, that I took a peek at @Lain Poster 's profile to see the negative reaction score.
 
Surely if the greater percentage of LGBTQ identifying people were due to more acceptance and not social contagion, grooming, glorification of LGBTQ in the media, or escalation in porn habits, we'd be seeing increases across the board, and not the most easily manipulated, impressionable people.
T and Q and the other Q are up, G and L barely moved enough to be significant, B...is what it is. I'd want to see raw data and the methodologies on these surveys because the ones I've seen aren't apples to apples.
 
Surely if the greater percentage of LGBTQ identifying people were due to more acceptance and not social contagion, grooming, glorification of LGBTQ in the media, or escalation in porn habits, we'd be seeing increases across the board, and not the most easily manipulated, impressionable people.
this entire thread is faggots dancing around this question because we all know it's true.
 
this entire thread is faggots dancing around this question because we all know it's true.
You're the expert so share your own experiences with us. Did you ever feel a little queer or trans when gooning to furry porn?
 
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