You know, I've never understood this whole ~you can't love others if you don't love yourself~ thing. Loving others has always been so much easier for me than liking myself.
Loving other people boils down to treating them like you want to be treated. Extend them compassion and don't think only of yourself. Give as much, or more, than you take. That's basically it. So easy. It's a lot harder to turn that back around onto yourself when all you can focus on is your flaws and imperfections, but it's so easy not to see (or obsess about) other's flaws and imperfections.
But I guess to an empty cluster b personality it is hard to love others (because they don't really exist except to be useful) and hard to love yourself (because you're empty inside). I doubt these people ever learn to love themselves, we know they never seem to learn to love others, given how many of their relationships crash and burn.
Anyway, there's no real point to this. Just musing, I guess.